Wouldn t I be too cruel to break up like this?

Updated on society 2024-05-19
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This friend, in fact, there are many people in life who are similar to you, and any kind of thing or phenomenon has its own methods and ways to solve it. In this world, family affection is always greater than love, and it is definitely longer and more eternal than love. But in this world, what can make people dream and feel a lot of emotion is love, and the most poet hesitant or decadent is love, love is a kind of thing that cannot find a complete answer.

    But please don't misunderstand, we are all young people, our life still has a long way to go, the family does not agree, it is out of the ups and downs and thorns that they have gone through in their lives to ** out of your future, but also based on their experience as the standard, the parents of the world are the same, pity the hearts of parents in the world, their outlook on love, outlook on life, world view is very different from our generation, you have to understand, with this understanding to communicate with them, With the utmost sincerity of your love to convince and influence them, I don't think any parent wants their daughter to live poorly, but no parent wants their daughter to live unhappy, right? You should tell them that you value spiritual interdependence and support, and I think with your resolute courage in love, you can definitely make your parents compromise.

    It doesn't matter if you don't have money and don't have a house, you know, at least it's not the main thing, if you think it's the main thing, it means that you don't love him, you just like it. You give me the feeling that I love him very much, in fact, you already have the answer in your heart, but you haven't opened your heart knot on some issues, and you are still hesitating.

    We are all still young, why can't we achieve our own happiness in life with our own hands? Family affection will never change, no matter what you become, your parents will always be your parents, but what about love, if you miss this man, do you think he is still yours? I guess you should know how to do it

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I feel that he should make his own efforts, after all, emotional matters have to be faced by two people, and he should also share your pressure and your helplessness.

    Is it just because of its economic strength that your family is so opposed, in fact, as long as he loves you, he will definitely work hard to make money to support your family.

    I have always believed that you should not hurt your family for the sake of feelings, because whenever your family is completely for our sake, but your family will not be so opposed for no reason, you should face your family with him, I hope his efforts can make your family think better about him.

    No one can help you with such a thing, you have to cheer up and work hard, if even you give up, then there is really no hope, I hope you fight hard, love and filial piety.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you love each other, don't give up!

    Why not try it out? When I was with my boyfriend, my family and his family were very opposed. However, we have made it so hard to get to where we are today, and we can find a way to get my family to try to accept you.

    Don't be hard-hitting, take a combination of hard and soft approaches. Soft - refers to the likes of the family members, if they feel that they have no money, then hard work proves that you can work very hard, very motivated, at least in their eyes are very ambitious, and they are also very hard-working people for the family. When they see it, they will be softened and hardened by you - not to say that they are angry or quarrel with their family, but to show your determination to be together, if your family thinks that they will give up their relationship as long as they oppose you, then do you still have hope of being together?

    It's not easy to meet someone you really love, cherish it! I hope you can grasp happiness

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    To redeem it, I can tell you a hundred times, really, there is only one of him, and if he loses it, he can't get it back.

    Life is like that, parents are for your good. But for the sake of love, you can sacrifice it once, and life will be fine in the future. I hope you don't give up on true love

    Human life is inherently short, don't waste time asking others.

    Go your own way, and the two of you will be very happy in the future!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hey, let it be, put these things aside for a while, I think what you need most now is to get your mood back on your own! I think emotional things have seriously affected your normal life, if you can, don't think about these things yet, otherwise it will drive people crazy!

    Really understand you, I hope you can deal with it sooner!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Give yourself a little time, why are you so tired, it's impossible to do anything if you have courage.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Friend, I didn't expect that there are too many days in the world that have no fate.

    Unexpectedly, the role I played was the man, and you played the role of the woman. If you have time, if you want, let's see how I felt yesterday. I hope we all have good luck and a good home.

    Comfort the troubles of the --- doctor (1)".

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think you should go, or you'll really regret it.

