My husband s daughter, how do I deal with 5

Hello, I think your husband is hiding your relationship in front of his daughter, maybe her daughter can't accept the fact that you are together for the time being, after all, it is not easy to accept a person who has nothing to do with him to become a member of his family, since you have chosen your husband, then you should give him time to let him deal with this relationship. And it's natural for her to take home what her daughter bought, because it's his own daughter who gives the gift, and it's impossible for you to let him throw it away, and if he doesn't even care about his own daughter, how much can he care about you. In the same way, he didn't take things anywhere else, which proves that in his heart, the family he formed with you is his home, and he also needs your approval.

So, since you are willing to live with him, then calmly accept all this pre-existing situation, first of all, you don't think that his daughter is good to him or he is good to her daughter, you are awkward, this is human nature, it's okay to look at the family with children.

Finally, I wish you happiness.

You love him and naturally accept everything from him.

If you can't stand it, give up.

His daughter is also his relative, and you have to think about him too. Be more inclusive. Think about it, if your husband is a person who doesn't even care about his newborn daughter. Don't you feel terrible? Let's adjust your mindset.

What is the best way to talk to your husband and daughter?

The husband's daughter should be treated gently, and the daughter faces the stepmother.

There will be resistance, you should get along with her slowly, and don't target her everywhere. After experiencing a lot of communication, exchange, companionship and care, the man's daughter may begin to accept you slowly, get along with you more and more harmoniously, and even be willing to call you mom, and willing to open her heart slowly. But one thing to note here is that the stepmother should not try to replace the mother, there is always a difference in the psychology of the child, so in the relationship with the child, do not say that her mother is not, which will cause certain psychological conflicts to the child, and then it is easy to cause psychological problems.

The establishment of the relationship between the remarried couple is different from the first relationship, because the first relationship does not include a lot of realistic relationships and emotional memory entanglements, and both people are moving towards life step by step at the same time, and remarriage indicates the processing of various realistic relationships and emotional residues, which can be truly integrated together on the basis of good handling.

How to get along with the daughter of the lover, first of all, depends on the size of the child, because children of different ages have different resistance, thoughts and recognition, can not be generalized, but for a child, there must be strangeness and instinctive resistance, and it will also be sensitive, such sensitivity is not only for children, but also for your lover and relatives around you.

Therefore, first of all, in the face of children, you must learn to be patient, you must let go of your sensitivity, such a family formation, if you can't let go of sensitivity, you will become guessing and doubting, and you will become big because of some small things, especially at the beginning of getting along.

For the child, you must understand what kind of psychological dynamics she is at such an age, and be able to know the degree of impact of the disintegration of the family on the child, and be able to measure the degree of rejection and resistance of the child to you in getting along, and make these clear, so that it is possible to grasp the child's dynamics and ideas, gradually get closer to her, and establish feelings and trust with her.

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Treat her as well as your own daughter.