How to manage feelings in a foreign relationship, and how to manage a relationship for a foreign rel

The ways in which an exotic relationship manages a relationship are:

1. Control your emotions

When two people have time, they can, when it's inconvenient, they can call, send WeChat, if he doesn't use WeChat, then use Facebook or other ways, and keep in touch with each other. When you're in a bad mood, don't send a lot of negative energy stuff, which will bother the other person.

2. Have your own life

You must have a relatively independent personality and your own way of life, and you have to find your other half to tell your loneliness and loneliness when you have nothing to do all day long, but the other party is thousands of miles away and has no company, so I'm afraid that whether this relationship can be maintained for a long time is really tested.

3. Overcome jet lag

Exotic relationships are often when you wake up and he is going to sleep, and you have afternoon class and he gets up, so first of all, do your own thing, whether it is work or work, and then put your mind on the other person as much as possible, and seize the time possible to communicate with each other. When you go to bed in the middle of the night and are woken up by **, please don't get angry, the other party needs comfort more than you at the moment.

4. Love to be spoken

Regardless of the communication tool you use, remember to express your feelings for your partner often, and always keep in touch is not only crucial for the development and stability of foreign relationships, but also helps to dispel suspicion and mistrust in the other person. Expressing your feelings and reassuring the other person is a very good way to promote the stability of your relationship.

5. Create opportunities to meet

Exotic love, although you can communicate through communication tools, but after a long time will feel tired, then you should find more opportunities to meet, because each other is lovers, with a common goal, in order to be able to be together, appropriate investment should be, do not lose big because of small things, do not because of time or money, and make each other's feelings slowly fade.

6. Share life with each other

Strange love will often feel that the life circle is very different, you can send the circle of friends in the circle of friends you think is interesting and interesting stories** to him in a foreign country, or share some interesting things you have experienced in your own life with him, so that the life circle of the two people will be closer to each other, and he will also have the illusion of staying consistent with you for a long time, because he knows all the interesting things in your life.

Exotic relationships look similar to long-distance relationships, but there are differences between the two, and the main reason is that there are cultural differences in long-distance relationships.

First, the distance between two people in a foreign relationship is indeed a big problem

If it is just a simple long-distance relationship, we can also take a car or train in a short time, and we can meet the object of our dreams in a few hours or a day, while if it is a long-distance relationship, even if you have more money, you can go at any time if you want to, because going abroad requires a series of cumbersome procedures.

Second, the cultural differences between the two countries are the source of many conflicts

There must be great cultural differences between different countries, and if you can't communicate with each other face-to-face for a long time, you will find that the two hearts will go further and further, and in many cases you will not be able to work together as before.

Thirdly, there is a lack of necessary security between two people in a foreign relationship

A sense of security has an irreplaceable role in the relationship, you can imagine that a person alone abroad, must be eager to be cared for by others, once you have a favorite of the opposite sex to you shush the cold and warm, you can soon enter a new relationship, especially in modern society between the sexes are more and more open, so in a relationship, two people are in different countries, this is very dangerous, there is a possibility of breaking up at any time.

There is generally no good way to deal with a foreign relationship, simply put, either you follow him to live in a foreign country, or he comes to live with you, if you can't do both, it will be difficult to maintain the relationship between each other.

What I want to say to girls about long-distance relationships.

The long-distance relationship has begun for the third month, and the two have only been separated for a month in the two years and two months they have been together, and they can't stand the quarrel several times. It wasn't until the start of the 10,000-kilometer distance of the real exotic relationship this year that my mentality slowly matured a lot.

First of all, you will definitely go through a stage that is the torment of jet lag, you can't find your boyfriend many times, you can't get in touch, and you will start to speculate. Once speculating, it is easy to lose sleep, forget to eat, be anxious, get angry, and then quarrel and lead to a breakup.

Secondly, you will go through the second stage, you will be very sad and feel that you are lost without company, your boyfriend may not want to explain to you what he is up to, and your relationship may start to fall apart and question each other's feelings.