    Yikes

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Two people go to face it together. What's not to do.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Why can't people who love each other be together Listen to this song

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. I felt too cruel to him when I broke up, is this love dear, you are a kind, warm, and considerate person.

    I felt too cruel to him when I broke up, is this love.

    I felt too cruel to him when I broke up, is this love dear, you are a kind, warm, and considerate person.

    If you have already chosen, decided to break up, and have already broken up, it proves that you have a direct problem, because your direct problem can't go on, but afterwards you will also consider his thoughts, feelings, situations, needs, which shows that you really love him.

    Some of those who love are cautious, and some of them lose themselves.

    He is not alone in breaking up sad, sad, desperate and helpless, you are also sad, but your focus is on him, this is not only love, but also deep love.

    Dear, how long have you broken up? Why did you break up?

    I just broke up, and I would think about his feelings, but it didn't seem to be love, it was a kind of sympathy.

    Do you think it's sympathy, you think it's going to be bad if he leaves you, and he needs your sympathy, warmth, and care.

    yes, sort of that.

    After I broke up with him, I didn't feel bad, I was thinking more about whether he would be uncomfortable, you have come out of this relationship, but you want to know his thoughts, feelings, needs.

    What is the answer you want to know?

    Want to prove your specialness, your importance, the reliability, the authenticity of his feelings for you.

    He was always like a little child, threatening me every time, threatening me with himself.

    He is always like a child, every time he threatens me, he threatens me with himself, it's not that you don't have feelings, it's not that you don't love each other, but you unilaterally want to feel that he always doesn't grow up, and being with him is always wronging yourself and accompanying him to grow up.

    So I was right to break up.

    The road is full of thorns, traps, and whirlpools. It's always yourself who is wronged, waiting too long, going too much, leaving you physically and mentally exhausted.

    So I'm right to break up, you're still struggling, hesitating, it means that you also have expectations, reluctance, and regrets.

    He spends money on me, but when I quarrel, he will use the money to talk about things, and I have bought him things, why, it's annoying.

    I feel that the feelings between you are still very deep, but the state you get along with is not what you want, along the way you have happiness, joy, loss, grievances, kiss, this is love, is the run-in of two people.

    He spends money on me, but when he quarrels, he will take money to talk about things, and I have bought him things, why, it's annoying dear, how old are you A boy is like a child, but he is willing to get along with you and be with you.

    Our biggest problem now is: giving our face, behavior, and state to strangers, and giving our bad temper to the people closest to us.

    In fact, in his heart, you are the most important being.

    Now that you've broken up, what do you can't let go of the most?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It is best to make the breakup clear, and if other methods are not suitable, it must be completely disposed of.

    When you say that you are breaking up in person, you must first think clearly, and you must not be indecisive or soft-hearted, and you will not go. Sometimes, because of your indecision or soft-heartedness, the other party will still have a hopeful salvation, delaying the opportunity for each other to follow each other's happiness! Since the two of them have loved each other, hurt each other, cried, and broke up in war, don't just have a day of information and stop dying, it will hurt a certain party, why do some people cry when they hear a certain song or watch a certain movie, I can't put it down, I can't understand why we separated.

    When you break up, you should calmly say what you think, the reasons why each other is not suitable, let the other party understand your meaning clearly, and then listen to the other party patiently. After all, there is still a fundamental courtesy to behave in the world! I have seen couples in their ideal life always clamoring to break up and break up, but in fact, such people are usually people who will not be separated.

    You'll find that the one that really separates, the door closes with minimal sound. Without warning, without preparation, she vanished. She said that she wanted to go adrift alone, to a ** without love and only the sea and wine, and she didn't even have the time to say goodbye.

    Since you can meet, know and fall in love face-to-face, why don't you dare to face parting? Isn't it difficult to say it to your face? Maybe another crying martial arts action movie will be performed.

