Girlfriend is suspicious and multi hearted 20

I don't know whether to say that you are insecure, or that your wife is too suspicious, so let it be

I tell you that a woman doesn't have a lot of heart, regardless of her husband's, unless she doesn't like you.

Insecure, I care about you too much, love you, adapt to it, don't try to change her, if you can't change it, cherish it if you love her! ~

Bother? What's the trouble.

As a girl, I just want to tell you that she loves you very much, you should care more about her, and develop a habit of telling her who you are going to be with.

It's like when you were a child, you went out to tell your mom who you were with.

You should feel happy to have such a girlfriend.

By the way, you're going to tell him the story of Cao Cao.

Haha, you call a friend as if you don't know and send yourself to your girlfriend.

Say you're already asking this question, she's going to be a lot better

It also shows that she loves you very much, cherish it, women are like this.

Being too suspicious in an intimate relationship can bring great mental stress to your partner and make you feel tired. I know that I shouldn't think cranky, and I know the importance of trust, but I just can't control my thoughts and think about the worst outcome. After the incident, I will blame myself for thinking too much and have strong anxiety, but because I know that I have planted a bad impression before, the next time I have a little trouble, my suspicion will become heavier and I will fall into an endless cycle.

Psychologically speaking, suspicious people are essentially insecure, so they live more tired than ordinary people. And establishing an intimate relationship is a great test, because even he doesn't know when he will have a seizure and how far he will not be disgusted.

The feeling of insecurity motivates them to constantly ask their partner to prove their love in exchange for temporary anxiety relief. But the "work" again and again is also scratching this relationship one by one.

1.Trauma from past environmental experiences.

When you find that the other person has abnormal attachment tendencies, you can comfort them in time. You should also communicate and interact more, give the other party enough security, let him adapt little by little, and gradually grow and improve.

2.The inferiority complex that comes from loving someone.

In essence, feelings are maintained by attraction, and the premise of attraction is that each takes what he needs and has the value of mutual appreciation. When we say that a person is emotionally at a low level, it is often because he is not worth enough and is not consciously attracted enough, so he will have an inferiority complex.

However, inferiority complex is everywhere, and people's psychology can not only be summarized by external values alone, but will be affected by the environment and mood at the time, so the problem becomes complicated. For example, when you feel that you love someone very much, you can ignore the value comparison and feel that you are not worthy of the other person.

I feel that I care more about feelings.

I'm a person similar to the subject.,My girlfriend has more friends of the opposite sex.,And she has a characteristic that the person who comes doesn't refuse.,How to say.,There's a senior.,It's her swimming lesson assistant.,The swimming is over.,And keep in touch with the assistant teacher.,This itself may not be anything.,But once the swimming assistant gave her **.,I don't know how long I played.。。。 Don't ask me how I know, hey, it's hard to think about it, and we were emotionally unstable during that time, which was really uncomfortable.

Self-diagnosis is that you experience less emotion, take this thing too seriously, and care too much about your girlfriend. Either it is a kind of value formed when I am growing up, that is, I must be dedicated to my feelings, so I attach great importance to it.

In addition, the subject said that your girlfriend watches a movie with a male colleague, this kind of thing, a man will think more, I really want to say that I am seriously suspicious and sick, and I am scumbag, what to pretend, right?

Here persuade the subject, break up as soon as possible, put more effort on yourself, if you have money, power, status, there are many girls, this is the reality. In our country, the equality of men and women, women's rights, has not yet reached the level of foreign countries. Some women shouted self-reliance and independence.

But I always want to find a rich boyfriend. What is the reason for this horse? . . I feel that I care more about feelings.

I'm a person similar to the subject.,My girlfriend has more friends of the opposite sex.,And she has a characteristic that the person who comes doesn't refuse.,How to say.,There's a senior.,It's her swimming lesson assistant.,The swimming is over.,And keep in touch with the assistant teacher.,This itself may not be anything.,But once the swimming assistant gave her **.,I don't know how long I played.。。。 Don't ask me how I know, hey, it's hard to think about it, and we were emotionally unstable during that time, which was really uncomfortable.

Self-diagnosis is that you experience less emotion, take this thing too seriously, and care too much about your girlfriend. Either it is a kind of value formed when I am growing up, that is, I must be dedicated to my feelings, so I attach great importance to it.

In addition, the subject said that your girlfriend watches a movie with a male colleague, this kind of thing, a man will think more, I really want to say that I am seriously suspicious and sick, and I am scumbag, what to pretend, right?

Here persuade the subject, break up as soon as possible, put more effort on yourself, if you have money, power, status, there are many girls, this is the reality. In our country, the equality of men and women, women's rights, has not yet reached the level of foreign countries. Some women shouted self-reliance and independence.

But I always want to find a rich boyfriend. What is the reason for this horse? . .

It's that you manage too much and don't trust her. If she thinks you are suspicious of her, she may feel that you don't trust her enough, manage a lot, and don't give her a little personal space.

Your girlfriend said this just to tell you that she doesn't trust her and thinks about everything in a bad direction.

The girl herself is a sensitive existence, you have too many problems, she will be uncomfortable, and in the relationship between two people, you must trust each other to last for a long time.

You definitely do things. Isn't it right? The girl is suspicious of you. That's why you're too suspicious.

Then you should think about whether it is your problem or your girlfriend's problem, which is obviously caused by your failure to give her a sense of security.

You should pay more attention to your girlfriend's emotions at ordinary times, and take the initiative to set a good example, and automatically keep your distance from the opposite sex, so that your girlfriend will no longer doubt you.

I think it's better for you to keep a sense of distance in this situation, and don't stay together all the time, so that the conflict between you will get deeper and deeper, and the inability to communicate will make you physically and mentally exhausted.

At this time, this girl should shift her attention to herself and find something to do, just like developing an interest and working hard to focus on her studies.

At this time, the girl will not be too sensitive in the relationship, because the mind will not be completely focused on the relationship, and she will not pay so much attention to the wind and grass in the relationship.

Of course, this boyfriend should also find a way to guide the girl. Finding a way to give her a sense of security is called going both ways.

I don't know what zodiac sign you have. Scorpio people in general are suspicious. Gossip haha Your suspicion comes from your character, if you guess correctly, you should be a very possessive person, a bit focused on pure spiritual loyalty.

Your suspicion is not because you don't trust her, but because you like to be suspicious of her, always trying to guess what she thinks in her heart, and if you deduce what she might think, you will constantly force yourself to test whether she has this kind of behavior. It's kind of mild obsessive-compulsive. It doesn't matter, people like you are very emotional, they take each other very seriously, your girlfriend knows your good if she knows right from wrong, and there is no crisis of trust between you.

But beware: this kind of personality of yours is often mistaken by people who don't know the truth, petty, or suspicious. So, now you should understand what you are in.

Then try to stop thinking about it so much. Try to change your thinking. Although that is difficult.

In addition, while you change yourself, you also communicate with your girlfriend to let him know what you really think. Don't let the misunderstanding affect your relationship. Kindness..

I wish you all happiness.

Every morning go to an open place to feel natural, adjust yourself, and give yourself half an hour to sit quietly every day! This is good for mental regulation! Refreshing!

It's about learning to regulate yourself! It's easy, and it works! When meditating, don't think about anything else!

This shows that you are not mature, you always suffer from gains and losses, you should believe in the other party, this is the foundation