I want to make a male friend, but my boyfriend doesn t agree, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-05-10
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You must still care about your boyfriend. I can understand you because I've been through it and I know how sad it is to not see someone for a long time. But I want to tell you, if you really love him, don't do anything that hurts each other's feelings.

    You can find something to do and develop some hobbies, so that you don't feel uncomfortable not seeing him because you miss him. In addition, it is better to talk to someone you can trust.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How do you know he won't agree?

    You should try to talk to him.

    For love. Both are equal.

    Two people are to love one another.

    Respect each other as well.

    Love is not the whole of life.

    And a career, and friends.

    You can't live without male colleagues or classmates.

    If he even restricts you.

    It shows that he doesn't respect you enough.

    It will only bind you.

    Two people have to be together for a long time.

    They should all have their own privacy and space.

    Otherwise, it cannot be sustained.

    Hopefully he can understand.

    Because friends are the same as love.

    It's a part of life.

    is indispensable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Your boyfriend is a little too selfish.

    And you, not all men who date you will like you 60%, and you are too confident, right? No wonder your boyfriend doesn't agree!

    Rejection of personal attacks!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    And often 60% of the men I come into contact with will like me!!

    You should consider going to the entertainment industry to develop!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    by him. Anyway, you always have to communicate.

    Let's spread it all out.

    Plainly. Your boyfriend is machismo.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You understand his feelings, don't do much if you love him, for yourself and for him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There should be your own personal space.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Communicate with him normally and tell him why you don't want to live together, there is no reason why you have to live together as far as I know, right? So see if he understands, if he doesn't understand, you have to think about this relationship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Personally, I don't think I can understand this matter, because cohabitation is about two people, and unilateral disagreement must mean that it is not okay, so what is there to be angry about such a thing.

    So I think you should keep your point of view and don't accommodate the other person because they are angry. Hope mine can help you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can first explain to him why you don't want to live together, why you will refuse him, and then discuss it well, and then if there is something between lovers, you still have to say it well, don't be cold at every turn, so you can take the initiative to go to him, tell him why I rejected you, and then you will understand me like this.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your boyfriend asks for a cohabitation but you don't want to, he's angry, you should have a good talk with him.

    Lovers should respect each other and tolerate each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The relationship is managed by both parties, and he may feel that the relationship between you has reached this point, but you may not feel that it has reached that point, so it is useless for him to be angry, and you can't follow him because he is angry.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you do the right thing, the girl should protect herself, if he really loves you, he will respect you, ignore him, let him reflect on it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since it is cohabitation, it is necessary to ask for your consent, if you feel that you are at a loss, or if your relationship with him has not reached that step. Of course, if you refuse, if he gets angry, you don't have to compromise, because if you compromise, he may gain an inch. And cohabitation is a big deal, so be cautious.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    He is angry with him, it is useless for you to get used to him, you have to stick to your own position, unmarried cohabitation has no effect on him, but it is particularly bad for you. If you really love you, he will respect your choice, be considerate of you instead of being angry with you, and you should reconsider whether his feelings for you are so simple and so deep.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The boy's boyfriend asks for consent, but I don't agree and he's angry, what should I do? In this case, you should tell him, because we are practicing for a while now, and you are not sure about the relationship, so you can't let it. It is necessary to be able to be together.

    Respect me and I will protect myself. If he still doesn't agree. You break up with him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Communicate with him well about the reasons for his reluctance, in fact, if he has a sense of responsibility, he will understand, and you don't have to force yourself because he is angry.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You be yourself, there are some principle issues that can't be changed, girls should be self-respecting, self-love, can't change because he's angry, I think just let him be angry, you just leave don't contact him, stop for a few days, he will figure it out. Otherwise, you'll be the one who gets hurt.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You should stick to your bottom line, and if you don't want to live together, you don't live together, because cohabitation is not good for girls. If he's angry, let him be angry.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Reason with him, say your reasons, most men will understand and cooperate with you, if your boyfriend disagrees, let him say his reasons, if you can reach an agreement, it is best, when you can't reach an agreement, you can choose to leave or separate for a period of time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You should explain clearly to your boyfriend why you don't want to live with him, you should say that you want to surprise him later and don't want to do such a thing in such a short period of time, so that he will think that you are very self-loving and will be better for you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    He got angry and let him calm down. He doesn't pay his salary, so he has to listen to him, and he is not an ancestor, so he has to coax everything, this matter cannot be compromised, so if you are angry, you should be angry.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If he really loves you, I believe he will respect your choice, instead of deliberately getting angry with you and ignoring you, so you should refuse his request, which is just a test of his sincerity and sincerity to you, to see if he really likes you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can also measure for yourself whether you will regret this step (if you don't get results). Yes! Then don't live together, if you feel that he loves you, you won't regret living together later. That is, to weigh the pros and cons.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    My boyfriend asks to live together, but I don't want to, he's angry, what should I do? I don't think you should leave him alone because he's disrespectful to you. You don't care.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The relationship between two people should be based on mutual understanding, mutual trust, and mutual tolerance. If he doesn't want to, you should also take a step back and wait until the right time to bring it up.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You are right and should persevere.

