I scolded my boyfriend yesterday, you are not a man worthy of my love, will he ever be a man

Updated on psychology 2024-05-02
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You scolded your boyfriend and said that he was a man who was not worthy of your love, in fact, I felt a little serious, and this sentence should be said to be a little hurtful.

    Whether it hurts feelings or not, it depends on the situation in which you said this sentence, whether you said it when you were very angry and quarrelling, or when you flirted when you were joking, in addition to this, it also depends on what kind of personality your boyfriend is. Some people are generous, no matter what situation you say this, he just listens to it, he doesn't care too much, and his feelings for you are still the same as before. But there are boys, who will be very unhappy when they hear this.

    Therefore, quarrels are quarrels, and those hurtful words that hurt feelings are better not to say them casually, so as not to cause misunderstandings and hurt feelings.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course it will, if he really treats you very badly and doesn't love you, then he won't be sad if you say that, because he really doesn't love you, and of course he doesn't deserve your love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Definitely, after all, this is quite hurtful, and if you have a problem, you should communicate well.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He'll be upset. Lovers should respect each other, and if you scold him like this, it may be that you are angry, but have you thought about his feelings? If you still love him, you have to learn to respect him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This must be sad, as long as a normal person is scolded, it will definitely be sad.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You say so. He won't be upset.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Summary Hello, your question I have seen. He feels that he didn't give you everything he could, because he loves you too much, so he doesn't want you to suffer a little bit of grievance.

    Boyfriend said sorry I told me to completely forget about him and said he was not worthy of me to love him and hate him for not being able to give me anything for himself hello I have seen your problems I have seen. He feels that he didn't give you everything he could, because he loves you too much, so he doesn't want you to suffer a little bit of grievance.

    In order to help his brother repay more than 2 million online goods, he said that he was afraid that he would not be able to give me happiness, so he would rather choose to give up on me.

    An online loan of 2 million is really not a small amount, unless your boyfriend is a very rich person, 2 million is not a burden for him, then if he is not such a rich man, then 2 million will bring him a lot of pressure, if he is under pressure and then fall in love with you, from time to time his emotions will affect you, then instead of this, he should choose to give up with you and bear his brother's loan first.

    He only helped pay back part of it, and now he has paid back hundreds of thousands, hundreds of thousands, and hundreds of thousands.

    Then your boyfriend is still quite capable, but his pressure is very great now, if he is with you, you have to endure the feeling that he doesn't care about you, so you can let him work hard at this stage, work hard to help his brother pay off the mortgage, you can watch him from afar, you say you can wait for him, and you will be together after he is finished.

    If you have his mailing address, you can write to him, there are many ways to contact him and show him your sincerity.

    I didn't even know how to convey messages to him without replying. I'm still at work and I'm a little busy. He said that I was a good girl, and for the sake of my happiness, he didn't want to tire me too much.

    The general idea is that he is a very motivated person, and you are willing to accompany him through his most difficult time.

    I was willing, but he didn't dare to reply to my message or take a stand. I'm still working.

    Patience touches everyone. Only persistence and perseverance. If he is a piece of ice, it will be melted by you.

    No matter what I tried to tell him, he wouldn't reply to my messages or ignore me. , just said I hope I forgot, he can find any man who is better than him.

    You have to let him know that you are waiting for him, so if you release the message to him, he will not go to another woman because of your departure one day.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course not. Why do you keep the boyfriend who scolded your girlfriend? Boys should love their girlfriends more and spoil them more, otherwise they will have to beat their wives when they get married in the future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, it is common for two people to be affectionately scolded. But the main thing that there is no such serious scolding is that there is still a lot of respect between the two people. Didn't do anything to hurt the other person.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No. Because I'm still a single dog, where is my boyfriend coming to scold me, but I hope that the future him, no matter what wrong things I do, please don't scold me, you can talk to me well, I'll change it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    He didn't scold me, and he didn't dare to scold me, because I was very good to him, I would satisfy him with whatever he wanted to eat and drink, and he loved him so much, so he had no reason to scold me.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No, he is a very gentle person in his own right, and he has enough love and respect for me. Even every time we quarreled, the most he did to me was to pout and glare at me and keep letting me. Don't scold, you can't even bear to yell at me. I'm not going to associate with people who are loud and swearing.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    He didn't scold me, he was reluctant to scold me, he really loved me, every time I was angry, he would coax me, he wouldn't bully me, he wouldn't scold me, I was really happy and felt very happy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I haven't scolded, he is a very gentle, not loud-talking person, no matter how anxious he is, he has never been fierce to me, scolded, we love each other very much, respect each other, I hope he will always be so good to me in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Scolded, sometimes he was annoyed to see me for a while, and then he would tell me very clearly that he hated me and wanted to stay away from me, and I might sometimes really do it, so he couldn't stand it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In fact, I have also encountered such a situation, I remember that at that time I just dated my boyfriend, probably because I usually don't like to talk, I don't like my boyfriend to go out to drink with buddies often, so one of his good friends doesn't like me very much, always look at me unpleasantly, and when I usually meet, I also have a feeling of ignoring it, fortunately, I have a better mentality, I don't have any other ideas, and I won't think anything because of people who don't care. So basically, his attitude towards me won't affect my mood, and naturally it won't affect my relationship with my boyfriend.

