How do I let go of this relationship, and how do I make a choice between this relationship?

Separate, separate, don't be soft-hearted, he is too weak and not suitable for you, if a man really loves a woman, he is not afraid of any difficulties. Don't be friends if you break up, it's impossible, for your future, never contact again in this life, never see each other again!!

Hearing you say this, I personally think that he doesn't love you, maybe he has too much baggage. Since they are together, why give up so easily, do you think his decision is sincere? From his eyes and understanding of him, can you see his helplessness?

If there is one, I hope you don't give up and talk to him again, of course this kind of conversation is not a request for him, love is a matter of two people! You are so capable and have started a business with him, you should have experienced a lot of ups and downs, you must have had a difficult and beautiful memory! Don't be demanding, just go with the flow.

Tell him what he thinks and let him make another choice. Here you go, and he has a chance! It's still the same sentence, don't let go lightly if you hold hands.

Cherish this fate!

Judging by what you said, it's not worth it. There are many good men, don't drag the mud and water, so that the burden of thinking will be too heavy in the future, and it is best to start all over again.

There is one emotion in my life that is very difficult for me to let go, and that is friendship. I believe that true friendship is a deep emotional bond that can transcend the limitations of time and distance to continuously support, motivate, comfort and accompany us. My friends and I have many fond memories of our youthful youth, difficult academic pressure, challenging professional careers, family difficulties, and so on.

We supported each other, understood each other, and helped each other through these ups and downs of life together, and these experiences deepened our friendship.

Sometimes, I am also estranged from my friends for some reasons, such as work, family, geographical distance, etc. However, our feelings are always there, and no matter how far apart we are, we still keep in touch in various ways and share each other's lives and moods. Even if there are major changes or differences in each other's lives, we will not easily give up our friendship, but try to understand and tolerate each other, seek common ground, and maintain our bond.

Therefore, for me, friendship is a precious affection that is very difficult for me to part with. I deeply cherish each and every one of my friends, they are the treasure of my life and bring me infinite strength and courage. I wish I could keep this relationship alive and go through more ups and downs with my friends.

Many people suffer emotional betrayal, but they can't leave the person who hurt them, they say: they can't let go of this feeling, they can't let go of this person. But what is it that you really can't let go of? What does it mean to give up?

1. What does it mean to give up?

Giving up refers to abandoning and giving, which refers to being subjectively willing and unwilling to give up. This word is the most common thing we say in love, and it is often that we can't let go of that relationship after a breakup.

2. Why can't you give up a relationship?

That's right, of course, it's not wrong, after all, two people have been together for so many years, of course, there will be deep feelings accumulated in it, if you can easily let go of a relationship alone, the only thing that can be proved is that there is actually no relationship between you.

However, if the relationship is betrayed, especially if you have to let go of the relationship, if you still say to yourself: "I'm sorry, I can't let go". Then, at this time, you are binding yourself, imprisoning yourself, and deceiving yourself.

The relationship between people is accumulated over time. Love comes from time to time, and that's how feelings come about. The longer you get along, the deeper your feelings become; If there is no day and night together, even if it is your own flesh and blood, you may not really have feelings; If you can share it day and night, even if it is a cat or a dog, it will have feelings.

Correspondingly, the fading and abandonment of feelings is also a process of time, as long as the time is up, no matter how deep the feelings are, they will turn from strong to light, until they finally die completely.

It's not that easy to give up feelings, but it's not as difficult as you think. If the relationship is dead, you will remember it at most, but you will never forget it. If the relationship is compared to a loved one, and the death of a loved one, everyone will be heartbroken.

However, it is clear to everyone that there is no resurrection from the dead. So hold a ritual to say goodbye to a dead relationship, and then the next day, to welcome a new life. At most, that is, Qingming or Zhongyuan will sweep the tomb and pay tribute, but the rest of the time, we will not always think about it.

Therefore, if you are reluctant to be emotional, it is simply because you think that your feelings are not dead.

Behind the feelings, there are dependencies and habits. You have lived with a person for so many years, there must be dependence, both in life and spiritually. For some people with severe dependence, leaving this person and breaking off this relationship is equivalent to depriving them of hope in life.

One of the biggest mistakes of dependents is to regard the other party or relationship as their own lifeline, so they are resolutely unwilling to let go. It's like a person on the sea, if he catches a floating board, he takes it as all the hope of life, even if the floating board is full of nails, they hold on to it. But I forgot that I can actually swim.

