What are some particular reasons you ve heard of for rejection?

The junior high school class study committee has a very cute first love face, coupled with excellent character and learning, it has become the object of many boys' crushes, just! Because her mother was the director of teaching, no one dared to confess to him. Then one day, her mother was transferred to another place for half a month because of work.

The sports committee member of the next class mustered up eighty points of courage. stopped her in the corridor and said, "Classmate, I like you" and the two classes gathered around to watch the play. The girl scratched the back of her head.

I laughed a little, what a coincidence, I like myself too. It's the cutest reason for rejection I've ever seen.

The fifth-grade homeroom teacher is a particularly fierce old lady, and she will be scolded to death if she is late. One morning, I got up five minutes late, got up and rushed to school with my bag on my back, and was eight minutes late when I arrived at the door of the classroom. In a flash of inspiration, I took out my homework book from my schoolbag and shouted the report at the door.

The head teacher turned to look at me, his expression brewing towards the hair, and shouted, "What's going on?" Coming to class so early and not sleeping for a while? I raised the homework in my hand, "Didn't you say last time, whoever forgot to bring their homework will go home to pick it up, I just wanted to hand in my homework before class, and I found that I forgot to bring it, so I quickly ran back to get my homework, and I didn't have time to tell you."

Oh, then, sit back and be careful. Sitting in the seat, I slowly wrote down the homework that I had missed the day before, and respectfully "made up" it to the head teacher after class.

It just so happened that for more than 20 days, I was working out with a few people in my dormitory, and then there was a very fat one who also wanted to lose weight, but he always didn't go often. His excuse is something like this: "I have a club activity tonight (but he didn't join the club)" or "I'm so tired, I haven't eaten today, I don't have the strength (but he eats more than anyone else)" or something like this:

Pretend to be asleep, the kind that won't wake up if you hit him, and then go like this: "You go first, I'll go after that (but he's playing games in the dormitory)".

A colleague of a little girl lives on the 32nd floor, and when she came home from work, she found that the elevator was broken, so she climbed the stairs straight upstairs, still holding the vegetables and oil she had just bought. Panting and walking to the 27th floor, I couldn't walk anymore, but I found that the elevator suddenly improved, and it was going down from the 35th floor. She hurriedly rushed to the elevator and pressed the elevator to enter, but found that the elevator kept going down and couldn't press it.

When the elevator reached the first floor and the door was opened, a maintenance worker squatted at the door and said to her very surprised, "Little girl, why are you still inside, I don't know if the elevator is broken, come out quickly" So the next day, she dragged her almost broken leg to the unit and told the leader about this bumpy mental journey.

Sometimes we can't be too direct when we reject others, which can be very hurtful, and the most special reason I've ever heard of rejection is that I can't get out of bed in the morning, which is really special.

I have been rejected by a person in my life, he said that you are good, but we are not suitable! Unhappy! Why did I go earlier, a year to wait for this sentence, but I still want to thank him, after all, he gave me a taste of rejection.

It's been more than 20 years, and sometimes I still think of that scene, but people can't remember it clearly, the so-called first love is really a failure.

Rejection is not the same as ruthlessness, nor is it obstinate, but the legitimate choice to effectively protect yourself in life. Everyone should realize that rejecting others is as common as being rejected by others. Rejecting someone doesn't mean you're going to hurt your good relationship or losing your friends.

In general, refusal should be considered in the following cases:

1) Violating the principles of one's own life;

2) It does not conform to one's own interests and hobbies;

3) Violating one's own values.

4) may get into trouble;

5) Damage to one's own personality;

6) foster vanity;

7) vulgar trading;

8) Illegal and criminal acts.

In everyday interpersonal interactions, it is appropriate to be enthusiastic about helping others and being responsive to the difficulties of others. Helping others is the foundation of happiness, and when you can help others, you must lend a hand in time, but you must do what you can, if you encounter something you can't do and say yes, it will only make things worse in the end. Therefore, when you can't do anything about it, you have to dare to say no.

However, when rejecting someone, it is necessary to avoid hurting the other person and avoid embarrassing situations for both parties, that is, to master certain skills. If it is not used properly, it will inevitably hurt the feelings of both parties. If you say "no" bluntly, it will disappoint and embarrass the person seeking help, and one that meets the expectations of the other person, even if it is a rejection, can be easily accepted by the other person.

If you are really unwilling to help others in your heart, then I think you should resolutely refuse him, follow your true thoughts in your heart, and don't let yourself be wronged.