How to cultivate children s sound personality and intelligent brain

The best education is to make good things happen and make children real people. In what aspects should parents cultivate their children's sound personality, Liu Chenglian, a family education expert, shared her parenting experience, which is an important educational concept for cultivating children with a sound personality. Parents should put their children's growth in a comprehensive and complete concept.

China has always advocated the all-round development of children's morality, intelligence, physical fitness, aesthetics and labor. When a child enters primary school, the school will evaluate the three good students. Such advocacy and evaluation illustrate the importance of holistic development.

As parents, we should have such a holistic and holistic view. Usually we think of elementary school students as just entering the learning stage. As far as I'm concerned, learning is a big concept.

Children should not only learn cultural knowledge, but also learn how to love and accept love, how to manage their emotions, how to get along with others, and how to build relationships with nature and the universe. Our child can develop in these areas from an early age and make him a person of sound character.

He may not be perfect, but he will be a whole person. We should give our children the freedom to experience life. We all know that learning is important for elementary school students.

Let's take a look at what it's like for a child to learn. For younger children, they should see, hear, touch, feel, and then abstract what these senses touch in their minds to form concepts, which is the process of learning. The more a child experiences, the richer it will be, and the deeper the connection with nature and the universe will be.

A lot of things are done in the course of the child's experience, and the child's life will feel a sense of belonging and meaning. At the same time, you will feel happiness. We need to support real-life children.

The world is changing so fast, or rather the world is always evolving. Still stuck in the past reality, afraid that the child will not find a job, and demand and treat the child in a way that is not suitable for him. This is actually quite unfair to today's children.

There are parents who think that something is good for their children, and they will choose it for their children.

Through the method of play to cultivate interpersonal intelligence and introspective intelligence, so that children learn to accept setbacks, let children learn to love, learn to care for others, usually accompany children more, let children help parents with housework, etc.

Children's personality intelligence is all-round development, not only including the knowledge level, but also including the cultivation of morality, intelligence, physical beauty, from an early age to cultivate children's ability to deal with others, to start from the parents themselves, subtly influence children.

From an early age, it is necessary to establish a correct outlook on life and values for children, tell more positive stories to children, cultivate children's ability to think and judge independently, and cultivate their correct living habits and sports that are beneficial to the body

Before the child is 3 years old, it is necessary to establish a sufficient sense of security, need the attachment of parents, so that they can be closer to their parents, and they will be more willing to obey the education of their parents when they grow up, so before the child is 3 years old, parents should take care of and pay attention to the child's emotions, and meet the child's physiological needs in a timely manner.

Between the age of 3-12 years, it is another stage of growth, at this time the child is already sensible, can understand the words of the parents, parents at this stage to set up good rules for the child, let the child's character be shaped, to the child to establish the correct three views.

At the age of 12 to 18, the child enters adolescence, at this time the child's personality becomes very sensitive, and parents need more respect and communication.

If you want to cultivate the personality and intelligence of children, you need to educate them in the family environment and social environment. Creating a healthy living environment plays a great role in the development of children's personality.

It is necessary to establish a correct consciousness for children, to learn to guide the children slowly, to let the children have a correct three views, to understand the true thoughts of the children, and to learn the knowledge of parenting.

You should let your child pay more attention to the performance of others, and you can also let him and other children participate in the game through some games, so that children or Huiwu can improve their ability to resist frustration and solve things by themselves.

The definition of the word personality intelligence is not very clear to the general public, personality intelligence is actually a component of the human intelligence group, it is mainly manifested in two forms of interpersonal intelligence and introspective intelligence, interpersonal intelligence is simply the ability to be more sensitive to the emotional will of others, introspective intelligence is to have a deep self-understanding, including self-awareness, their own emotional state and their own personality characteristics of the ability to understand and so on. Therefore, personality intelligence covers two main characteristics, on the one hand, it is the attention to others, as well as the grasp of social roles, on the other hand, it is the attention to self and the grasp of one's own personality life.

Usually the child begins to have a sense of self when he is about two years old, and at this time, the family tells the filial chief to go appropriatelyGuide your child to pay attention to othersDevelop your child's ability to love others. Personality intelligence is reflected in an awareness of oneself and the existence of others, it is not enough to recognize oneself, but also to know friendship, so parents can educate their children and kindergarten childrenMutual help and love, respect for teachers,Learn to care and respect others so that children can grow in care and love.

In fact, play is a good way to develop children's interpersonal and introspective intelligence. It's in the nature of children to love to play, soThrough play, children can become more aware of themselves and othersPlaying games often requires companions, and in the process of playing together, you can establish a good peer relationship and learn the communication mode. Parents should encourage their children to participate in multiplayer games, learn to socialize with others in the game, and also join their children's games, which is of great help to the establishment of parent-child relationship.

Now the vast majority of children are only children, and they are the jewels of the whole family. As long as the child has any request for socks, the family will go to meet it, which is actually not right, parentsBe good at saying no to your child's unreasonable stare requestsAt the same time, when the child encounters difficulties, do not blindly spoil the child, but let him form the courage to face setbacks.

Children should learn to care for others, and through the summary of life experience, let children understand relevant knowledge, and cultivate children's ability to be frustrated.

It can be cultivated through games to improve children's ability to be frustrated, so that children can learn to control their emotions, and let children learn to care for and care for others.

I think it can be cultivated by watching movies, listening to **, telling stories, playing games and shopping for children.

The psychological self refers to the understanding of the temperament, ability, personality, tastes, hobbies, ideals, etc. that disturb oneself. This is also the most critical part of children's wild liquid self-awareness, which needs to be carefully analyzed, in the heart, there will be many contradictions in the self, such as the relationship between today and tomorrow, the relationship between advantages and disadvantages, the relationship between happiness and troubles, these psychological problems belong to the category of psychological self.

You may need to know how to explain some big things to your child, and you need to encourage your child to get in touch with new things.

Give your child a sense of security; Guide your child to resolve negative thoughts; Give children a sense of belonging.