    It's just that this person is really a bit excessive, I remember one time, he asked me to go out to dinner, I was afraid that they would drink until midnight, so I followed the past, in fact, I am not supervising my boyfriend, I just hope he can drink a little less, after all, his health has deteriorated recently, it is because he often drinks until midnight, and he has to be busy going to work during the day, which is very hard. I just felt sorry for my boyfriend, but I didn't expect that this person who didn't like me would look very unhappy when he saw me in the past. I just said hello and sat down.

    Unexpectedly, halfway through, he suddenly scolded me, saying that I was something, just an average-looking girl, and the male ticket who followed me was considered to have stepped on shit and was lucky, and I was very angry at the time, and immediately refuted him. I don't think it's right for him to scold me, after all, I didn't provoke him, why should he scold me, but fortunately my boyfriend and others stopped him at the time, otherwise I would have said something nasty. Such a person cannot get used to it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    So, in the long run, I don't think you should tear up, tearing will not solve the problem, it will only make the problem more acute, and your boyfriend will only be more in a dilemma and swaying in the middle, and this sharpening situation is very dangerous when you have not yet determined that your boyfriend is more biased towards you!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    But, what I'm saying is but, oh, if he's really excessive, it's still time to say it, swallowing your anger won't solve the problem You can talk about him from the side and let him know that you're not so easy to mess with

    I remember that my boyfriend's friends were like that, and I was at the time, it was also more comparative, how to say, just like a woman who contacted my boyfriend more diligently, then I could make a big noise for a long, long time, and then, my boyfriend and his friends would scold me, and over time, my boyfriend's friends around me hated me. (Of course, I changed it later, but I didn't have a good impression at first, so I .......))

    I still remember clearly that one night, my boyfriend's friend asked him to play cards, and at that time I was uncomfortable, I didn't want him to go, my boyfriend's friend was not happy, just there and said to me, what's the matter, I was angry, and then he felt that he didn't have face at that time, so he quarreled with me, and the result can be imagined......Unfortunately, because of that time, I broke up with my boyfriend (hehe, of course, it was unfortunate at the time, but for me now, it is lucky, fortunately we broke up at the time)!

    So, I want to say, when you tear up, think about whether you care about your boyfriend or not. Maybe you will say, you didn't bear to do anything, maybe for me at that time, I still didn't love enough That's why I did that But now, when I think back on these things, I won't regret it, because if I swallowed my anger at that time, who knows what will happen to them in the future, right?

    And I know that I was more aggressive at the time, but I will still divide the situation

    Finally, the baby I wish mine.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Your boyfriend's best friend doesn't like you and scolds you, this problem is quite serious, not only about your relationship with your boyfriend, but also about your boyfriend's friendship with his good friend. But I think when something like this happens, the first thing you think of is not tearing up, but self-reflection.

    Speaking of tearing, have you considered the consequences of tearing, the object of your tearing is your boyfriend's good friend, not someone with a special relationship. If you really tear your face and speak ill of him, the most difficult thing to be here is your boyfriend, on one side is your girlfriend, on the other side is your good friend, you have an unpleasant quarrel, it is tantamount to making him choose between friendship and love, either lose love, or lose friendship, and even there will be the result we least want to see - lose both. You can't guarantee that your boyfriend will definitely be on your side, for you, the consequences of tearing up will not only be unpleasant, but you may even lose a relationship that you have carefully maintained, no matter what, it will not be good for you.

    I don't recommend you tear it up either.

    I hope you can find out your own shortcomings and shortcomings and correct them, so that your boyfriend's best friend has nothing to say. Take care of your relationship, so that your boyfriend is not embarrassed, and I hope that your relationship will last a long time.

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