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The most important thing is your own feelings, no one is perfect, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and the reason why two lovers can be together is because they appreciate each other's strengths and tolerate each other's shortcomings. Marriage is a lifelong event, and you can't leave hidden dangers before you get married, and if you feel that you can't accept his shortcomings, you are not suitable to be together.
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I feel good, I'll tell you something, it's really my own.
One night, I asked my brother, what do you want to do in the future? He said nothing. Then I asked, you don't want to be a boss or a rich man, he said, why be a boss or something, isn't it good to be an ordinary person?! Why are you so tired?
I had an epiphany, yes! Take Michael Jackson, I like him a lot, but do I have to surpass him? Actually, I just need to be a spectator. People are the protagonists, so who plays the supporting roles?
Many parents want their children to become dragons and crush their children half to death. Your boyfriend will be very happy with your children in the future. I wish you all more happiness. Happy New Year!
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It depends on your own thoughts, but I think it's okay for him to do this, it's not that you have a good car and a big house, you have to have a good life, I think it's best to have a responsible and self-motivated boyfriend.
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It's contentment and happiness If you don't pursue too much, you will have less troubles How good it is naturally If you have a good car, you will want to get more So now many people are unhappy Lost in the world of desire They lose their laughter More is pressure Why is it not a wise choice to stop everything in moderation? ?
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You don't have to pursue it, do you?
It probably depends on your performance, to see if you are defeated!!
What kind of person you want to marry, you first have to look at what kind of person you are! If you love money, then find a money more ruthless!! If you want to love, then find someone who loves you, nothing else is too important, and it's not that you can't open the pot!
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I think it's good, in fact, it mainly depends on whether it's good for you, and if it's not good for you, then everything else is useless, isn't it?
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A very good man, an ideal object, if you just want to have fun or you have good conditions and a lot of money to pursue, then you will dump him!
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It's better to be low-key, it's much better than being poor.
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If he is very self-motivated, it is good, but you have to look at his character, ask his own heart, and weigh it.
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You....Think about it!The way of life belongs to you, and the suggestions of others can be referred to, but don't deviate from your inner thoughts.
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It's boring to live so tired, isn't it good to be indifferent to fame and fortune?Am I just not self-motivated?
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I think moderate is better. Don't chase too much or give up.
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I believe that the criterion of a man's success is to achieve his pursuit, to obtain fulfillment, to be what he needs, to realize his value, to be happy to live, and to be content.
Although fame and fortune are the motives and goals of some people's struggle and hard work, not chasing fame and fortune may make some people lack self-motivation, but it does not mean that people who are indifferent to fame and fortune are unproductive.
Indifference to fame and fortune enables people to have a peaceful state of mind, correct value orientation, a more lofty goal in life, and win greater success!
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Only those who can obtain fame and fortune but do not get fame and fortune are called weak fame and fortune, and those who cannot get fame and fortune at all are not indifferent to fame and fortune. A person who can indifferent fame and fortune must be a superior person.
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When others think you're successful, you're successful.
Others think that you are unproductive, that is, you are unproductive, and you don't need to be indifferent to fame and fortune.
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Society is like this, it's hard to be indifferent to fame and fortune, but that doesn't mean that it's bad to be indifferent to fame and fortune, and being able to be indifferent to fame and fortune is actually a good thing in life, because it means that you have gotten rid of the shackles of materialism to a certain extent, on the contrary, those who have become material slaves, although they have a house and a car, may not be happier than you, because our ancestors have long concluded that "money is not equal to happiness", and the excessive desire combined with it will make us annoyed. I saw a sentence on the Internet, which is very good." When we are tired of life, life has often left us" Although you can't be too poor in this society, but the key is to look at your mentality Everyone says that you are content and happy, and who really does it This mentality is developed by cultivation It doesn't mean that you have to go to the mountains to live in seclusion to be called cultivation Get rid of your own troubles in society Liberating your heart that is blocked by troubles is also a kind of cultivation Just in the mountains to be free of distractions Once you arrive in society, you can't settle down Being fascinated by the world of flowers It is also called cultivation not reaching home Indifference to fame and fortune is a very high realm.
You have the idea of indifference to fame and fortune It's not easy in today's society This is your blessing, I hope you don't make it disappear because of external reasons, I wish you good luck in but said that we have to be externalized and not internalized The outside can conform to the society Easy-going family but must uphold it in the heart This is how you can be a person with a realm.
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It's really hard to do.
In today's society.
