I m so annoyed, I want a divorce, can I do that

If there is no way for husband and wife to communicate with each other, then this love is really hopeless. There are so many good ones in the world that you can completely choose again. If it's me with someone who doesn't want to communicate with me, I'd rather be single.

That may be a simpler day, but it will also have a lot less troubles, and it can also be called freedom. I think that the ability of two people to communicate is the most important factor for two people to be together, and if you don't communicate verbally, you must at least feel the love of the other person.

Taking a step back, if divorce is difficult, difficult. You can find a job on your own. Use the busyness of work to numb yourself, meet some friends at work, and find another happiness in life at work.

Isn't it! Life actually includes a lot, it is not only love, but also your childhood dreams. It also tells him that I can live well without you.

However, it is better for modern young people to solve things quickly and neatly, as the old saying goes: cut through the mess quickly. Makes sense.

Add the following answer: Through your simple explanation, I know how far your relationship has developed now, probably because you are too young to know what real life is! As the saying goes, after getting married, both parties have to go through "seven years of itching", that is, in the 7 years after you get married, you must continue to learn, get along and tolerate, and learn to run a family.

What if you want to get married and you can't find how you used to feel, or what if you can't find your current husband? Think about how you got married in the first place, and why you agreed to get married in the first place! Don't you think about what you'll be like when you get married?

I advise you to think twice, and if you really can't get past it, don't care about the previous things, because often the past is the best.

Then you will leave, maybe you can find someone better than him, but a woman's psychology is often compared with her previous husband.

The psychological words of a man like you!

Let's get a divorce, there's no point in trying to go on any longer. You are only 22, it is impossible to live with him for decades, while you are young, you may still find a good one, and in the future, your youth will be exhausted, and it will be a divorced woman, it is difficult to find the right one.

Be cautious before getting married next time.

I think he didn't have a sense of responsibility before, it was his fault, but you betrayed him, and I believe that he is also very hard, and now he has begun to work hard, and he already has a sense of responsibility, if you leave him, it's yours, no, but feelings can't be forced, if you don't want to leave him, then you should think more about how good he is to you.

He doesn't trust you so much, you betrayed him. Is it after you get married? I hope you can both calm down, have a good talk face-to-face, put your mind down (it's not a big deal, divorce at most), talk calmly, and then make a decision.

You should sit down and have a good talk, if you try a few times and you really can't communicate, or if you communicate or solve the problem, then give yourself a period of time to think about it, if you really can't get by, it's better to leave Just think about what you said you are still young, find someone who is really suitable for you.

It's too painful to see that you can't live with him anymore. I want to divorce I don t understand why you still have to ask for help leave let me see your heart you have said that your heart is not in him anymore so what's the point of living with him since"It turned out to be simply impossible"Then divorce, bless you!

You should get divorced, but divorce is not so simple, you will definitely not be able to leave in the end, it is better to give up, you continue to rely on your parents, life is a matter of a few years.

Has it been communicated? If you can't communicate, I think it's better to leave, in a situation like yours, the heart can't come back, and it's torture to live like that.

In fact, you already have the answer in your heart, what you lack is the courage to act!!

No matter what others say, your life can only be controlled by yourself!!

Let's leave, this is just hurting yourself, and it's better to end it sooner than to let everyone be hurt.

Women have to be kind to themselves and choose their own happiness. It is recommended that you still leave well.

The best thing to do is to get a divorce as soon as possible, if you don't get divorced quickly, you will regret it when you suffer later.

It's a good thing not to have children yet, otherwise it would be even more troublesome to have children.

Didn't you say it yourself: "My heart is not in him". As a man, I still support you. If you want to be a little manly, you should break it.

You have to think about yourself, and if you find it difficult to get along with him, you can divide it.

If you do that, you might as well leave, maybe it's good for you and for him.

Now there is only a divorce marriage, and generally one party does not agree, and the court will mediate, and if the mediation is unsuccessful, the divorce will be granted.

Marriage Act 2010:

Article 31: Where both men and women divorce voluntarily, the divorce is granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.

Article 32: Where a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation of a person with a spouse;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

If one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 33 The spouse of a serviceman on active duty who requests a divorce must obtain the consent of the serviceman, except where one of the servicemen is seriously at fault.

Article 34: The man shall not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after giving birth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy. This restriction does not apply if the woman files for divorce, or where the people's court deems it truly necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce.

1. In this case, you still have to communicate with your wife to minimize the damage, mainly because she is holding her breath now, and she just doesn't want you to get her wish, so she asks you to go to the court to sue for divorce.

2. It is better to agree on separation, to discuss the children and property, to be more tolerant and considerate of each other, marriage should be cautious, but divorce must be more cautious, think twice.

What should I do if I'm getting a divorce? So it's "about to get divorced"?

The husband cannot sue for divorce for one year after childbirth.

You can negotiate a decision over the custody of your child.

If the agreement is not reached, you can sue in court and file for divorce.

The child will generally be awarded to the party who is conducive to the child's growth, such as: elderly care, stable income, convenient schooling, etc.

