What do you think about getting married?

The right person should see whether the character can be the right person.

If two people are in love, I don't think I will mind the right match, as long as everyone's hearts are connected.

Even if a well-bred girl is not very wealthy, as long as you are excellent in other aspects, I don't care too much about whether you are a good match.

I think that marriage in love is a very realistic thing, long-term accumulation, the right person is very important, a person's three views and personality can not be changed just as said.

I think you have to be spiritually right at home. My daughter doesn't consider phoenix men, we don't seek wealth, just plain. Her father is from a remote rural area in the central region, and has been raising her parents and sisters-in-law for nearly 30 years, managing her eldest nephew to find a job, getting married and buying a house, her nephew to buy a house, and now he has to take care of his younger nephew going to college, and spending money on medical treatment for his siblings.

His brother asked for money to commit suicide, and his mother and eldest sister ordered him to take care of his nephew, like a scoundrel. Most of the phoenix men around me are like this, and there are constant disputes in the family. Cherish life and stay away from the phoenix man!

Abominable and terrible!

I think the most important thing to get along with people is to be honest with each other and be comfortable with them. Naturally, he is the right person.

I think if the door is wrong, if the gap between money and material and the woman is relatively large, the boy will be more inferior. So it's important to be the right person.

I think it's very important to be a good person, at least the values and outlook on life will not be very far apart, and there will not be many contradictions in getting along in the future.

Now that society is so open, I don't think we should just stay in the idea of what we thought at that time. Girls must understand that it is difficult to increase their value, become more superior, and make themselves rich in the spiritual world.

The ancients said that the family is right, I think it makes sense, my high school classmate married a very rich man, but in the end divorced because the three views did not agree.

I think that in married life, girls should know how to add value to themselves and make themselves confident, so that they can weigh their own shortcomings. It's not just about money.

Door-to-door is not only a door-to-door match in money, but also a door-to-door match in spirit. In this way, happiness can last forever.

Some people want to get married after talking to their partner for a while, but when getting married, I think we also need to consider a lot of issues, first of all, the first point is to be the right person. In fact, I think there are many meanings of being a good match, and some of them require two people to have the same family background. So if there is a kind of right match, in fact, two people feel that the other party is suitable for themselves, or if the three views and souls of two people are compatible, I think it can also be called a good match.

In fact, in marriage, the need for a good match also means that two people need to be very suitable, so this kind of suitability is not only between two people, but also between two families. In fact, as long as the families of both parties feel that the other party is very suitable, I think it can also be called a good match. Because when the two families don't look at each other correctly, then there will definitely be a lot of problems in the future, not only for two people to deal with, but also for two families to deal with, and when this matter expands to the matter between two families, it is actually very tricky.

What's more, the family is right, which also means that the two families are equal, because when one party is not very equal, or there are some conditions that are insufficient, then the other party will definitely pay more. Maybe at this time, some families will feel that it is not suitable and there will be a gap in their hearts. In fact, when we are in love, we can also see that if two people themselves are not enough to be called a good match, maybe they are in love, and one of them will be hit by the other party.

At this time, it may not be very suitable to get married.

Even if two people who don't have the right match, it is actually possible to want to get married, but this must require one party to be more inclusive. However, the family of the other party may be in a vulnerable state, so in marriage, we must not only consider whether we love each other, but also consider whether the family of the two people is compatible and whether it is really suitable. This is also the reason why two people need to meet each other's parents before getting married.

In fact, it makes sense to be a door-to-door pair, which means that they have the same education, similar family conditions, and roughly the same circle of contact, so that two people can have common topics and values, and there will not be so many contradictions after being together.

Yes, it must be the right person, so that two people can have a good communication, and it will also allow two people to have a good concept of consumption in life, and they will get along very well and have many hobbies.

Personally, I think the right person is the best choice. Because you will find that if the living conditions are too different, then the three views, personalities, and living habits of two people will be very different. It is not conducive to married life.

Marriage needs to be the right person, because if you are the right person, two people can have a common topic, and they will be very happy together.

Hello dear, the result is to be the right door. In ancient times, marriage paid attention to the right family, which means that two families of the same class and the same economic strength got married, so as to avoid many contradictions. In modern times, many people scoff at the "right match", and when they encounter the so-called "love", they do not need a dowry, no bride price, and even do not need the approval and recognition of the families of both parties, and they don't care about naked marriage.

But those who claim to be married to love will definitely be able to go to the end? If Meng Yin can, it must be to achieve the "right match" on the spiritual level, and in this way, resist all kinds of intrusions from the material level. Therefore, when we get married, we must still advocate "the right person", so that our love can go further and make every ordinary day a little less troublesome.

I think marriage should be about the right person. Because the marriage of the right family is the most stable and happy. First of all, for many people, it is a bit too narrow to ask for marriage with a family match.

