What reasons would you choose to reject a confession from the opposite sex?

Be resolute. Rejection is inevitably a disservice, but it should not be used to discourage you. Since it is the person who is in love with you, he is very sensitive to your words and deeds.

If your attitude of refusing love is not resolute enough, it is easy to cause misunderstanding of the other party, especially if the other party is in a situation where you love you deeply, and the thinking you adopt out of politeness or consideration will make the other party feel that you also love him, at least let him feel that there is hope, and in the end it often brings greater harm than refusing love. My rejection of the confession of the opposite sex is very direct, directly indicating that we are not suitable for each other.

I was only rejected, and I fell in love with a senior sister in my sophomore year. We went to the supermarket together, ate together, and then I always took the initiative to chat with her, and my senior sister never took the initiative to find me. Senior sister is in her third year of Chinese language internship, every time I talk to her, I feel that it is an awkward conversation, just like my previous exams, I always feel that I haven't played well, the content of the chat is like writing, incoherent, every time I wait for her to reply to the message, I am super excited; I thought about giving up but I felt that I couldn't miss it, but I was a little short, my senior sister liked the stars all over the sky, she didn't blow her hair after washing her hair for fear of split ends, she wanted to come back on the Qingming Festival to send her a bouquet of stars, and asked her how she planned to go on the Qingming holiday, she said that she was going to play with a friend, and she had 30,000 crit in her heart.

In fact, I want to invite her to the movies on the Qingming Festival, and I also want to practice calligraphy, and when I write to her, the words can be better than now, and the calligraphy will be used as practice I don't know why I have these thoughts. Then, I really gave up now, she should have rejected me tactfully, no longer have to wait for her to reply to the message, and no longer have to adapt a hot comment from Netease because of one of her dynamics, "No matter what we become like in the future, please remember that it is true that we once liked you, and the rest of the way cannot be with you, take care of yourself, Sansheng is fortunate to meet you".

You have to be honest. Between the opposite sex, it is very taboo and unclear, procrastinating. Since you don't like the other person, you might as well be honest.

You can tell him how you feel about him, such as not calling each other, for example, you prefer to be friends, etc., and the other party will not feel embarrassed to see you so down-to-earth and generous.

You first praise the other party's strengths, say that the other person is very good, praise the other party's character, appearance, personality, career, studies, etc. according to the specific situation, and then talk about some of your own shortcomings, and then politely reject the other party, and say the reason why you are not suitable.

Some young people, in order to make their confession appear romantic, creative and profound, will ask their friends, classmates, and roommates to help them, that is, there will be many people to witness that moment. Everyone has self-esteem, and if you directly and ruthlessly refuse in person, the other party will not be able to get off the stage, and the other party will become a topic. Be sure to think of a way to reject the other person, and it is best to choose a place with few people and a quiet place to make it clear to the other party.

The premise is to ensure your own safety in advance, if the other party is an extremely impulsive person, do not choose a quiet place with few people.

If you have shown that you do not want to have a deeper contact with the other person, but he is still pestering you, then you can directly and firmly express your attitude to the other person. Say that you don't have feelings for him, that he's not the type you like, that you're not a good fit, and that you'll be separated even if you're barely together. If he continues to do that, he may not even be able to do it as a friend.

Under normal circumstances, you can make it clear to the other party in person to refuse, but if you have no way or are embarrassed to refuse directly in person, you can choose other ways to refuse. For example, if you refuse through QQ, WeChat, text messages, etc., the premise is that you must think of a reason for rejecting the other party.

Pay attention to the way you speak. Some people are indeed honest, but they describe each other's shortcomings in great detail, not to mention just friends, even relatives can't accept it. Therefore, in the conversation, you should pay attention to the wording, try to praise the other party, so that the other party feels that they are very good, and when they are psychologically balanced, they will not be entangled in the result.