It's not easy. I personally believe that the main thing to do is nature, or rather, to do it.
When a person has established his own outlook on life and values, it is likely that what you are will not change, or will not change easily.
I'm saying it all depends on the person"Nature".
I am"Compare"Indifferent to fame and fortune.
What you said"In today's society, everyone is busy making money, women are marrying for money, and men are also looking for money. I sometimes feel so tired, I need money to buy a house, I need money to get married. In a few years, I have to go to the elderly, there are small ones, I don't know how to be good, when I was a child, I felt that food can be wrapped, clothes can be put on the body, but now it is obviously not good, everyone else has a car.
There is this and that, the world of flowers, materialism, I still like to be a person who is indifferent to fame and fortune, because I think it is useless to have so much money, just use it with money. My wife loves it, the house is lived, and it's good to have a mountain bike. "I basically see the same thing.
Personally, I think so"Nature"As a result, it cannot be forced.
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When you go to the poor place of the water, sit and watch the clouds rise, the cycle of life, life and death are indifferent, understand these few words, and realize the meaning of the explanation, and everything is naturally not so important
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How to be a person who is indifferent to fame and fortune, or he will be poor all his life, so that he can't enjoy the taste of power, and naturally he won't miss it.
Either you go to the top of the top of society and enjoy enough glory and wealth, and then let go of everything and return to tranquility, but it will be difficult to let go again.
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Hehe, in today's society, it's impossible. Everything will oppress you. If you don't pursue money, your relatives will say that you are useless and unproductive.
Moreover, now is the world where money speaks. If you really see through it, hehe, that's the time to stay away from this society. But will you be able to survive?
Can you do it? Ask yourself, perhaps, we can only be ourselves in this society. Pursue what should be pursued, give up what should be abandoned!
When you look down on it, perhaps, you have lost fame and fortune. Be at ease with what happens, don't be deliberate. If you want to do this today, you may change it tomorrow, in short, do what you want to do!
Don't regret it when you're done, it's useless. It's good to be a good person! No anger, less anger.
If you can't finish talking about the big truth, you may feel it better if you feel it yourself.
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What about reading some Taoist books? Learn how to practice qigong, or meditate. Study the Bagua I Ching. Or, get fit, learn a musical instrument or a foreign language.
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1. Read some positive books and beneficial books, and slowly change yourself.
Second, relax your mind and let yourself relax.
Third, on the basis of not breaking the law and violating morality, secretly help others, and in the long run, you will make yourself more dedicated, regardless of gains and losses.
Fourth, to be kind to others is to be kind to oneself.
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Yes, but it does not exclude the complaint of a third party. A person who is indifferent to fame and fortune is not famous in contemporary times, but he is conveyed by his confidants and friends who know him, so that future generations will know about him.
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Because they let the whole world know that they are low-key!
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It is precisely because there are so few such people and they are rare animals, so as long as one such person appears, he can leave his name in the history books.
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The Tao Te Ching says: Do nothing and do nothing. Sage: retreat from the body, and take the lead; Outside the body, but in the body. Isn't it because of its selflessness? Therefore, it can become its own selfishness.
Some people who are indifferent to fame and fortune do not want to leave a name but have been recorded by history, and some people who chase fame and fortune have passed away with the wind and drowned in the long river of history.
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People can be indifferent to fame and fortune, but they can't be without friends.
Many people say that you should not be too selfish, and there are often many selfish people in this world, who only care about their own feelings and do not care about the life or death of others. If your boyfriend was a very selfish person, would you break up with him? If my boyfriend is a very selfish person and can't change it, then I will break up with him. >>>More
There are a few reasons, one, pampered since childhood, you have the final say on everything, willful, and like to say the last sentence. Second, you don't like your current boyfriend very much, and you have no fear of breaking up. Third, lack of self-confidence, lack of security, and use temper tantrums to win the attention and comfort of your boyfriend in order to satisfy this emptiness. >>>More
It is not recommended for middle school students to fall in love, it will affect their studies to some extent, and it will affect a person's life. People's energy is limited, and they should spend more time with most of their classmates for group activities and entertainment.
So I want to ask you why do you hate that person? And you can explain the reason clearly to your husband, and maybe your husband is embarrassed not to bring him, so he brought it, so I suggest that the two of you should discuss it carefully.
This man can't tell the priority, although friends are very important, but the girlfriend may be his wife and his relatives in the future (it has reached the point of talking about marriage), or he doesn't love you enough, communicate well, and break up if it doesn't work.