The two like each other, do boys have to take the initiative?

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Of course, if the boys are still squirming, then how can that woman give herself to him with confidence. Although women in this society are more active, men should also embody a little masculinity and take the initiative to confess. What are you afraid of, girls like you anyway.

Take the initiative, it will be more romantic, and it won't cause an embarrassing situation

No. Because the boy is a very rational creature, he will not be swayed by the passionate pursuit of the opposite sex, and only those who are really impulsive about themselves will accept it.

For most boys, disliking is disliking.

For the girl he doesn't like, no matter how much he does, he can't be moved. Boys are not as emotional as girls, and they are shaken just because of a little favor from the other person. I don't think what they say about men chasing women across mountains, women chasing men across the veil, and Sanling liquid is not accurate.

Because the premise of a woman chasing a man's compartment yarn must be that the boy originally liked the girl, and if the boy has no good feelings for the girl he pursues, then no matter how much the girl does, it will be in vain.

Moreover, in the relationship that is too active in the general girl, there will be no good results. Although it may be in the eyes of the girls themselves or in the eyes of others, this love is earthly, but the most important thing is that the boy will appreciate it, if they don't appreciate it, no matter how much they do, they will just move themselves.

For most boys, they generally prefer girls who ignore them, because that kind of girl is more attractive, and it is not easy to get it at first glance, and then the boy will have a desire to conquer, if he can chase that girl, then they will have a great sense of achievement.

And that kind of active girl will look very cheap in the eyes of boys, so they won't like it.

1. Girls take the initiative to boys, boys will get the satisfaction of being loved in the process of getting along, and the search for this satisfaction will prompt him to desire to be with girls, and it is easier to open his heart to love girls.

Second, different people chase different boys, which is indeed different.

Girls who start with easy difficulty, you will find that until you are with a boy, you don't use any skills in the process. But this is not replicable.

A change of boy, a change of environment, and a change of time period may not be easy or difficult.

At the beginning of chasing boys, the difficulty is not the same, it is a matter of luck, but you don't use other people's luck to be angry with your feelings.

Third, it is meaningful to go in both directions.

When you reach the real tacit understanding, even if you have a lot of unnecessary small frictions and frustrations in your relationship because of your self-esteem or hard mouth, this will not only not affect your feelings, but will make your approach more poetic.

Hello dear, I'm here for you with this question. It doesn't have to be actively pursued. Although both men and women like each other, some boys belong to the type of shy, and he may not take the initiative to say what he likes.

You must know that men chase women across the mountain, and women chase men across the veil, so I think that if a boy likes a girl, he will definitely attack with disadvantages, and if he doesn't pursue it, it can only mean that he hasn't reached the degree of chaos he likes, but he just has a good impression.

If you like each other, will the boy take the initiative to pursue it? In general, they will take the initiative to pursue.

If the girl takes the initiative, the boy may not be tempted, but taking the initiative also has the advantage of taking the initiative.

In the relationship, there are indeed girls who take the initiative but are not cherished, but when such a situation occurs, it is not that the initiative is wrong, but that they love the wrong person.

A boy who is truly worthy of love, no matter whether the girl will take the initiative or not, will be responsible for the girl if he is moved.

And the initiative of the girl is to let herself really move her heart, so that she will not miss the other party because she is shy, and she will not be able to pass by with the other party because she does not dare to.

Therefore, girls who dare to take the initiative are often more likely to get love, and this alone really surpasses many girls who dare not take the initiative.

In the relationship, sometimes even if a girl does not love the wrong person, she may not be cherished by the other party because of her own initiative, and the initiative has become a mistake.

The reason for this situation is related to the wrong way for some girls to take the initiative.

Just as some time ago, a reader friend asked me: I have been living together for three months, but I still haven't confirmed the relationship, how should I hint at each other?

According to her, she took the initiative to chase the other party, and when the other party said that she had no one to clean up the room, she took the initiative to move to the other party's house, and did everything that should be done and what should not be done.

This reader thought that the two of them must be boyfriend and girlfriend when they reached this point, but the other party didn't seem to regard himself as a lover at all.

In fact, when the love between two people reaches this point, there is no need to determine the relationship, because of her behavior, it will seem that she is not worthy of being cherished.

Because I look at myself too lightly, and when I make my feelings seem too cheap, others will naturally not value it.

Girls take the initiative and boys don't necessarily love each other, depending on the feelings of two people.

Not necessarily, it depends on what the boy thinks, and many people think differently.

I believe that in real life, many girls have such emotional experiences: when they are in love, the early boys are very active, they will take the initiative to contact themselves every day, and they are also 100% pampered by themselves, relying on themselves for everything, in addition, they also frequently ask "what are you doing, what are you doing" and sweet words every day, such as "I miss you, I love you", etc., all kinds of enthusiastic performances make people's hearts warm.