If you want to divorce, you should discuss it with your spouse, and if you disagree, you can sue.

To go to the court procedure, that is, to the local court where you registered your marriage, you bring your ID card and marriage certificate to the court case filing division and say that you want a divorce, and the staff of the court will help you, but in your case, you have to quickly find a fixed job, otherwise the court judgment will definitely be awarded to the mother.

There is no stable foundation, the child is not good, and besides, you belong to the active party, and the other party is not wrong, so it is very troublesome.

Tianjin Lawyer Li (Professional Divorce Lawyer):

The husband can usually sue only after the child has reached the age of one. Lawyers should know that what the client needs is not a pile of legal provisions, but a solution to the problem.

Lawyer Li believes that providing free legal advice is a way for lawyers to give back to the society, and lawyers should handle divorce cases with the goal of closing the case and leaving no hidden dangers.

One: first improve your socks and look at your personality.

Love can be done by one's own nature, or it can be romantic, but in the face of marriage, we need to be a rational person.

So don't copy what you did when you were in love into your married life.

In marriage, you need to perfect each other's personalities.

If one person has a stubborn personality, the other person will learn to tolerate it at the right time, and even if they quarrel, they can reconcile in time;

One person is sensitive and fragile, the other person is thick-skinned, and going out will also make the other person feel a sufficient sense of security.

However, if the personalities of the two parties are too similar, such as being more self-assertive, when dealing with conflicts or problems, it is equivalent to one less solution, or even-for-tat.

In intimate relationships, most people only see each other, not themselves.

Therefore, the sense of need is very high, and I can't extricate myself from negative emotions, accusations, and complaints, and I ignore the importance of doing my best.

If you want to better adapt to your new married life, you have to try to adjust yourself a little.

Although it is said that you should not lose yourself in marriage, you must also remember that in marriage, you cannot be stubborn about yourself. Two: learn to live with each other's shortcomings.

What attracts us when we are in love is the advantages of the other party, marriage will magnify the shortcomings of the other party, and the process of running in between two people is the process of accepting and tolerating each other's shortcomings.

Everyone tries to find a perfect person, but unfortunately, in the end, you will find that there is no perfect person in this world.

I always believe that even if a person is good, I still think that he must have shortcomings.

When you are in love, you will only care about the other person's good sales. Even, you will magnify the advantages of the other party ten times and a hundred times.

However, when it comes to getting married, it's very different.

All you see at this time is the other party's shortcomings, and the more you look at it, the more angry you become, and you are so angry that you can't wait to get a divorce and find another one.

Divorce is a big deal, if you have children, then talk or tease more important to worry about, it is related to the child's growth environment, the child's life contains happiness and future, so think twice before the group.

There are two ways of divorce in our country, one is divorce by agreement and the other is divorce by litigation.

1.If the two parties can reach an agreement on divorce, child support, division of property, etc., both parties may personally bring their ID cards, household registration booklets, marriage certificates and divorce agreements to the marriage registration authority at the place where one of the parties has permanent residence to register the divorce.

2.If the parties cannot reach an agreement on the above issues, the party who wants to divorce may bring his or her ID card, household registration booklet, marriage certificate, complaint and a copy thereof to the court where the defendant is domiciled to file for divorce. If the court finds that the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down, it will grant a divorce.

Legal basis] Article 1076 of the Civil Code, if the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Divorce can be obtained by mutual agreement or litigation.

If both parties agree to the divorce and can reach a consensus on the distribution of property, child support, debt distribution, etc., they can go directly to the Civil Affairs Bureau to handle the divorce;

If one party wants to divorce, but one party does not want to divorce, or cannot agree on one of the items such as property, children, debts, etc., the only way to divorce is through litigation.

If there are children, the judgment on custody is generally carried out in accordance with the principle of conducive to the growth of the children, mainly considering the following factors:

Under the age of two years is generally raised by the woman, and the education, work, income, age, family environment, and age of the children of both husband and wife. After divorce, the child who is breastfeeding shall be raised with the nursing mother. In the event of a dispute between the two parties over the custody of a child after breastfeeding, the people shall make a judgment based on the rights and interests of the child and the specific circumstances of both parties.

Two children are usually one per person. Children over the age of 10 generally need to ask for their children's opinions.

Hello, do you have any confusion that I need help with? Please describe it in detail, I can help you answer.

First, the divorce procedure by agreement: 1. Both parties should first apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority where one party's household registration is located. 2. The marriage registration authority will review and issue a divorce certificate if it is passed. 3. The parties shall dissolve the relationship between husband and wife from the date of obtaining the divorce certificate.

Second, litigation divorce procedures: 1. Write a divorce complaint by yourself or hire a lawyer. 2. Prepare the evidence required for litigation and divorce.

3. Submit the divorce complaint and evidence to the court with jurisdiction. 4. The court decides whether to accept the divorce lawsuit. 5. After the court accepts the divorce lawsuit, it shall send a copy of the complaint to the other party within the statutory time.

6. The parties participate in the trial and wait for the court trial. 7. The court makes a judgment granting or not granting divorce.

Questions. Thank you.

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