    The woman cried non-stop, and the man didn't agree to break up and beat the woman, are there fewer stories like this? Otherwise, one party is unwilling, unclear, and stalked. Go to the work unit to make trouble, wait in the live **, and in the end it will only make people run away.

    As for what friendship looks like after love, I have never experienced it, but my personal proposal is to wait until both parties are no longer mixed with any love elements before making a decision, then it is the wisest decision, the best choice!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, you have to make it clear in person when you break up, make everything you need to say clearly, avoid other problems in the future, and say that you are responsible for the two people in person.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's a little cruel, but saying that you broke up in person can make this matter clear, and it is also the best goodbye for two people.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It won't be particularly cruel, and it's best to make some things clear to your face, which is also a sign of respect for the relationship.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The most cruel way to break up is that both parties have a very unpleasant quarrel, and even become enemies. To put it bluntly, one more minute of this kind of love is to consume one more minute of one's emotions, which is completely useless. It doesn't have a positive impact on itself, it's all because of reluctance.

    So, I hope that once the girls feel that they can't be happy in love, once they feel that they don't love you so much.

    You have to think about whether this relationship is worth it or not, don't keep deceiving yourself and let him consume yourself. It's only himself who is so sad, and he really doesn't care. There are also couples who block each other after breaking up and never see each other.

    Generally, in this case, the person who blocked has not yet come out of this relationship. So when he sees the information in the past, he will think of the sweetness of the two people before.

    In this way, he either let himself out of the relationship and let himself go. Of course, it is also possible that you want to use this method to attract the attention of the other party. Since the two people have broken up, then I hope that each other will continue to move forward, and I hope that each other will not be limited to the past relationship.

    In addition to the above two, breaking up cold violence is also a very cruel way. If you don't block it, you may still cause inner turmoil when you see relevant information. Of course, it is also possible that the other party already has a new love, so it is inconvenient to keep the information of the ex.

    broke up, but at least once loved, most of the people who were blocked after the breakup don't want to have continued contact with each other, don't leave a way back for themselves, and don't leave a memory for each other, there is no need to continue to contact after separation, just let the beauty of the past stay in the past. No one wants to fall in love and break up, so it's better for everyone to break up peacefully.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1. Break up without saying a breakup.

    Originally, the relationship was good, but the other party wanted to break up one day, so suddenly they didn't contact you, you took the initiative to contact the other party, and found that the information was like a stone sinking into the sea, and there was no response. You call ** over, right to refuse. The saddest thing for you is that you changed your number and called, and the other party answered **, but as soon as I heard your voice, I hung up immediately.

    You want to ask why, but the other party just doesn't give you a chance, doesn't tell you why, anyway, you just don't contact anymore, and just disappear. No matter how you send a message or **, the other party just doesn't respond. But the other party is still posting moments every day, and he just doesn't want to pay attention to you.

    The other party doesn't say to break up, but they no longer contact, gradually, you go from hope to disappointment, and then disappointment to despair, gradually, you also give up, because you take the initiative too many times, you are tired, and you are also haggard. So, the two of them cut off contact like this and broke up like this. didn't say to break up, but this way of breaking up is the most tormenting, and it is also very cruel, forcing a person from hope to despair.

    2. Forced breakup.

    This way of breaking up is also very cruel. In order to break up, the other party doesn't want to take the initiative to break up, the other party wants you to take the initiative to break up, so they will find all kinds of ways to embarrass you, make you feel that life is extremely painful, make you feel that the life of the two is really unbearable, and let you take the initiative to break up. In order to break up, the other party often sneers at you, no matter what you say, no matter what you do, the other party has to be picky and sarcastic, as if what you do is wrong, and what you say is also wrong.

    Anyway, as soon as the other party chats, they want to provoke conflicts, so they have to quarrel. The two of them quarreled and quarreled almost as soon as they met, anyway, there is always a reason to blame you, no matter how good your temper is, no matter how tolerant you are, you will be forced to get angry.

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