How many post 80s are ready to get married?

80's has passed 30.

The one before 85 also ran three.

It's time to get married. I have my own situation, and my personal opinion will be 30 years ago.

I was forced to get married, and I was panicked.

In fact, I still yearn for married life, but I really don't know how to get married in the current situation. The family is blindly forced, to be honest, there are countless children of the same age, but seeing that after they get married, they are arguing and quarreling over the house of the children who make money, it is inevitable that it will be vulgar, and my future life should be like this. Or go with the flow, you always have to get married when it's time to get married, and the mentality is very important!!

I'm 86 and I'm going to get married next year, and several of my friends have given birth, and the family is blowing tight, and I want to get married at 30! No way, it's too stressful.

Not yet, but the pressure is not small.

I am a post-80s generation and decided to get married around 30, what are you in a hurry?

There are already a lot of people who are married.

I thought in my heart, but I didn't dare in reality, I didn't want to have a conflict with my wife for oil and salt in the future, and I didn't want to have a stable nest, the post-80s generation said this, spend nine yuan to get a certificate for love, don't want anything, this is to prove that love is sacred and great, but I don't dare.

I've been a father of two children for 87 years, what do you say?

Be ready. But preparations are already underway.

The post-80s generation must be married more and single less now, because the post-80s generation is now in their forties, and those who can get married are married.

Take the post-80s generation around me as an example, my two cousins are both born in the 80s, and now they are all married and their children have already made soy sauce.

But there are people around me who are not married after 80, I have only seen one person so far, the reason why this person is not married, or because of family conditions, first of all, the family is in our village, the conditions are not very good like my family, and they are two boys, the burden is very heavy, the parents put all their energy on helping his brother find a partner to marry, and when they are ready to help him, the parents are tired, and they don't have the ability to help the younger son prepare the house for marriage, And he also used all his energy and savings to help his brother before, and now it can be said that he has no money and no house, in this case, plus this age, it is very rare to find a partner.

So he became the only person around me who was born in the 80s who was not married.

Hello. The post-8o generation must be married more and less single, because the post-8o generation is now in their thirties, and it is time to get married, so it is said that there are more marriages and fewer singles.

The post-80s generation is in their 40s, of course, there are more marriages, but the divorce rate is also quite high.

There are definitely not many post-80s singles, like all my classmates are married, and I am also married this year, so what if the post-80s are still single, hurry up and work hard, how old are they, and they are not married and have children.

In fact, you can feel the answer to this question from your side, and now there are very few post-80s singles, 90% of them are married and even have 1-2 children. What's more, now the post-90s generation who are still single have been ridiculed.

No matter when the number of people getting married is still more than the number of singles, the same is true for the post-80s.

Is it more married, most of them are married, or are there more marriages?

Leo in 81 years, coordinates Jinan. A BMW, a Buick, three suites. I don't believe in love, I have enough money to spend, and I live a chic and happy life.

86 years, three years of divorce. Currently in Huizhou. It is estimated that it will be difficult to get married again. Relatively low and confused...

There's a lot of people here. There are at least five or six of my post-80s brothers and sisters who are not married.

I also tried to match them with my wife and introduce them to someone, but I found that they were all "sick".

This is sick, not literally, but psychologically the Guess Dan that has changed the creed makes people speechless.

Like what. A woman is a small employee of a central enterprise, with a monthly salary of two or three thousand, a small county town of 18 lines, with five insurances and one housing fund, she thinks that her conditions are very good, she picks up left and right, which is also not good, and that can not be seen, in the end she can only pick those second-married men, she still disagrees, saying that she is a yellow flower girl, why marry a second marriage man, my wife was depressed at the time, are thirty-seven yellow flower girls, what else do you choose?

Male B is a general worker in the production line of a foreign company, with a monthly salary of 4,000 plus, the same 18-line small county, five insurances and one housing fund, and a house, a car and a loan. Looking for a partner is not looking for someone over 22 years old, I tried to introduce a few to him, and in the end they all broke up. Either the girl is picky, or the girl only looks at money, or the girl doesn't care about her feelings or something.

I hinted that he could look at a thirty-year-old woman, but they disagreed, saying that he had good conditions, and that he had to find a tender one to enjoy it.

Anyway, every remaining older person has the unforgivable fault of disturbing himself.

84 years,

1. The reason for late marriage is because the material conditions for marriage are not mature.

Some people say that most of the post-80s generation has nothing before the age of 30, except for the rich second generation. The housing problem is a major difficulty that history throws at the post-80s generation. When it comes to housing, there is another problem that has to be involved, that is, the difficulty of employment, which is the essence of the problem.

Because the post-80s generation is facing huge employment pressure, many employers have taken advantage of this to significantly reduce their salaries. This situation limits their income level as a whole and limits their purchasing power. The housing problem is, at its very nature, an income issue.

And if you want to get married, it is naturally not a matter of getting a certificate so simple, as many gold worshippers say, it needs to be promoted. Life needs money, money is needed in all aspects, and the material conditions are not mature, how to get married.

2. The reason for late marriage is because the psychological age is unbearable to bear the pressure after marriage.

The post-80s generation can also be said to be a happier generation, because of the only child, they have won the greatest love from their parents. So, on the whole, they are also happier than any generation (naturally excluding the post-90s and post-00s after that). In a sense, not all of this love has a positive effect on them, and love can sometimes restrain a person's independence and weaken a person's ability to bear it.

Therefore, after bathing in the sun of their parents for a long time, they are rarely able to face something and bear something independently all at once. Many post-80s generations have post-marital depression, which is because they are not old and do not foresee the pressure they face in married life, or they overestimate their ability to bear it.

3. The reason for late marriage is because the work status restricts married life.

As mentioned earlier, with the increase of employment pressure and the increasing competition in the workplace, the working state of the post-80s generation is not only facing low salaries, but also facing huge work pressure. In my research on the work of college graduates, I have learned that there are very few college students who do not work overtime, and few of them have the experience of taking a complete weekend for a period of time, especially in the private sector. According to one of the graduates, they never left work before 10 o'clock, which was the evening, and they went to work as usual the next morning, every day for several months.

The author was surprised, but through later in-depth understanding, the situation of such college graduates is by no means accidental. Therefore, in this kind of working state, married life is actually in name only, and there is no time for husband and wife to get along at all, how can they be considered husband and wife.

That's what I just found out, and I don't know if it's right.

It seems that post-80s women subconsciously feel that marriage is inevitable, but they must be more picky and observant and cautious before entering marriage, and they are no longer as easy to be kidnapped by morality as before.

The comments say that the post-80s generation is also very open-minded, which is true, many post-85s around me are not married or only in love and not married, but they will not have any special feelings about getting married. The post-90s reaction to not getting married is more intense, so fight. ）

Because of the popularity of the Internet to celibacy and the young age, the post-90s generation knew the negative impact of marriage lack on women before they reached the marriageable age, so they knew that Weibo was so popular (Weibo users have a younger age structure than Douban users).

The times are really developing, and due to the popularization of the Internet, a generation has become more protective and selective than the generation.

With the popularization of the Internet and the increasing mobility of people in society, a lot of information that was once closed in their respective circles has begun to spread, and generation after generation is completing the "disenchantment".

The post-80s generation generally got married early, mainly because people's survival requirements were small at that time.