My ex girlfriend wants to get back together, and I didn t agree in the end, is it right for me to do

I think it's right, if she really loves you, she won't leave you, she leaves other men thinking about you, that's what she loves is herself, not you at all. Sometimes you have to be ruthless, there are losses and gains, the old does not go, the new does not come, come on.

To tell you the truth, you rejected her ruthlessly. But you're still in love with her, and it's useless to ask someone about this kind of thing.

You ask yourself, when you see her again, do you still have the same heart-warming feeling as when you were together? Would it still feel bad to see her walking with other men? Those emotions are love or just sympathy and pity, if you feel that it is love, go back, if you really don't love, tell her clearly, break up and don't be a lover or be a lover.

Or you look at her pitiful, and you can help her get a relationship right from a friend's point of view.

Impulsiveness is the devil, I think you only proposed to break up because you wanted to get your girlfriend's attention, but your girlfriend doesn't think so, she will think you are vexatious. As long as you apologize to her and explain that you proposed to break up because you care about her too much. I'm sure you'll get back together.

Bless you all! Hope it helps.

Men should be ruthless.

If you don't make it clear to her, she doesn't have a clear answer, and if she is more amorous, you will be the culprit who drags down her youth in the future, and women are unreasonable in many ways. You understand

Leave decisively and keep your distance from everything.

My ex-girlfriend and I broke up n times, but every time they got back together with me, they shouldn't have agreed. Because a relationship is not a trivial matter, if you can break up at will, it means that the woman does not value this relationship and will not be together for a long time.

1. There is a certain reason why girlfriends often mention breaking up.

Second, many breakups continue to consume each other's feelings.

The man and woman have broken up many times, which shows that the emotional foundation of the two people has been destroyed. Girls may be limited by their previous experiences and family values, and their approach to feelings may not be mature enough. She believes that a conflict between a man and a woman and a breakup can solve things that are difficult to solve at the moment, but she doesn't know that breaking up is a very emotional thing.

Even if two people have a good relationship, but the boy will feel tired or think too much because of multiple breakups. If you don't cherish it well, it's likely that your boyfriend was with someone else during the breakup.

3. Take love seriously.

If your ex-girlfriend comes back to you to get back together, it is advisable not to say yes, especially if you are a couple who have broken up multiple times. Since the breakup means that the two are not suitable, it is impossible to escape the problem with a breakup for the rest of their lives, and how to get rid of the problems in the relationship between the two parties in the future, so it seems that the two parties are actually not suitable or it is better to separate.

I think it's still up to you, if you feel that the two of you still have room to turn around and have feelings, then you can continue to get along, but if you feel that you are tired, then why not make yourself easier.

I don't agree to see if I have feelings for her, if you both have each other and don't break the moral bottom line, I think it's okay to continue, if two people are not happy together, I don't think there is any need to force it.

Personally, I don't think I should agree, this kind of girl feels like she has her own ideas, and she always feels that the other party cares about herself, and she has a little personality of her own. From my personal point of view, I can't joke about emotional matters, and it is recommended to communicate with my girlfriend on appropriate occasions.

The ex-girlfriend is unwilling to get back together, then you will break up, and now that you have broken up, he is not willing to get back together, you don't force it, the marriage you want is unhappy, you go to find your own happiness, you will definitely be able to meet your favorite person, he is also the person who likes you the most, such people can only organize a happy family when they meet together, and they can live happily.

In this case, there is still a chance, but it is still necessary to prove himself, and the reason why he is so determined, to analyze it, to find the reason, and to prescribe the right medicine.

At the same time, the most critical reason for being able to get back together is one's own change, not one's own entanglement.

There's no hope, she doesn't delete you, it's just for the sake of the past, I don't want to get too stiff with you, we can be friends if we are okay, if you don't understand and go to pester her, I'm afraid it will really break off with you from now on.

For the ex-girlfriend who does not agree to get back together, you can try to get along with her as a friend first, and then slowly fade for a month, and when he is calm, he thinks of his own good, and he is slowly trying to talk to her about getting back together.

Make yourself better.

As for what should be better, it is generally career or personality. Because in the process of falling in love, in addition to having similar personalities, the two must also have basic material security. It's beautiful for two people to be together, but if you want to continue this relationship for a long time, you need to keep each other on the same plane, so that you can feel comfortable in each other's relationship.

It is not required to be exactly the same, but at least it must be on the same platform, so that you can be more consistent in terms of values and worldview, so that you can feel that the other party is the one who goes on with you.

