It s more reserved to be with loved ones, and it feels very restrained to go to a relative s house

Girl, your "will look very reserved in front of your relatives" and reserved means that you are already a big girl, this is a natural process of transformation, and it will gradually get better in the future. People cannot be compared with each other, my brother can speak, he gets along very well with fellow relatives but he should not put pressure on your psychology, you should not deliberately change yourself, fellow relatives will not have "wrong impressions and evaluations" of you, you can rest assured!

Many of us have this phenomenon, I have it, and I believe that there are many people in the world.

Because we have less and less contact with our loved ones now, everyone is busy with their own things, and they spend more time with colleagues and friends than with their relatives.

But don't worry, you say it shows that you value it very much, as long as you pay attention to it mentally, I believe your current situation will change.

It's not necessary to deliberately pursue good relations with relatives, this is my personal opinion, since it is really relatives, even if you don't deliberately get in with them, your relationship will not be affected.

I used to be the same as you, but it's good to wait for you to go out into society, you don't have a topic to talk to them now, I don't know what to say, when you go to society, there will be a topic, and the problem will be solved, then you just need to be polite when you see your relatives.

This is because you want to keep the first impression on your family. You're afraid that change won't be good for you.

So don't dare to change uh. In fact, you can ask a friend to come to the house to play. Be yourself you like in front of your family.

After all, the family is close and will definitely accept your changes.

Our situation is more similar. And now, I have always been like this, my method is to face people who are not very familiar, I have to think that I am very face-saving, very sensible, and I am not allowed to do wrong or say a little wrong. Treat everyone as a friend and try to find more topics.

Normal, I used to be at home, maybe because I felt that my family was biased when I was a child, so I couldn't get close to them, and then I wrote a 7-piece letter to my family, and then my mother's attitude towards me was obviously better, and I also had something to say. You can deliberately remind yourself to find some topics to talk about with family and friends, it doesn't matter if it's trivial things, it's okay to say one thing to different people, in fact, that's how chatting is made.

Talking, talking, talking, talking, sharing, sharing, whatever difficulties, all help each other.

It's supposed to move around more, and the more you go, the less restrained you will be, and the more you go, the less restrained you feel, and the more you go to your uncle's house, you should eat, drink, and relax, the more you can please them.

It's good to go often.

Besides, it's all your own family, and you don't have to feel embarrassed.

I've had this experience and understand your feelings. But don't be too inhibitive, try to chat with your relative's children so that you don't feel so inhibited.

Is it your own uncle, you should rarely move around in normal times, it is recommended that you usually bring some things, fruits, or something, or bring some vegetables, and go to his house to eat, and you will not be restrained after you get acquainted with it.

This year's Dragon Boat Festival had to go to a relative's house alone, and I had never seen his family at all, so I was afraid, go to someone else's house to relax, don't be nervous. Be natural. Actually, it can't be helped, you just get used to it. Or send some.

I've had it too, but after all, it's a relative, so it's good to get used to it.

Practice makes perfect, "just a lot of contact."

Feel it! Of course you have a problem.

The charge of illegal detention is ......

Whoever is unlawfully restrained is a crime!

Look at the specific reason, why the internment, according to the specific act carried out, determine.

Shouldn't it be like this, even if you are very restrained at first, after a while you slowly get used to it, there is nothing to be restrained, it is good to be casual, because two people are together, it is impossible to be restrained for a lifetime, always pay attention to whether you show an unbeautiful side, it is very tiring, love you should try to accept all aspects of you, including your beautiful and unbeautiful places.

Since it is suitable for the person you like to be with, of course, you will not be inhibited.

I'm definitely there.

Heh, with my boyfriend.

I'm the most relaxed

It's a lot.,Didn't the landlord usually find out.。

There are a lot of girls like this now.,How many landlords are there??

You may be too sensitive to make a bad impression, in other words, you may want to let go of your own performance.

1. Pay attention to what others are talking about, talk to them when you have the opportunity, and speak up about yourself, it doesn't matter if it's good or bad, it's important to join in and train courage.

2. Pay attention to what others are saying, analyze that way of thinking, and make fun of it occasionally.

3. Have more contact with cheerful and humorous people.

4. Read some psychological books, you must know that introversion or cheerfulness are normal phenomena, introversion is introverted is unfathomable, cheerful is sometimes too flamboyant and not conducive to unity, of course, everything has a degree, properly introverted and appropriately cheerful can increase your personal charm.

5. My personal experience, cheerful or not, the main thing is the mood, you may wish to open your heart, tolerant of others, you will find yourself very happy, you will pass on your cheerfulness from the heart to your friends. You tell me?

The best thing to do is to try to communicate with strangers and have more experience on stage. Over time, you'll be cheerful in front of everyone.

It's normal.

That's how I am. Because I'm a slow heater.

Only those who are familiar with it can let go. I don't want to say more if I don't know it.

Such people are said to have a strong sense of self-preservation. It's a two-way personality.

And those who are cheerful to everyone are mostly personality problems

Hehe, I'm just the opposite of you, I look very cheerful in front of strangers, but I'm very restrained in front of acquaintances, which may be different from person to person, but I think it's normal.

It's normal. A lot of people are like that, including me. I'm just crazy in front of my friends. I don't know what to say in front of strangers.!

Let's not pinch Niu Niu.

Like a.

There's something you can't let go.

Be open-minded, confident, generous and decent.

Try to find what you both have in common, so that you both feel relaxed and more like friends, and the strangeness will disappear.

Find a way to do something that you're good at, and that's going to be better

Do what you have to do.