Chen Jiaheng is really difficult to be a man, what are the difficulties of being a man?

There are indeed a lot of difficulties in being a human being, and today we will learn about some of them.

The first: poverty disasters.

When a person is already poor, he will feel that even a little more material material is precious. Therefore, he could not bear it at all. If you let him go out and have a dash, he will find it difficult.

The original meaning was that those people should be cautious and at a loss. At the same time, he pointed out that the causal cycle of things, if the poorer you are, the less willing to give, will only become poorer. To solve this problem, we must learn to give.

With good thoughts in your heart, you will be freed from the shackles of poverty, and you will live a better life.

The second: difficult to learn.

The purpose of learning is to be happy and happy, to make oneself wiser and more filled with this judgment. As a wealthy man, he often treats himself with respect and kindness, and he is willing to respect his status and lifestyle. In the past, all people were hard-working.

Suddenly, from days of enjoyment and relaxation, to painful torment, this is something that many people can't do. It's not just hard to learn. His friends, relatives, and close friends will use all sorts of methods to stop him from taking the path of supremacy in learning.

No one can easily escape this confusion. So it's hard.

Third: Finding a significant other is hard.

The declaration of human life is only a few decades, and meeting a true belonging in a limited time tunnel is like looking for a golden sand in the vast sea. The chances you may encounter are slim and out of reach. Even if you were born into a wealthy family, you will not come across it in vain, and it is up to you to find it yourself.

Fourth: It's hard to <> forbearance

Everyone has their own nature. Some people love beauty, and some people love money. In life, these are all foreign things, and the main thing is to disturb the purity of the heart.

As a human being, you have to be patient if you can't avoid it. It is really difficult for us to suppress not only the inner pursuit of external objects, but also the overflow of the heart. If a person always wants to take it for himself and be selfish, then it is really not good, so in life, you must learn to be patient, don't always be powerful, otherwise you will burn yourself.

The difficulties of being a human being are:1To live a well-fed life, you must work hard every day to make money.

2.Bored socializing, daily eating and drinking.

There are many difficulties in being a human being, interpersonal relationships are one of the most important ones, and you need good insight to build a good interpersonal relationship, but you don't know what the other person is thinking, so you don't know what you should do.

Personally, I think that it is difficult to be a human being in ancient and modern times, and since you are born as a human being, even if it is difficult, you must always be a human being. The difficulty of being a human being lies in the fact that there will be what Mencius said, "there is a reputation for not being safe, and there is a destruction for seeking perfection".

Sometimes it is really difficult to be a man, not only to take care of the face of a friend, but also to take care of your own interests, so it is really difficult to be a man sometimes, and it is impossible to take care of everything thoughtfully.

It's the hardest time for others to ask you for help, and you're embarrassed to refuse, and if you don't refuse, you'll have to trouble yourself, it's really helpless, who won't refuse others, and that's the way your personality is.