    Cohabitation is different from marriage, marriage is a husband and wife relationship that has been recognized by law, and the relationship cannot be dissolved casually but must go through certain legal procedures; Cohabitation, on the other hand, is an act that is not recognized by law, and the relationship can be terminated at any time due to the will of the person at the time. Cohabitation is generally a bad phenomenon because there are no guarantees for the parties to the cohabitation.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's normal for your boyfriend to ask for a cohabitation and you don't want to. If he is more angry because of this, it can only mean that he does not respect you, and there is no need to coax such a disrespectful boyfriend.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You can tell him that you don't feel like it's time to live together and hope he understands.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think this kind of thing should be discussed between two people, not forced, so even if the other person is angry, you should have your own position.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Actually, he's angry, what should you do? Actually, I personally think that you are doing the right thing, because in this situation, protecting yourself is the most important thing.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Abide by your own bottom line and principles, you are not wrong, if he is angry because of this, it means that he really doesn't care about you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If your boyfriend wants to live together, and if you don't want him, he will get angry, which means that this man's temper is not very good, why does he have to force you to do things you don't like, let him be angry if he is angry!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You should stick to your bottom line and tell him that not cohabiting with him is not that you don't love him.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's a different idea from him. I don't think it's reasonable for him to be angry, because a guy who loves you will respect your every decision he makes, really, I think so.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Whether or not two people can be ordinary friends after a breakup depends on their personality, the reason for the breakup, how they handled the breakup process, and each other's emotional state. In some cases, two people may be able to maintain a friendly relationship after a breakup, but in others, this may become difficult or impossible.

    1.Communication: Communicate with your ex to understand each other's wishes and feelings. If you and the other person are willing to continue to have a friendly relationship, then this possibility exists.

    2.Reasons for the breakup: Consider the reasons that led to the splitting of the silver and lead hands. If the breakup is due to some serious issues like betrayal, violence, etc., then it may take longer to resolve these issues, and it may not be appropriate to be friends with your ex at this point.

    3.Breakup process: If you handle the breakup process well, treat each other with respect, and avoid accusations and arguments, it will be more likely that you will remain friends.

    4.Emotional state: Consider your and your ex's emotional state. If you have both recovered from the pain of a breakup and are willing to try to maintain a friendly relationship with each other, then the possibility exists.

    5.Each other's living conditions: Consider how you live each other. If your lives have been completely separated and haven't crossed paths too much, it may be easier to remain friends.

    6.Time and space: Give each other enough time and space to find a new balance in each other's lives after the breakup. This way, it may be easier for you to adjust to your new role and stay friends after a breakup.

    In short, whether you can be a good friend after a breakup depends on a variety of factors. It's important to fully consider these factors and respect each other's feelings before making a decision. If you are both willing to try to maintain a friendly relationship, then this could be a positive option.

    However, if such attempts have caused distress or harm to any of you, then you may need to choose other ways of dealing with it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Summary. Hello, I suggest that you communicate with your boyfriend, I hope he will respect your wishes in the future, and you also want to save the best for you after you get married.

    My boyfriend got that with me when I was very reluctant. What am I going to do.

    Hello, I suggest that you communicate with your boyfriend, I hope he will respect your wishes in the future, and you also want to save the best for you after you get married.

    Hello, in fact, in this case, if you are forced to do so, you can also choose to call the police, but your boyfriend may not need to do this quickly, or communicate with him and express your views on this matter.

    Hello, after all, this thing you said is very important to girls, and every girl wants to leave this matter for her future marriage partner.

    If your boyfriend apologizes to you, this time it will be okay, and it is better to do it when each other is willing to do it in the future, and it is more pleasant.

    Just an apology? That's too cheap for him, too.

    Hello, what do you want the other party to do in this situation?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    This is a rather tragic story, and I feel sympathy and regret for what happened to the man. What would I do if I had a situation where my partner didn't trust? I can give you some personal perceptions from the following aspects.

    Look for the cause. I would first think about it, why would my partner not trust me? Is it because I did something that made him or her misunderstand or suspect?

    Or is it because he or she has some psychological or emotional problems? Or is it because of some communication or understanding barriers between us? I try to identify the source of mistrust so that I can act accordingly.

    Communicate openly and honestly. I will take the initiative to communicate openly with my partner, explain my true situation and position, express my feelings and demands, listen to his or her thoughts and opinions, dispel his or her doubts and dissatisfactions, and enhance mutual understanding and trust. I will try to use a rational and gentle tone and avoid heated or emotional arguments that can cause more harm or misunderstanding.

    Actively improve. If I find that I do have some behaviors or habits that make my partner distrustful, I will actively improve myself, keep my promises, respect the other person, be transparent, and not give the other person any reason to be suspicious or worried. If I find that my partner has some psychological or emotional problems that do not trust me, I will try my best to help him or her solve or overcome them, give him (her) more care and support, and let him (her) feel my love and trust.

    Be respectful. If none of the above methods can get the other half to trust me, I will maintain my respect and bottom line, and will not sacrifice my principles or values to please the other person, nor will I do dangerous or stupid things to prove myself. I will seriously consider whether there is still the possibility and necessity for us to continue, whether there is still a common basis and goal, and whether we can still give each other happiness and joy.

    In short, encountering a situation of mistrust in the other half is a tricky problem that requires the joint efforts of both parties to solve. I hope mine can be of any help to you.

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