I don't know how many girls dream of such a picture, and I also hope that men will be the same to themselves. However, it backfired, and the good times did not last long. In fact, no one can guarantee that it will be consistent at any time, so the same is true of feelings, which will change over time, and problems will arise if you are not careful. But we all need to know that everything has a shelf life, and once it has passed, then it becomes bland. However, girls' feelings are slower than boys, so when the man's heat is too high, the girl just gets energetic, so that the girl feels love and slowly raises the enthusiasm, but the boy becomes less active, or takes the initiative less often than usual.

At this time, the woman's heart will begin to be anxious, and she will wonder: Does he not love me anymore? Are you tired of me? Why didn't you start so enthusiastic, so proactive.

A girl's brain will burst out with a myriad of whys. Well, I want to understand all this, so I frequently take the initiative to contact boys, and even make men start to get bored, but in the end it backfires.

In fact, instead of panicking, it is better to calm down and analyze the situation, what exactly caused it.

In love, there are many reasons why men take the initiative less and less, such as some are talking and playing, and they are immediately cold when they are fresh; Some are because they feel that the relationship between two people is stable, and they can relax and give each other space; Some are disappointed because the girls are not doing well in some aspects. In short, girls become inactive when they encounter men, and they must figure out the reason, and remember to be in a hurry to make a big noise, which will only lead to failure.

So, what to do? If you find that your boyfriend has become cold and less active to look for you, then you can try to do this, and maybe you can "turn defeat into victory".

1. Sit down with a guy and find out why.

In the process of falling in love, it is difficult to have all kinds of bumps, small contradictions, small quarrels and other phenomena between each other, and then there are some small problems, and it is easy to be indifferent at this time. Therefore, at such a time, girls should take the initiative to communicate with men. But remember to deal with the problem calmly and don't shout that you don't love me.

Why do you always ignore my words and so on? It's useless to say this, it will only make the guy more disgusted and hate you.

So, you might as well find a suitable time and place, two people sit down, open their hearts to each other, and have a good chat about what is wrong.

If the guy can tell the reason, then if it is your own problem, you can tell the other person sincerely, and you will improve or pay attention to doing better in the future, so that it is easy to save the love.

Girls chase boys, and there is generally no good result, and girls will be too humble to boys in that relationship. In the end, it leads to a relationship breakdown.

Generally, boys are more curious, you can move at a static value, and he can't help but be curious and be in a passive state.

If you don't take the initiative, the girl should hint a little.

Break up for a while and let him know your one!

You're sure the guy likes you.

Boys don't know how to take the initiative, so girls take the initiative!

Boys tend to be more proactive, because after all, they are a man and have to take on a little more.

Boys are more proactive, because boys are thick-skinned and generally don't have that kind of embarrassment.

In most cases, boys will be more active, because most boys are more courageous, and they can pursue their love well.

Love is lonely in the depths, and love is exhausted when it is exhausted. If you just like it, or you like it silently, or you just have a good feeling. Maybe that liking is just the beginning, and then you like the other person, and you also feel that the other person seems to have a good impression of you.

So who do you think you or the other party will rashly open this mouth first! You may not feel the timing, and the other person will feel that it is. <>

Think about whether the other person will think that suddenly bringing this up will make you feel abrupt and uncomfortable. Embarrassed. Isn't it difficult to understand these from a different perspective!

So don't dwell on why the other party can't take the initiative to open this mouth! One is that there is no need for that, and the other is if you want to determine the relationship! Without the other party to speak, maybe the two of them can achieve this thing naturally!

Silently like, you may have been silently liking each other, and whether the other party likes you or not, you don't know at all. You're still guessing. If at this time you suddenly find that the other person seems to like you.

You must be very ecstatic inside. You want to express it, but you're afraid to express it. So you're going to be melancholy, hesitant, wandering.

On the one hand, I like it silently, and on the other hand, I say it out loud. <>

If you are very good-looking, you are afraid that you will not be together in the future, you will feel embarrassed, and you will not be depressed when you look up and look down. Then let go of the liking in your heart. But instead, you want to make an confession for your years of liking.

Then you speak up. Don't be afraid. Don't feel inferior.

Even if they didn't come together in the end. And how. Waiting for years for an answer is also to better prepare for the next new life.

Or I feel that my feelings seem to be a little hot, as if I can't confess and say it. This is understandable. After all, it is very important to want to give a good result and a proper attitude. <>

Another thought is well, I wasn't prepared enough. I don't know how to fall in love. I'm afraid of messing up! I'm afraid of a lot. It's always just not confident and too nervous. This situation can't be said to be speechless!

I can only say that my experience is insufficient. I want to be good, but I find it difficult and not confident.

You have to believe in yourself and believe that you can give yourself a good emotional explanation. Don't deny yourself all at once.

Really falling in love is about intention, not learning so many routines. That kind of relationship will become unrecognizable! Slowly, I will become unaware of myself.

The initiative should be taken by the man.