When a friend of the opposite sex confesses to me, I may not accept it, because I think that since two people can become friends, it means that there is no tendency for two people to develop into a couple, and girls actually don't like it at the beginning, and they won't like it later.

First of all, I think that since I can become friends, it means that there are some common hobbies or related relationships between two people, but I think that I will definitely be surprised when a friend confesses to me, and secondly, I will refuse, because I think that friends should not develop into a couple in the end, and from a friend relationship to a couple relationship, I will feel a little uncomfortable, and it is more difficult to change. I think it's better to be friends again, but I always feel a little embarrassed if I am a friend in the unit after confessing.

The second is to become friends, which means that there is actually a lot of understanding between each other, at this time suddenly said that they want to become a couple or confess, always feel that it is a very embarrassing thing, and at this time often feel that the other party is joking, if the girl really likes this boy, he will not choose to be friends with the other party, he will choose to express his mind at the beginning of contact. If I were faced with this situation, I would not choose to refuse at the beginning, but said that I would think about it, after all, once the rejection, then the friendship between the two people will be lost, and at this time I will want to keep it first, see if I can not become a couple, and at the same time maintain the original friendship.

In the end, I think that friends of the opposite sex can't be used to confess to each other, it's better to suppress that emotion with each other, otherwise, once some words are spoken, there will be no chance to keep them, and even let the relationship really end here. And I think that if you become friends, you can actually maintain a friendship between two people for a longer time. Because friends can understand each other, but sometimes after becoming a couple, the tolerance will be relatively low.

I won't refuse the other party, I will accept it, the other party can take this step, it is not easy, two people can try to date.

If I like him, I will accept his confession, and if I don't, I will clarify the situation with him. Probably, it depends on my mood.

If I really like each other, I will definitely say yes, and the two of us will become very happy together.

Will think carefully and give him a good answer. Possibly, depending on whether the other party's request is my standard for choosing a mate, if so, we may be together.

You can tell the other party bluntly: I have always regarded you as a friend, and if there is any misunderstanding, I apologize to you. Don't be too tactful, just the right amount of rejection, only in this way can you cut off the other party's thoughts.

I can't be sure how I feel right now, I don't want to break up a relationship very hastily, although I like to be with you very much, I feel relaxed and comfortable, but you are really not the person in my heart.

You can tell the other person that you think it's better for two people to be friends, so that the other person will understand.

The first method: not to face the refusal.

If the other party confesses to you in person, you are afraid that rejecting the other party in person will hurt the other party, and you don't know how to refuse more appropriately, at the moment you can't organize the verbal rejection, you can find a reason not to rush Ma Mingmin to reply, you can tell him your true thoughts through WeChat or text messages and other ways, which alleviates the embarrassment of face-to-face refusal, and can also let the other party slowly digest the information.

The second method: issue a good person card.

Before rejecting him, you can praise and praise the other person, save him enough face, let him know that you cherish and care about the friendship between you, so you don't want to cheat on him, which doesn't want to cause him any harm. Now many people know the meaning of the good guy card, once you send the good guy card, he will naturally know that you politely rejected him.

If the other party confesses to you, but you really only regard him as a friend, you can put him better, you can belittle yourself appropriately, explain that you are not the ideal type of the other party, and let him produce wrong information, sorry, you can't be with him, so you can at least help the other party find a step down.

The fourth method: euphemistic refusal.

You can find a good reason for yourself, tell the other party that you just want to focus all your energy on studying or things now, and will not consider personal feelings for the time being, don't waste time on Huaixiao yourself, and clearly tell him that it is not necessary to wait for you, for a long time, maybe the type he likes will not be himself, let us be friends The best way to get along with each other, dispel the other party's reluctance to love you.

In life, each of us will meet someone we like, and when we meet someone we like, we also need to seize the opportunity to confess to each other to see if the other party is also interested in ourselves, so there are many ways to confess, first of all, we can also use a little connotation to confess, so that we will not be too embarrassed, so in the relationship, we also need to look at our own way of doing things.