However, when a habit is a bad habit, in fact, when the bad habit is changed, a good habit is formed. In other words, if you don't break bad habits, you'll never develop good habits – relying on others must be bad habits, and relying on yourself must be good habits.

Love to the bones, or hurt you to the bones.

Too many people suffer for love because of two contradictory desires in human nature - the pursuit of freshness and floweriness; On the other hand, it pursues stable, safe, and unchanging emotions. Humans are not one-size-fits-all animals, and it is normal for people to change their emotions, and they can happen to you. I think you're doing the right thing.

Give him time to choose for himself, let him be brave enough to face his true heart, and not to deceive others and not to deceive himself. In today's era when everyone has little patience and is unwilling to wronged themselves, the more honest they are, the less regrets they will have in the future.

Falling in love before marriage is a process of "trial and error". No one is born with a clear idea of what kind of life partner they want. All this must be obtained in practice. Every "trial and error" can help you figure out what kind of person you really want.

Will he run away to find that online girlfriend again? What happened during the accident. If he still has regrets in his heart and longing for others, then you will naturally know what to do. Fortunately, I am not married yet.

Since you are suspicious, it is difficult to guarantee that you can treat him as before, even if you forgive him for being with him later, I believe you will remember his female netizen, since this is the case, it is better to separate.

Love can't be shared with others, and you don't need to be so generous with love.

Let it be, there is no way to control the feelings, you have it, it's you, it's not you who you have it, it's not you, it's not you, it's like if he really has to meet that online girlfriend, if he really wants to, if he doesn't go for 3 months, will he not go in the future? This is something that can't be controlled at all, so don't think too much about it, and after 3 months, let's see how it goes.

You have met your beloved in your life, you can say that you are lucky, no matter what the ending is, you can say that you are happy! It's good to grow old, but if you break up, although you are sad for love, crying for love, and heartbroken for love, after all, you have loved and been romantic. Although the original lover is gone, the romantic plot of the love is still buried in your heart, isn't this also a very happy thing?

I remember a book that said that no matter how far a person goes with you, he will eventually be separated from you. After all, there are very few people who were born at the same time, and those who grow old together not only have emotional partings but also partings of life and death. If you think like this, even if you break up, you will not be so sad, but will wish the other person happiness.

Many people will lose themselves in love, can't find themselves, and are willing to give a lot, only to fail. If Ruth also sank to the bottom of the sea after Jack's death, then there would be no Titanic, which was so touching and earned countless tears from the audience. The meaning of love is not to make one person sacrifice for another, but to give together and be happy for each other.

When you are truly in love with someone, you care a lot about how he feels and what he thinks. But sometimes the more you care, the easier it is to lose, the easier it is to get hurt. The more you grasp the sand in your hands, the easier it is to flow down, and in the end all that remains is a small amount of dust, if love is the same, the more love the easier it is to lose, then do we have to keep a certain distance, the distance of the heart?

We are always waiting for those happy footprints, but when you look back, they may be gone. Don't live for one person, it is very painful for one person to bear the love of two people, only two hearts to manage love sincerely, that is true love.

1. Young age, active mind, must love to play, in this regard, there is nothing wrong.

2. Her friends of the opposite sex don't know that she has a boyfriend, which means that she has not made it clear to everyone around her that she is no longer single.

3. What do you want to take home to see your parents or something, believe me, she just said it. If you don't believe me, you can test it and find an excuse to discuss with her about visiting her parents, and if she finds any excuse to refuse, or doesn't want you to go, then it says everything.

- Although what you said is one-sided, but often come late and don't respect your wishes, it can still explain something.

You've quarreled a lot because of this, since you care a lot about her, and you don't care at all.

It's like this before you get married, how do you say to choose.

Let's put it simply. Your stages are different, you are the one who has experienced and played. She may still be young, she hasn't played enough, she has many opportunities to choose, and she hasn't reached the point where she wants to get married and cherish her feelings very much.

She doesn't let you fit into her life, and it's not like she's trying to fall in love with you.

Playing? You continue. Conscientious? Let's find another person who is mature in heart, empathetic, and understands you.

If she doesn't wake up, I suggest you give up, I dare to say that even if you don't have a good relationship with each other in the future, or if you don't stay together for a long time, she doesn't cherish you, and you don't need to.

Hurry up and divide it, this mentality of women is uncertain, and sooner or later there will be problems.

No matter how much you can't give up, the past will not exist, forgetting is a matter of time, you have to let go when you should let go, there is no grass at the end of the world.

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty, silent.