What reality makes you lose your desire for love?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The people I love can't get it, and it's useless for God to reward hard work.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I used to love someone, but now I love someone.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Adults in the neighborhood often talk about other people's parents in front of me, and it's natural to listen to it too much.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm afraid that he won't be worthy, he's too good, too good.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I always feel that boys of the same age are too stupid and naïve, and I like a man twice my size, but I can never be together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I fell in love only when I was dizzy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I can understand that I have exhausted everything I have to pursue someone, but I can also understand how to write wishful thinking, and I will feel disgusting if I take the initiative for too long. I like this emotion and I don't want to touch it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In the real society, no love is a pit.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When I had no money and was unemployed, I couldn't think of what kind of love I had to pursue, and when I was running around alone and working hard to solve my livelihood problems, and my life began to get on the right track and began to be idle, the idea of pursuing love appeared again. In the final analysis, the so-called love is just a pastime when you are bored, and if you strengthen the goal of making money, you will not think about this love at all.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In my mind, I couldn't understand why people spend their lives chasing another person. Maybe it's because you don't have that kind of meaning and don't need to be accompanied by others, and you get the same happiness from each other as I give myself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Once a girl has passed the age of marriage, she is distracted. It's good to be alone, why should I marry for the sake of getting married?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm because a woman is not interested in anything other than material love, love is only when you have money to have the happiness of marriage.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I know I don't like the feeling of being alone, but I smile and say to others that I still love you. Do you say it's uncomfortable?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm afraid of getting hurt, anyway, I don't believe that there will be someone who loves him as much as ever. You can say that I don't know how to operate and keep fresh, but I am really afraid of betting on the wrong person.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe because I have been injured, I don't want to step into the "bottomless pit" of love again. I seem to be less and less looking forward to love, and I find that it is really good to be alone, without fetters and without too many worries.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    A city was built in the heart, and without a gate, no one could enter, and he could not get out. Take the initiative once or twice in love. I'm not that strong either. Over time, I will doubt myself and become more and more withdrawn.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because I am addicted to being single, I no longer look forward to love after being single for a long time. I have been single for too long, I don't know what kind of love I want, and I don't know what kind of person I want to meet to spend my life with.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because I was with that person just because I liked it, unconditionally supported and cared for, and then the other party was unhappy and threw me away, I felt very scared, so I looked at love very lightly because it once broke my heart.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Now that the divorce rate is getting higher and higher every year, I have doubts about love loyalty, and if love is still injured in the end, and the marriage is not insured, I will not expect too much from love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Many people yearn for marriage, because marriage is a sacred and solemn thing, if two people make up their minds to enter the palace of marriage, it proves that each other is ready to join hands for a lifetime and accompany each other to old age.

    Although everyone has spared no effort to pursue a beautiful love, life is always full of variables, no one can go through the beginning to the end, some people are lucky, from the beginning to meet the right feelings, while some people's love road is very bumpy, always meet people unladylike.

    Full of longing for feelings belongs to the normal needs of people, the famous psychologist Maslow once divided human needs into 5 parts.

    The bottom layer is physiological needs, that is, to be fed and clothed, the second layer of faith and emptiness is the need for security, including acceptance security and psychological safety, the third layer is the need for love and a sense of belonging, everyone can get a sense of belonging and love satisfaction from family or love, and the fourth layer is the demand for respect, and it is from the fourth layer that the demand has entered a high-level mode, and the fifth layer is self-realization, that is, to realize dreams and pursue the meaning of life.

    Man is a social animal that needs love and care. When you're happy, you want someone to celebrate with you, and when you're sad, you want someone to rely on.

    Human beings' emotional needs are far more detailed than their physical needs, and this spiritual pursuit is also inseparable from the individual's growth experience, personality and family of origin.

    Psychologist Erikson pointed out that in early adulthood, an individual will face the contradiction and conflict of intimacy and loneliness, during which the individual will be extremely eager to establish stable and long-term intimate relationships, so as to alleviate the inner loneliness.

    If an individual is able to establish an intimate relationship smoothly, his or her sense of security can be established, and conversely, if he or she is not adequately loved and cared for, the individual will develop a state of benign disorder.

    Psychologist Sigmund Freud believed that a normal and healthy person is full of love, able to work more seriously and live a more active life, and not only that, but he also pointed out that the unity that individuals build during their adolescence is conducive to establishing stable and good intimate relationships with others later on.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When I went through a failed relationship, I felt that I had lost the ability to love, but I was very envious of those happy couples.

    Everyone experiences joy and sorrow in life, and then grows through a wide variety of complex emotions. When I was heartbroken by a relationship, I found myself more and more eager to find someone to accompany me for the rest of my life, but my heart was like water, as if I had lost the ability to love.

    The more vigorous the love, the deeper the damage after the breakup. The person I was in love with met on the Internet, and it took a year for the two of us to go from virtual to real.

    In his relationship, I really put my heart into it, and I really feel like I'm digging out my heart and lungs. The two of them are thousands of miles apart, and the number of times they meet is really not much, but every time the two people meet, it seems to be deeply imprinted in my mind. I never thought that two people would break up, and I have always looked forward to this relationship to come to an end, but reality is much crueler than fantasy, and love is still invincible to the test of distance after all.

    10 years have passed since the heartache of the breakup, and my heart seems to be still twitching. After the breakup, I felt that I had lost the ability to love and would no longer be interested in anyone.

    The lonely itinerary makes people lonely, and I envy those loving couples more and more. In the years since that relationship ended, I never tried to find a new love partner, even if I was introduced by a friend, I found that I was not tempted at all, as if my heart had died with the same relationship.

    But deep in my heart, I envy the loving couple friends around me more and more, and I long to meet a love again that can warm my heart. But I have become heartless, whether I can still meet my own love, I don't know.

    I am like a flat boat in the stormy waves, leaving only the shadow of a person on the lonely road of life. Time kept ticking, and I began to slowly come out of the shadows of what I once was. I began to believe that I would be happy in the future and that I would meet the person who accompanied me.

    Maybe time will heal all the wounds, and love will come to me.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    My boyfriend, who has been in love for 8 years, separated, and at that time I felt that it was impossible to have love anymore, and I no longer believed in love, and felt that I could no longer have love.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A breakup with no reason. This caused me not to love anymore, because the sincerity of giving was not cherished by the other party, and I decided not to give my sincerity anymore, but I still longed for love and wanted someone to redeem myself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    My boyfriend was seriously injured in order to save me, and I was afraid that I would be dragged down to break up, and I longed for love in my heart, but I felt very tired and didn't want to love anymore.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Experienced a failed relationship. After that, when you see others appearing in pairs, you will be particularly envious. Then I told myself in my heart that I would find one another day, but when it came to that day, I thought about it and forgot it, I really didn't want to get hurt anymore.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    After experiencing a broken love, because I was so sad that I longed for love in my heart, but I felt that I would never love again.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    After seeing my dear love, I was sweetened, and I had the urge to yearn for love in my heart, but the cruelty of reality made me realize that love does not belong to me.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    After experiencing a failed marriage, although I longed for love in my heart, I felt that I would not love anymore, because this marriage hurt me very much.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When I am hurt again and again, when the people I love push me away again and again, it is the most desperate thing for me, and I feel that I will not love anymore.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Individuals have not experienced anything in their own lives, so they do not have such thoughts, and I guess that people who have such thoughts must have experienced a lot of things that do not go well for them.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you meet someone you love and unfortunately pass away due to an accident. Then although I still long for love, I won't love anyone else.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think generally speaking, if you invest a lot in a relationship, but you get hurt, you will feel this way.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Because love is beautiful. Oh.

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