But I have to say that no matter how good the relationship is, it has to return to reality, if you can't recognize the reality and choose the right person's end, you will lose the happiness of the second half of your life.

Secondly, a marriage supported by love alone will not last long, because love will disappear and transfer, and only some external things will support it for a longer time. A happy and stable marriage is not only enough for two people to love each other, but also for each other, without too many gaps. Each other is on the same level, and there will be no deviation anywhere.

If the gap between two people is too big and they can't understand each other, then maybe later life will be full of grievances and pain.

Third, if the marriage is not the right one, it will be cool for a while, and it will make you regret it in the end, if the gap between the two people is too big, it will cause one party to have a sense of superiority and the other party has no sense of existence, and the two people will gradually drift apart in the long run. Thinking differently, looking at each other and hating each other, after a long time, they will be separated. Only on the basis of the same level, such two people can understand each other and cherish each other.

Therefore, marriage is such a thing, it is easy to fall in love, but it is difficult to stay together, if there is no belief to support it, it may defeat love and ruin the marriage because of all kinds of small things in life. A long-term marriage needs to fit each other, and the right person will reduce a lot of conflicts and disputes, so that the marriage will be stable and happy.

Many people who have been married will often say that it is very important to "find a good family", but as everyone knows, this "right family" refers not only to the family background and background, but also to pay attention to the spiritual level, otherwise the emotions of marriage will be shattered by the differences of "the door is not the right family", and it will be really physically and mentally exhausted.

1. Common language. The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you can never find a topic to chat with, slowly you will be alienated, and the world will feel very lonely.

2. Three views are very important. A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual world can't be the right one, then your three views may be difficult to be consistent.

3. Life goals. In marriage, the husband and wife will be able to achieve long-term harmony if they have the same life goals, but if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, then it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage.

Therefore, many people don't care about the "right match" of family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by these original families, but I want to say that compared to these, the spiritual family is more important, because it will directly affect whether your married life is relaxed and spiritually happy, so if you want to have a happy marriage, you must not ignore the spiritual match.

I think it's important that two people have a common language, so that the marriage will become happier and happier.

A good match means that the two families have the same social status, economic conditions and family background, and are suitable for marriage. In ancient times, the right wedding was a very important thing.

However, with the development of society, people's perceptions are constantly changing. Modern society emphasizes the value and freedom of the individual, and the concept of being the right person is outdated to some extent. Therefore, it is not a bad thing to have the wrong door.

After all, love is not determined by the family background and social status of the two people. An important factor for two people to be together is mutual affection and mutual understanding and support between you. As long as you like each other and have sincere feelings, don't give up your happiness because you don't have the right door.

Of course, the problem of the wrong door is not completely unsolvable. Both parties can understand each other's family background and cultural differences, and adapt to each other. While accepting each other, it is necessary to maintain one's own independence and values, constantly communicate and exchange, and build trust and respect for each other.

Of course, if the family background gap between the two parties is too great, or if the two people cannot understand and support each other, then the relationship may not last. In this case, let's face it, it's probably best to let go and choose not to stick to it. After all, no one wants to spend their lives in an unhappy relationship, and even if the relationship is the right one, but the relationship is not suitable, the relationship is difficult to sustain.

Therefore, the wrong door is not the decisive factor in marriage, but the more important thing is the relationship between two people. If you cherish each other and support and understand each other, you will commemorate your decision to be together on your golden wedding anniversary, but if you are not able to understand and support each other, then it will not be beneficial for both of you to stick to the feast.

Some people say: "When you get married, you must consider the other party's family background", after all, family background determines the material foundation, and without the material foundation, who can afford the chicken feathers after marriage?

Someone said: "If you all look at your family background, if you want to be right in love and get married, will there still be love?" "True love should be a passionate collision of two hearts, and sincere feelings should be purely spiritual in addition to material factors.

Personally, I think both statements make sense, both say that there is love and water, but sometimes it is really important to be a good person.

Similar living environment, corresponding outlook on life, values, world view, interests, hobbies will be relatively close, this period of grinding is also a great foundation for family stability. Whether two people can "match each other" ideologically is generally determined by education and financial appearance, but it also depends on whether character and financial resources can show whether the ideology and cognition of each other's family members can be "mutually opposed", otherwise it will become a "mutual hatred" in life.

If the conditions are very far apart means that the way of life and life from a young age is very different, then there may be a gap in the consumption concept, vision, and world view. It is quite possible that irreconcilable contradictions will erupt at some point in the grip of the sparrow. Of course, if there is no love, just looking at the family background, is there any use for fart?

If you choose to take love as the premise and then look at your family, that is a choice; If it is based on family background, then everyone is the same.