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It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to handle, do you feel the same way?

Many times we think that we are married to a woman in the past, and we should be treated well, so we all hope that our mother-in-law will be kind to us and be attentive, after all, we all have parents, who doesn't feel sorry for their daughter to be wronged when she gets married, but do you really understand the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? Sometimes mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along with each other is also a way of interpersonal communication, some "cheap", it is not to be taken for granted, not that you marry in the past.

Many mothers-in-law also hope that they will not get into too much trouble with their daughters-in-law, but often some women just don't know how to get along, so the contradiction between the two generations is getting bigger and bigger, and it has gradually become an unfillable gap. Women should understand: there are 3 kinds of "cheap" in the in-law's house that cannot be taken advantage of, and it is easy to lower the status!

"Cheap" to buy a house

It is said that marriage needs material security, especially when buying a house, a woman can't always think that her in-laws have money, so she lets her in-laws have a little more, and she doesn't have to do anything, she only needs to pay a little "share money", anyway, she buys a family of two.

In fact, the more this is the case, the more you will let your mother-in-law look down on you, because the unfairness has taken root in the mother-in-law's heart, and you will only have more opinions on you in the future, thinking that you are not sensible.

Take advantage of the "cheapness" of eating

Filial piety to parents and care for the elders are a kind of cultivation as a younger generation, sometimes we not only have to go back to accompany our parents on the weekend, but also know how to be grateful, serving our parents is also the duty of children, but a meal, do not do it yourself, for a long time the mother-in-law is very hard, there will be a sense of grievance that can not enjoy the happiness of children.

Women at this time to play your virtuous, don't always eat for nothing and don't work, in fact, it's not a "princess life", but also a "princess disease", at home maybe your husband loves you doesn't matter, but as long as it's in the in-law's house, the old man still cares about this aspect, so it's not a bad thing to take the initiative, let the mother-in-law understand your mind and feel your good.

Take advantage of the "cheapness" on the dowry

The door to the door may have been a kind of attention in the past, but now the era of the development of emotional openness, many people will have true love and spend their lives with each other, but if there is a mistake in the dowry, there may be many times in the in-law's family will not have status.

Sometimes the woman's family is not as good as the man, and the dowry can't take out good things, so she casually passes through the door, although the in-laws don't care, but outsiders will still have ideas in their eyes, and after a long time, the in-laws may also look down on women, although they don't say it, women can feel it.

It is said that the fate of the previous life has been cultivated in this life, in fact, marriage is more important than the integration of the two families, women want to have a status in the in-law's family, in addition to their own intelligence and emotional intelligence, often can not ignore their usual words and deeds, not to say how to come, mother-in-law is also an ordinary woman, will also care about your behavior, in fact, are not bad people, she also wants to get along with you, so that there is a sense of home, so how to choose, it depends on you.

These three types of cheapness cannot be taken advantage of. You can't take the money of your mother-in-law's family, you can't have money disputes with your sister-in-law and your husband's brother, and you can't occupy the family's real estate.

Don't think that after getting married, you can pay for your own wedding house with your mother-in-law's family, and don't think that there will be another old mother who will serve you like your own mother, and give birth to children in the future, let alone that your mother-in-law will help take care of the children.

I think it should be about money, taking care of the elderly and children, and the attitude towards her husband, although these are not things that a woman must do, but she has the right and obligation to do it.