In the last stage, you may want to meet and quarrel and talk. In fact, it is feasible, but if you still can't talk about it after meeting, and you can't see that the boy still has nostalgia for you, you still have to give up and don't insist. If he still loves you, it's time for you to change your way of getting along.

Find a suitable time, when you are both free, and have a good chat. Girls remember to give boys a certain amount of space, don't ask when they are in a foreign relationship, don't ask questions, don't say breakup easily!!

You can dry him, give a little sense of distance, and then close the distance appropriately, don't share too much about your life, but give him your positive and sunny side, let him know that you are always improving, and boys like girls with positive energy.

Don't share your unhappiness too much with the guy, you have to be a powerful woman, your bitterness is best to spit on your friends or counselors, if your boyfriend is stressed, he will be very stressed to hear your complaints. Two people should have a plan for the future, choose a place where both people are satisfied with development, and don't develop a long-distance relationship with no end.

Be more encouraging to your boyfriend, be coquettish and gentle, and never complain and scold.

A long-distance relationship, not to mention a long-distance relationship, is the biggest test of a relationship, and you will find that you are in contact with her, not at all on the same level. Over time, this feeling faded and drifted away with the wind.

Long-distance relationships are the most painful and test each other.

Clear concept, online dating is love, neither a game** nor a flood beast, most of the brothers and sisters who bubble the Internet can't avoid this experience, you might as well face it calmly (married netizens are not encouraged to love online, brothers and sisters or sisters and brothers are commensurate with each other will not be investigated). Note that this excludes the idea of fishing for Kaizi through the Internet. Since it is love, it must have basic elements such as sincerity, devotion, infatuation, and longing, otherwise there is no need to talk about it; Of course, online dating, as a form of love, also has characteristics that are different from other forms, it uses the Internet, not facing the opposite directly, implying personal real background and so on.

I won't summarize it all here, but that's about it.

First of all, for the question you mentioned. Personally, I feel that it can be compared to a long-distance relationship. First of all, the difference between the two is that it is easier to meet in a different place than in a foreign country.

The rest is basically the same. For a foreign country, to maintain a good relationship, it mainly depends on whether the previous relationship between the two of you is very deep. It also has a lot to do with the personalities of both of you.

If it's all self-reliant, the kind of character that is self-reliant. In that case, there should be no major problem for the maintenance of your relationship. Other than that, it's a bit more difficult.

Personally, I feel that people have to choose one at a critical time in their career and relationship.

Of course, it's mostly up to you to choose. No one can say which is important to you. Personally, I think people are more important.

Because I think it's less likely that people can meet true love in this life. If the career is gone, you can come back, but if you lose it, it will be difficult to find! There is also to look at the relationship of two people, personality, and the future planning of both parties, if the relationship between two people is very good, the personality is also very compatible, and there is a common plan for the future, I think it is possible to insist, on the contrary, or don't waste time.

If you do it, no matter how busy you are, remember to ask for three meals and say good night before going to bed! Don't complain about anything with him, resolutely don't say what you can handle, let go of what you can't handle, and deal with it when you can. If you are sick, you have to take care of yourself without complaining, after all, the other party can only give you words of comfort.

To understand the other party's situation and difficulties, comfort and cheer him up at the appropriate time, as long as there is no third party involved, both of them need to be a very sensible person. Anyway, it's very good to report good news and not bad news. Love words also need to be spoken, after all, showing your attitude is the best way to maintain it.

It can be said that long-distance relationships can't get together in the end, that is, long-distance relationships, and there will be very few people who end up together.

Make frequent calls, report the status of your trip to the other party in a timely manner, and don't let the other party worry too much. The two of them send more WeChat and communicate more. Share all the funny things that happen in your life with each other, and meet them whenever you have time.

I think that for a long-distance relationship, if you want to manage the relationship well, two people need to communicate effectively, and you must take the initiative to care about each other in your daily life, so you can maintain this relationship.

