What about the boy who likes to be shy?

Looking around us, we can find such an interesting phenomenon: confident people are hardly shy, and shy people are often unconfident. Therefore, overcoming shyness is essential to developing self-confidence.

So how do you overcome shyness? Here are some things you can try:

1.Never talk about yourself as worthless for no reason. We all do things wrong at times, but that doesn't mean you're always clumsy.

Maybe you have some shortcomings, such as smaller eyes and a bigger nose, but in fact, this is your characteristic, and there are countless big-mouthed beauties in Hollywood?

2.Fully understand your strengths and weaknesses, find small cards and divide them into two colors, one for disadvantages and one for strengths. Write a pros or cons on each card, and then calm down and evaluate which of your strengths you haven't played yet, and how to play them?

Which shortcomings are negligible, and throw away such shortcomings. In this way, you will not deny yourself too much, and you will find that your strengths outweigh your weaknesses, which will enable you to focus on your strengths and overcome your shortcomings.

3.Shy people often like to sit in the corner so as not to attract attention. Try to sit in the center of the crowd at the next rally, you are a person who has a lot of thoughts in your heart, but you are always afraid to express them in front of everyone.

This time, you might be able to win applause by speaking up your thoughts.

4.When talking to someone, make your voice a little louder so that the other person can hear what you are talking about.

5.When someone talks to you, look at the other person, and shy people tend to ignore this. Of course, you don't have to stare at the other person to prove your confidence, but at least let them know that you're listening.

6.Repeat it when someone doesn't answer you, as shy people often forget. Don't excuse yourself by saying that others aren't interested in what you have to say.

7.When someone interrupts you, find a way to keep finishing. We are often interrupted from time to time, and the shy person sometimes uses gestures to suggest that someone interrupts him, as if that is exactly what he expects.

In fact, the other person is very interested in what you have to say, so don't use interrupting the conversation as an excuse to escape from the crowd next time.

As long as you can look at yourself calmly and correctly, look at the other person with your eyes and speak louder, so that the other person notices you. Of course, it's like changing any other behavior, and I always feel embarrassed at first, and I feel more comfortable going back to the old ways. At this time, you might as well think about all your worries in the bright light, and most importantly, don't care about those fears, and slowly you will find that you have become a different person.

Most people always think that they have courage to act, but on the contrary, shy people have courage when they are encouraged to act. It's better to act than to act, just do it, and you will become more and more confident.

1. Girls who have a strong desire to protect and are shy are actually more liked by boys. Girls are particularly timid because they are shy, and some boys like this feeling, and they will be especially happy to help them, because this can expand the sense of responsibility in their hearts. For the sake of being in the limelight, they will be crazy to show themselves in front of girls, and Mo Changsheng silently protects the girls who are very weak and timid in their eyes.

2. Have a good impression, some boys will especially like the kind of girl who is very shy, in their eyes, the shy girl is the most in line with their future requirements for the object. Of course, not all boys will like this kind of girl, as the so-called green vegetables and turnips, each has its own love. Everyone has their own style that they particularly like, and everyone has their own unique style.

You don't need to change yourself according to other people's attitudes. 3. Feel the timidity and shyness of the other party, some more timid boys or girls will feel that it may be due to their timidity and shyness when they see their shyness. Because in the eyes of these brave and bold people, shyness is equivalent to cowardice and timidity.

They don't understand why they blush and their voices change, because they've never felt this way before, and they can't understand it.

Boys like girls who are easy to be shy, because shy girls generally give boys a sense of protection and curiosity, but it is difficult for boys to fall in love with girls who are easy to be shy, because, shy girls are not good at expressing their love, and boys will not feel each other's love.

Answering shyness is a kind of pathology In many people's concepts, children who have been called "obedient and honest" by their parents since childhood are well-behaved children, and teachers at school say that such children will not fight with others and will not fall in love. This standard is used by many parents to demand their children, if you are a naughty mischievous person, you will be compared to the opposite, so many children will slowly become obedient under the education of their parents, do not fool around with other children, and will not fall in love. It seems honorable to be such a child, and everyone loves it.

But the reality is that such children have a common problem when they grow up: shyness. Most people tend to see shyness as a normal condition and think it's normal to be shy when they see strangers.

In fact, shy people have poor interpersonal skills and do not know how to communicate with others, especially with the opposite sex. In the face of difficulties from superiors or colleagues at work, they dare not protect their own interests. Even in the face of his parents, he did not dare to put forward his own ideas.

Shyness is more than just what it looks like on the surface, don't underestimate the harm of shyness.

In general, boys still like cheerful girls because they are easy to get along with. Only little boys like shy little girls.

That's for sure, men have this desire to protect, this type of girl can stimulate male hormones, and they must be competing to perform, this kind is so cute!

Like, because a shy girl is a flower, on behalf of her to accept your love, if she doesn't like it, it is cold-eyed, shy is often sincere and easy to make friends.

Boys like beautiful girls, as long as they are beautiful, they don't care if they are shy or not.

What should come will always come, let it be, one day it will belong to your Supreme Treasure and come to your peace of mind.

Not necessarily, different people like different things.

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