If the other party does not agree to get back together, then you don't need to stalk, you should change yourself first, see if you are deficient, and you should work hard to make yourself better. As for the feelings, they must go with the flow, and the uneasiness of the twist is not sweet.

Love is disappearing step by step, if you still love her, take action to save her! Stand the test of time, treat the love between you sincerely, and believe that time will not fail your efforts. Feelings are two-sided, she has no intention of you, so there is no need to redeem and adjust herself.

Since the other party has clearly rejected you, I hope you don't bother, it means that it is impossible, not deleting your friend is to give you the last face, so don't bother him anymore, leave quietly, and find your own love.

Now that your ex-girlfriend has said this, it means that she doesn't mean to get back together with you at all, I think you should let it go, and you may not be able to even be an ordinary friend.

Since he doesn't agree to break up, maybe someone has a new friend, after all, time has passed, and letting go of others is letting go of yourself, now you should think about whether your relationship still needs to continue, whether it is suitable to be together. If you don't think it's necessary, then completely disconnect, you can't break the silk lotus, there is no point in stalking and fighting, it will only make things worse and worse.

You have no hope, your ex-girlfriend didn't delete you, it proves that it's not necessary, if you don't contact you, there's no need to delete it, she also said don't make a fuss, she said so, I hope you don't want to get back together with her, and save some face for yourself.

Since the ex-girlfriend has already resolutely said that she has broken up, there should be no possibility of getting back together, as she said, it's better to get together and break up.

The other party has made it clear that if you don't want to get back together with you, then don't pester others, and if you pester others, they may just be disgusted with you, and they won't say it, and there will be some improvements.

The ex-girlfriend does not agree to get back together, which means that he is already very disappointed in you, and you have tried your best to redeem it, so you don't have to be persistent, you are forcing it, so that he can only dislike you more, you can only tell him that they are okay and that they are looking for happiness.

Based on your description, I would suggest that you respect your girlfriend's decision in this situation. Because what she means is that even if you break up, you won't embarrass everyone, or even affect the work or life of both parties. She hopes that after separation, you can both find the person you really love.

Hope mine is helpful to you.

If your ex-girlfriend doesn't agree to get back together, then you can give up in the future, the twisted melon is not sweet.

I think your girlfriend has made it very clear, she is already very decisive and decisive, and I suggest you look forward and get out of this relationship.

You asked a few times, if you mention getting back together three times, and he doesn't agree, I suggest you don't get back together, there are so many girls in China, you don't have to spend too much time on one girl.

Judging from the text sent by your girlfriend, your girlfriend probably doesn't want to entangle with you anymore, so she will reject you, and you should also know how to let go.

I don't know how you're doing now I'm the opposite of you The boy is from Chongqing I'm from Anhui I really feel very far away Today he said to come to me to meet and see things like train tickets and suddenly don't want to watch it I was really happy So.

If you still have feelings for her, it's better to forget about her, not deleting you is not giving you a chance, some people just keep a memory, and the best way is to end the relationship.

You have worked hard, she still doesn't want to get back together, that's not suitable, don't embarrass her is also a way to love her, we don't have to love to get, letting go is also a kind of love, you will also meet the one you love and love you in the future, it has developed to this point that there is no hope, don't do useless fighting.

You already have a girlfriend and your ex-girlfriend is looking for you to get back together, you can directly refuse to tell the other party that it is impossible and say that you already have a girlfriend and have a very stable relationship with your girlfriend, and you have no intention of breaking up.

That is to say, I told her that I have no feelings anymore, it is impossible to be together again, and I also have a new girlfriend and started a new relationship, and I hope he will not come to me to say so.

On the premise that you already have a girlfriend, and your ex-girlfriend still comes to you to get back together, it is recommended to take your current girlfriend directly to meet her and tell her that she already has a girlfriend and stop harassing you.

As long as you're willing to say no, it's easy! Call your girlfriend in front of your ex-girlfriend and show that you love her very much, so that your ex-girlfriend will die, and your current girlfriend will be very relieved.

Only to tell her clearly that it is impossible to get back together. If you ask you to be ambiguous, she still has compound thoughts, which are not good for you or for her.

You can tell her that you already have someone you love, and now you are living happily, and you will not look back, and hope she doesn't bother you.

Refuse directly and decisively, make it clear that you already have a girlfriend, don't come to pester me, avoid him as much as you can, don't have any contact with her, and cherish your current girlfriend.