What are some of the experiences you had when you were reluctant to spend money and regretted it for

When I was in Moni in 07, I went out of the train station and saw that there was a long scarf sold on the street, the fabric was very comfortable, black, red and gold German flag color, because I was in a hurry to do something, I didn't try it or buy it, and I thought it would not be too late to come back and buy it after finishing my errands. Later, due to some changes, I went back to Saxony when I was done, and I would go to that place to see Munich all these years, but I couldn't find that kind of scarf anymore. Then I reminded myself:

Flowers can be folded straight, do not wait for no flowers and empty branches. Some things that you will really regret if you don't do them in time.

At that time, there were a number of new doorhouses in the south of the new bus station on our side, less than 100,000 buildings, my father told me that we should buy one or two, and we should buy them with a loan, and you and I worked together to pay off the money, but I was young and ignorant, and said that "I will go to the first-tier cities in the future, so I don't want to stay here", my father had to give up. The final result is obvious, the house has tripled in a few years, and my father always said: I haven't saved 300,000 yuan for so many years, and this house has risen by more than 300,000 yuan.

This is what I regret the most because I didn't buy the wrong thing.

When I went out shopping before, I saw a piece of clothing I liked for an event, and I thought it was a lot cheaper. But it's still a bit expensive. The more I thought about it, the more hesitant I became, and in the end I didn't buy it.

As a result, after waiting for a while, I found that the event was over, and the dress had returned to its original price, and I regretted it very much at the time. Hate yourself for being too unfocused. I was going to buy it at the original price, but it turned out that I no longer had the size I was wearing.

Hope was utterly dashed. I regret it.

I regret that I was three months pregnant, but I didn't know I was pregnant. I thought I was sick and went to get an anti-inflammatory injection every day. At that time, my family suspected that I was pregnant and asked me to go to the hospital.

I said I didn't want to spend money in vain. It turned out to be a miscarriage within a few days. At that time, I really regretted it and felt sorry for the child.

But it's too late to say anything.

When I had savings, a female colleague borrowed money from me, and we were on good terms at the time, and we wanted to develop a relationship with that girlfriend. But I hesitated at the time and didn't lend it to her. She borrowed money from someone else, but quickly replaced it.

But it was cold to me. Deliberately alienated me. At that moment, I realized that my greed had cost me a person I liked.

When I went to buy clothes, I took a fancy to two pieces, and my boss persuaded me to take them all. I want to take it, but I just feel like I'm losing. Then I took a cheap one.

But if you want to buy it, you will still buy it sooner or later. So I got off work the next day and went back to get it. As a result, the boss said that it was sold.

That's the one I regret the most.

I remember one of my favorite bands coming to my city for a concert. I had been hoping to see one of their concerts. Now's your chance.

But the ticket price is more than 1,000. Momentarily hesitated. Later, my friend went to see it and came back and was very moved.

But I will break my bowels. Now I feel that I still don't love enough, and if I really go, I'm afraid I will feel worth it for the rest of my life.

Let's start by asking a few questions: What is the purpose of making money? What is the purpose of saving money? And what is the purpose of spending money?

Make money for basic survival and a better life; Saving money is to make your future life secure; Spending money is a necessity of life, and at the same time, it is also enjoying the fruits of one's labor. Spend money, see where you spend it, necessities, there is no need to regret it. Some of my hobbies, interest-related consumption is actually the same as food, it is also a necessity, spiritual food.

But there is one kind of impulse spending, which is not okay. Most regrets are due to impulsive spending.

So, before spending money, think about the causes and consequences of spending money. For example: whether the money is big, whether it will have a big impact, whether the things bought are worth it, and how much value is returned.

If you are still very entangled, you must ask your nearest and dearest people, as the so-called authorities are obsessed, they will probably give you a better answer. Ask yourself if you can't buy it, and whether the things you buy are the same as you imagined.

Finally, if something is bought and can't be returned, don't think too much about it, which will greatly affect how you feel when you consume. Since you have spent everything, you should enjoy what you have spent your money on, rather than thinking about something that is not practical and useless.

When you have a lot of money to spend, you will find that you will not regret spending it.

You don't regret spending on things you love, and that's what I am.

Buy a house and a car! As long as it is not gambling and poisoning, I will not regret spending it.

It is conducive to lifelong development.