1. It is also very normal for a confession to be rejected.

In the spring of life, if you confess to the other party and are rejected, this is also a very normal thing, and there is no need to feel embarrassed, because in this way you are also very brave, because after all, you also dare to face your feelings.

Second, confession will not leave you with regrets.

If we confess in life, we will not let ourselves have regrets, and if we face our feelings, we don't even have the courage to confess, so we may also be very regretful.

3. There is also a chance to confess.

In life, there is half a chance for confession, if you don't confess, you won't even have a little chance, so as long as there is a slight opportunity, we must also seize it.

In life, you don't need to care too much about some things, and you don't need to care too much about your own face, as long as you do things above board, you don't have to feel that your confession is rejected, it is very faceless, because it is normal to be rejected, we don't like a person, and we will reject others.

If you don't want to be rejected so embarrassed in life, we can also confess to the other party by selling a stool with a little connotation, if you feel that the other party is not interesting to you, this is relatively better, not so direct to confess, so that you can save some face. Therefore, in the face of feelings, we must make a brave choice so that we will not let ourselves have regrets.

If I confess to my friends of the opposite sex and am rejected, I will definitely be embarrassed to laugh and laugh at the current sale, and I even want to find a hole to get into. But if he takes the initiative to talk to me and talk about it, I don't think I will be embarrassed and will continue to be friends, but the relationship will definitely not be as close as before the confession.

Of course I will feel embarrassed, after all, the two of you are friends, and if you don't look up and see you in the future, I think it will make people feel suffocated just thinking about it.

No, because I'm already mentally prepared for this, I won't feel embarrassed.

Look at people, if you have feelings for Qiquezhi's friend of the opposite sex, you will accept his confession. If you don't feel it, you'll reject him. If you have been together for such a long time, you should know if you have a good sense of quietly.

If a friend of the opposite sex confesses to me, I will divide the situation, if I change myself to the boy Hui Douling, then I will accept it, but if I don't like it, my ex-relatives will refuse it.

Yes, since it's a friend, there is no feeling of calling, and the crack can't agree even if it's a confession, a friend is a friend after all, and you must be rational in this uproar, otherwise your friends will be gone.

When a friend of the opposite sex confesses to you, will you reject the other person outright?

1. If I have a crush on him, I will gladly accept it.

I believe that many people will have three or five friends by their side, which will make our lives more interesting. Some couples are transformed from friends of the opposite sex, because the two people have known each other for a long time and know each other better, after being together, they get along very harmoniously. If my friend of the opposite sex confesses to me, and I have been secretly in love with him for a long time, then this is a two-way love, I will happily accept it, and cherish this relationship, hoping that the two of them can go on for a long time.

2. If I don't have feelings for him and just treat him as my good friend, I will reject him directly.

If my friend confesses to me, I have to think carefully about whether I have feelings for him. The two have known each other for many years, and although they have a lot of common topics, this is limited to ordinary friends, and they don't like such objects. Therefore, I will reject him directly and tell him thank you for liking me, which makes me feel very honored, but love is to be happy with each other, and the person I am looking for has not yet appeared.

After refusing like this, the other party will accept it calmly because of my honesty, and the two of them can become good friends.

3. No matter how you choose, follow your heart and don't feel embarrassed and make the wrong decision.

Two people have been together for a long time, but they get along as good friends, two people are always playing around, and when they encounter difficulties with each other, they will help each other, such a friendship is very rare. If one party confesses to the other party, it may be a long-term relationship, and without thinking clearly, don't be afraid to hurt the other party, and agree to be with him, which is irresponsible. You can give yourself a set time to think about it, think clearly, whether you can accept such a lover, you can close your eyes and imagine the picture of two people together, if you know that the corners of the stove are raised, then you can accept each other; If you don't feel happy, then you have to reject the other person.