Why am I so a failure as a man

Brothers. I understand your feelings. With deep affection, it is destined to hurt deeply.

Your old illness may be on the money.

You don't have any money, but you pretend to be generous, and you have to borrow money to show your love for her, this kind of behavior is a material bribe rather than love. If a girl really likes you and knows your condition, she will definitely not ask you to spend too much for her. So what you may get in return is that they think you are not a person who can live, so they will leave you one by one, and of course it is not excluded that they think you are poor.

So you do what you can do well, and love with your heart is true.

You also said that you play first, since you are all playing, people will naturally not be sincere to you, and unpleasant words are inevitable. Think for yourself.

I don't know you, so I can't give the right advice, I can only comfort you a little.

It's not good to be in debt to pursue others, and if you owe debts, a good girl will definitely not look for you, and only those who come to the door will have other intentions.

You don't take it seriously, you deserve to be dumped and scolded.

It's just that I don't take love seriously, so why should I ask others to take it seriously. Wait for you to have a good mentality, and you will meet a good girl.

How to say that.

Maybe you haven't met a good girl yet!

Wait a minute, maybe the next one won't be?

Hehe. Maybe it's you or they are immature, as it was said upstairs, okay you haven't met yet. See who the other person is before dating, there is no need to think too much about those people, besides, you have not failed.

How old are you. Nothing else to do?

First of all, try to accept this state so that you can relieve the anxiety in your heart. Some people will suddenly find that their career and relationship have not made significant progress at the age of 30, as if they are stuck in the previous stage of exploration and uncertainty, so they will have a sense of anxiety. From a psychological point of view, this sense of retention stems from a lack of acceptance.

In fact, if you want to accept your current situation, you can first adjust your cognitive style. For example, today's society is different from the past, and people are spending more and more time studying, especially for some highly educated people, who may graduate from college at the age of 28, and naturally will not have a stable job, a high-profile career and an enviable relationship and marriage at the age of 30.

Don't give up, find something meaningful to do, and open up your own happy life. As long as people have hands and feet, and are healthy and developed, they have the right to pursue and enjoy happiness. If a person feels that he doesn't even pursue it, then he really lives in vain.

Failure is the mother of success, struggle is the result of life's efforts, as a person, and an adult, to be responsible, to take responsibility, in their most lost time, to turn the tide, the courage to climb. If you want to live a better life, you have to pay more and more difficult experiences, so that you can get a little victory. If, you are forever stagnant.

If you don't get a better update, you have to lose. In today's era, with rapid development, without innovation and ideas, there is no better life for yourself. Everything is man-made, how much you do and how much you gain, there is a cause and effect.

Don't feel lost, either. Waves of people in the world, no one is easy, everyone has a sense of loss, adjust yourself, take out your style of the year, smile at life, and move forward bravely.

When you encounter difficulties, you should think thoroughly about what you have done over the years, how much meaningful and great things you have done, how much you have succeeded, how you have succeeded, how you have failed, why, you will fail, think about it more, and give yourself a reason to be satisfied. On the basis of these problems, find gaps, so that we will learn from each other's strengths and weaknesses, and we will go further.

Send you four words, God rewards hard work, as long as we are positive and optimistic about life, life will also give back to us. The problem is to persevere, happiness is really earned by oneself. The problem now is to find a job, do it well, after a long time, you will be appreciated by your colleagues and bosses, and with good popularity, life will become better.

Don't feel sorry for yourself anymore, cheer up, at least think about what you want to do first, find a job, and live a regular life can help you regain your self-confidence.

You are the best. Please don't give up, you have already read the script when you come to the world. Know that what happens in the next life is a test for yourself.

Refuse to be rotten. When I was younger, I didn't read anymore. In the future, I will not get married in this marriage.

You quit your job at your uncle's factory, thinking that you were a failure, without a job, and playing on your phone at home all day. In this case, find a way to go back to work, there is no need to feel embarrassed, and apologize to the good uncle, after all, it is the most important thing to go to work and earn money.

I think you did the right thing to do when you quit your uncle's job, don't work for your relatives, and then you don't go to work and give up on yourself, that's your problem, since you have a girl you like, then you have to show your good side, and if you work hard and have achievements, you will have the confidence to chase her, and now you are really nothing.

Knowing your mistakes can improve a lot, since you now know that you have done something wrong, you should work hard to make up for it, I will first go to find a job or go back to a relative to tell him and then let him give you a job, after all, it is my own relative, I may take care of you, and then regain my strength and do a good job to earn some money, and only after I have money can I chase women, so that I can succeed.

If a man doesn't want to kiss, he thinks he has failed, because you are still young and still have a chance, as long as you don't admit defeat, it's never too late to start over at any time. I hope you have a successful career first, so that a girlfriend will not be difficult to find.

Don't think like that, you're just out of work right now, but you can't stay at home all day, you still need to find a job and keep yourself busy. When chasing your girlfriend in this way, you won't feel like a jobless vagrant.

Please don't be presumptuous, as long as you are willing to stand up bravely, you have a chance to turn the current situation around. As the old saying goes: "There is nothing difficult in the world, only those who are afraid of it." "I hope you can cheer yourself up soon.

Don't deny yourself because of a momentary setback, let alone settle for the status quo, you can do the work you want to do, and then chase girls when you get better.