This requires the cultivation of common interests and hobbies between the two people, and the need for the two people to maintain a certain amount of contact to ensure the relationship between the two.

Two people need to keep in touch frequently, and they can share some things in life to bring their hearts closer.

Exotic relationships are very challenging. In a foreign relationship, you must endure loneliness, be absolutely loyal to this relationship, and be loyal to each other mentally and physically. Distant relationships need to keep in touch with each other at all times and give each other enough security.

When encountering this kind of relationship, I think it is necessary to keep in touch and communicate, and open more ** when two people usually have nothing to do, and you can also shop online during the festival and give each other some gifts.

Operate through communication. Communication allows you to get to know each other better.

First of all, two people must keep in touch with each other, and two people must maintain a sense of ritual in life, and they can often send some gifts and more condolences in life.

I think that in reality, such a relationship is still more positive, as long as two people get along with each other and communicate more harmoniously and happily, then they can better work together to manage a better future.

Therefore, the communication between couples must be based on respect and tolerance, and they should understand each other more, so that they can be more considerate of each other, and everyone will get along more harmoniously and happily.

1.Gou book bright attitude and respect each other.

The attitude when communicating is also very important, you should communicate modestly and friendly with the other party when communicating, and respect the other party when talking, keep leaning forward during the conversation, and don't lean back on the chair, so that the whole person will look lazy.

2.Listen when you talk.

Listening is also a point to pay attention to in communication, when talking to others, we should take into account the feelings of others, but also listen to what the other party expresses, so that we can better communicate in language, otherwise it will be inefficient, so that communication will not achieve the effect at all, and it is easy to misunderstand.

3.Don't always be self-centered.

When talking, we should also pay attention to an important point, don't always think that what you say and do is very important, always take yourself as the center, and other people's is not important, this situation is to be eliminated, which can easily cause others to be disgusted, and will also leave a bad impression on others.

4.Express your opinion clearly.

No matter what the problem is, why, how, what the reason is, etc., you must fully explain to the other party, even if there is no reason to act, you must inform the other party of your own considerations and ideas, and get the other party's understanding and support in action will be of good help to the development of communication and the development of the next situation.

1.Create romance.

You can put some thought into creating romance and expressing your love. You can express your special wishes to the other person on holidays or some special anniversaries and give some special gifts instead of physical objects.

As long as you can express your heart and sincerity, it is the best gift. For example, send a song that you sing and make an electronic photo album.

2.Allocate appropriate time for communication.

Instant communication is the most effective way to communicate. Therefore, in addition to mobile phone chat software, voice calls and ** calls are the best ways to communicate, so that you can reasonably share the emotions with your partner at this time.

When a partner has a critical job at hand, there is no need to disturb the other person. Distribute activities on the horizon, and other topics at a time that is convenient for both parties. In this way, the hope of dating will be exciting, and everyone will not complain to each other because their partner is not connected.

3.Same hobby, same thing.

The biggest concern of long-distance relationships is the lack of discussion because of the difference in food, clothing, housing and transportation. Therefore, we must have a common hobby and do the same hail thing. Watching the same plays, listening to the same individuals**, recommending books to your partner, there will be many topics to discuss.

4.Able to tolerate loneliness.

Choosing a foreign love is equivalent to choosing loneliness. Learning to endure loneliness is something that two people in love must learn to face. Life without a significant other is always lonely and difficult. Persevering to the end is victory.

5.Set a common goal and work towards common progress.

If you can't see the future at the beginning of your relationship, the relationship will be full of instability. If two people are unfortunate or in a long-distance relationship, it is easy to lose their sense of security, and the relationship will not last long.

At this time, if two people have a common goal, try their best to contribute to it, work in the same direction, and constantly build emotional bonds, then how can two people break up easily? Love abroad is a test of two people's loyalty and deep affection for each other. As long as you get through this stage, you will be very happy in the future.