Some questions about salutation and self title

20 years old (male) - weak crown;

30 years old (male) - the year of establishment;

40 years old (male) - the year of not being confused, the year of strength;

50 years old - more than half a hundred years old, the year of knowing wrong, the year of knowing fate, the year of Aifu, the year of Dayan;

60 years old - the year of the sixtieth year, the flat-headed nail, the year of the ear, the year of the cane township;

70 years old - the year of the ancient rarity, the year of the cane, the year of the matter, the year of the government;

20 years old (female) - Tao Li Nianhua;

24-year-old (female) Hua Xinnian;

to get married - the year of Mei;

to 30 years old (female) - half-aged;

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Problem description: What should I call my teacher's lover (senior and second) and what should I call my colleague's lover.

What to call a strange woman (older than yourself).

What to call a strange man (older than yourself).

Don't write too much about the above questions, it's best to be accepted by life!

Analysis: The title is indeed more troublesome, and it has regional and cultural characteristics.

The following approach is recommended:

What should be called the teacher's lover: "Mrs. Shi" is too written, or it is reliable to call "teacher".

What should be called the lover of a colleague: "teacher" to the elders; For the younger generations, the older ones are called "big brother" and "big sister", and the younger ones are called "brothers" and "younger sisters", so it is a little kinder.

What to call a strange woman (older than yourself): Call "big sister".

What to call a strange man (older than yourself): Call "big brother".

When someone else is addressing you and making you feel uncomfortable, you can deal with it like this:

1.Politely but firmly express discomfort. It will make you feel better if the person is calling you by your first name.

2.Other optional titles are available. Tell the other person that you prefer to be called X, such as your job title or title.

3.Explain the reason for the discomfort. Tell the person that you would like not to use the title out of respect. Explanations will help the other person understand.

4.Emphasize anticipating change. Supplementary explanation: Since they do not want to affect the good interaction between the two parties, they hope that the other party will use a new title.

5.Provide assistance to the other party. Tell them that they can remind you if they forget, and you'll be active in reminding them.

6.Be friendly but firm. Even if the other person doesn't change right away, he remains friendly but firmly uses his new title.

7.If it doesn't work, don't respond. Ignore people who don't respond to the use of inappropriate titles.

8.If distress is caused, seek out superiors or lead intervenes. Inform the relevant person of the situation and seek assistance.

9.Avoid communication in the worst-case scenario. If the above does not work and causes distress, you can choose to avoid communicating with the other party.

Overall, the key is to express your grievances firmly but kindly, and give the other person the opportunity and assistance to make amends. If none of the above efforts are effective, certain evasive behaviors can be taken. The overall goal should be to avoid undesirable consequences, not to spoil the relationship in order to correct the other person.

Asserting one's position requires self-confidence and awareness, but it is more important to properly manage the emotional differences between people so that they do not affect the interaction between the two parties.

We are taught to be away from home and call ourselves three points shorter. If you feel about the same age as yourself, you are called the eldest brother and the eldest sister, and even if you are a few years younger than yourself, you are called the eldest brother and sister, which is an honorific title.

In the past, people liked to be old, and others called me big brother and sister, which made me feel old and stable, and I spoke with majesty. There are also colleagues or friends who do not call their parents in the first place, even if this colleague or friend is about the same age as themselves, they should be called uncle or aunt, so as to appear respectful. (It's like Huang Feihong calling Aunt Thirteen.)

Two years ago, a woman in Sichuan took the car of a colleague and his wife from Sichuan to Guangdong, and the colleague's child called the woman's aunt, to say that this is a very normal thing, but this woman did not relentless and quarreled with her colleague and his wife, and said that the child should call her sister, and finally quarreled and scolded, and the colleague had no choice but to throw her on the highway. It's really a laugh out of the big teeth.

So female friends, don't mind what others call you, some people have lived in the countryside for a long time and don't understand the changes in the current name. Whether they ask you for directions or do something, they must call you with respect.

Finally, let's talk about local titles, all married women in Jiangsu and Zhejiang call each other aunts, that is, you call her aunt, and she also calls you aunt. You just have to take the child, and a fifty-year-old person across the street calls you Auntie, don't be surprised, because that's what they call it.

1.That's it. If the relationship is okay, it is not an exaggeration to call it by its name. The main thing is to know who to call! For example, Wang Gang. You can call him Brother Wang. Brother Gang can do it.

2.It's even simpler on the street. When you see a woman your age or what you call a high school student, call her directly"Beauty".

Because women like to be praised by others. Even if it's against your will, it's not comfortable. If you are a little older 30 or 40 years old.

Just call it directly"Sister"That's it. If it's too old, call it it"Auntie".

If it's a man. Because I'm a boy. That's why I saw people who were about the same age as me were called buddies, and they were much older"Uncle".

This will not be too abrupt and can leave a good impression on others!

I hope it helps you!

You can have a surname + position at work, such as Mr. Wang,。。 If you don't have a position and are older than yourself, you can have the surname + master, such as Master Wang (suitable for older men), of course, you can also call him whatever you want. Female, if you are much older than you, you can call it Sister (Sister Wang), not that you are much older, and if you are not your superior, you can call her (Xiao Wang), even if she is against it, her heart is sweet!

For those you don't know, you simply omit the title and change it to say "Excuse me", "Please ask", "Excuse me", "I'm sorry, I'll ask you." "Those who are younger than themselves are called handsome beauties or classmates.

1. If you call it like this, you can call it a nickname or a more intimate name (such as a single name) after a long time.

2. If you meet an older boy who calls brother, a much older boy calls brother, and a much younger boy calls a little brother.

In the company, the person who is familiar with himself should be called: a certain brother, a little older than himself: you can call it a brother! The big one is called a certain master or a certain uncle....(A character in the person's surname or first name).

Generally, it's okay to call Brother Wang or Sister Li, if you have a better relationship, it's okay to call someone who is not much older than you, if the other party is small-minded, don't call it that.

1, this worker.

2. This friend (for help) is younger than himself. Just call classmates.

For people who know, the familiar ones are called names, brothers or sisters, and for people who don't know, it is generally practical that boys are called handsome guys or buddies, and girls are called beautiful women or beautiful girls.

In Cantonese, the almighty name is: handsome guy, beauty.

I'll teach you a trick, 1. The men you know or colleagues are called brothers, and women are called sisters, of course, for those whose children are as old as you, they are called Uncle X, Aunt X or XX Manager or Director!

2. What should relatives call and how to call them, if you don't know, ask your mother!

3. In a strange place, the man is called Mr. (can also be called the master-dialect), the woman is called Miss, and the older one is called the eldest sister!

If you don't know someone who is older than you speaks to you, you don't need to talk about it if you're similar to yourself, so you are unfamiliar!

1. I don't care what the other party calls me, and I don't feel uncomfortable.

It's usually your good friend or your own relatives who give you some titles or something like that. It will be easy for you to accept something, and even if it is more difficult to hear, you will be able to calm down. I don't care at all that it's better.

I've had a lot of friends who have called me a lot in the past, but I just want to laugh and don't take it too seriously.

2. If this person is just a stranger and gives me a title, I will feel a little uncomfortable.

If someone I don't usually meet or don't know much in general, and I am called by some name, I may feel a little uncomfortable, but I will not say anything to the other person. At the same time, I may also give the other party some titles, so that the other party knows that his behavior is not good, so that he can slowly improve his behavior.

3. You must calmly solve the other party's address to yourself, and you will feel less uncomfortable.

At this time, you can also go to the other party to have some communication. Through communication, find out why the other party gives you some titles and so on. Let yourself be able to solve problems by chatting.