If you can't achieve anything, and you don't even dare to chase the woman you like, then you must be a very failed person! You realize that you are a failure, so why not try hard, and you may succeed if you try hard!

I don't think you should think like that, you should have self-confidence, because you can still have many choices, there is still a long way to go in life, failure is the mother of success, I think you will succeed.

I think you only know what to regret, scold yourself, what's the use of saying that you are a failed man? What's the use of that? You should start working hard today, you'd better learn a skill, even if you go to New Oriental to learn chefs, it's better to make money with technology in the future, don't scold yourself, what's the use of scolding, work hard.

If a man can completely get rid of a woman, the man will feel relaxed, at least the woman will not interfere with his normal life, and then the more relaxed the man, the more happy the man feels, maybe the greater the pain in the past, the greater the happiness now, after all, it is impossible to experience the feeling of happiness without experiencing the feeling of pain.

Then you'd better be courageous. To change yourself, these things. Go after someone you like. Go and work hard.

Don't feel like a failed man, even though you quit your uncle's factory job, you can go out and find a better job. I believe you have what it takes.

I think everyone will encounter all kinds of difficulties, as long as you solve them one by one, since it is a failure now, but you have to believe that you can make a comeback.

As a man, I feel like a failure! Born with low self-esteem and sensitivity, it led to a very bad interpersonal relationship, thinking that I could get better by changing the environment, but in fact it was just self-deception, and now at 23, I feel that I am a failure, and I have fallen into a vicious circle for myself, and I have wanted to consult several times.

I think you're going to work, you're going to go to work and see if there's a job to do? Instead of playing on your phone every day, that's definitely not going to work.

You may say that you are not very successful in this area, you should choose the industry you like, or you are more familiar with, and explore it slowly, there will definitely be an industry where you can make great progress.

It must be a little closer to success from today than from tomorrow, brother, if it is a man, go after it, if you can't catch up, what's the loss?

Little brother, don't self-deny yourself, raise the bar of failure, you will find that you are not bad! Don't be too yourself, and don't define yourself by worldly work and marriage.

I don't think we can give up no matter what, since we have failed, the most important thing is that we have to stand up bravely.

Now that it's not too late, now that you've found the cause of your failure, start over now, and you'll be immensely proud of the day your career has succeeded.

Temporary failure is not important, if you regret it now, you can also go to your relative's factory to continue to work and regain your strength, if you can't pull down you can go out and find a job, now is not the last moment, as long as you regain your strength and find a job to perform well, you will have a career in the future, you will be a successful person if you earn money, and chase the girl you like.

At the same time, there is a large piece of glass in the rest area to see the maintenance status of the workshop, you can see everything without entering the workshop, if you must enter the workshop and communicate directly with the maintenance personnel, please go to the business front desk to get a visit card, accompanied by the service consultant into the workshop.

For you to say that you are a useless failed man?

First of all, you must be in a bad mood today, because the rush you are facing is very you. No matter what you are? It doesn't matter how old you are, but since it happened, accept it calmly, there is nothing you can't accept.

Secondly, because of this you feel like you have lost your self-confidence and feel like a failure. Once you were proud. Now I feel like a failure, but the reason is that you didn't think about what you wanted in the first place.

What if you knew what you wanted from the start? You won't fail, you won't be so miserable. In fact, sometimes giving up is the beginning of a new choice.

Third. You feel like if you quit, you can't live. You can't accept the reality, you can't accept the result, but you still resign.

There must be a reason for resigning, and you will not resign unless you have to do so, and since you have resigned, you can only change the status quo and cannot continue to fall. Life goes on.

You are a failure, a useless man, you are not you, don't think like that, you are not a failed person, and you must not be a useless man, this weak person actually works there with you without earning money, and without keys, I will give it to you, give it to me, give it to you, give you love and happiness. Sometimes a person does one thing and hates himself for being a loser if he doesn't succeed, but in fact, if he doesn't fail, there will be no success, no, as long as he insists on facing it, he will definitely have a positive palace. Failure is the mother of success, you have to remember this saying.

If you want to retaliate against the suspect, you can also find a decent job if you have the ability, maybe it is easier to work in an economic company, and you don't have to feel guilty about getting a salary, but if you want to pass it on yourself, you can. After a while, I did miscellaneous advertising, and my career did not change, and it was indeed too unstable, but fortunately, I like to make up for it very much now, and I don't care much, come on, don't cry and leak envy. Some of their own men with perseverance.

Because you've said it twice, but you can't survive the office people have heard, and you're talking to me for 30 and then you've been working with you to change their minds.

If you don't like this job and have no future, you can change it Yes, you don't have to work in the ambulance work. Not because of you. The key to working without professional ability is that you see yourself in others, and is she willing to change her self-motivation?

The person who confirms the ruler shoots summarizes one by himself, why is the failure worse than others? Yours. Learning is not a one-time commission ratio.

You will also become as good as others.

Hello. It is inevitable that a person will make mistakes, but don't make the same mistakes, and there is no need to lose confidence in yourself. Now that you've quit your uncle's factory, it's time to find another job that suits you and make a comeback. Otherwise, your girlfriend won't continue with you.

I think that a bureau guesser should not be able to defeat himself first, first of all, he should be self-dismantled as he has confidence first, if you don't have confidence yourself, then how can you succeed? That's why self-confidence comes from yourself.