I don t have a new girlfriend who doesn t want to marry me! What to do?

It is completely understandable that poor couples mourn everything, if they don't even have a house, what do you do to give her a sense of security......

Actually, my point of view is that I can't do it if I get married and rent a house, but I am still willing to repay the loan with two people, provided that we love each other, and if it's another case, women who get married for the sake of getting married, I also have people around me, and they say, "Resolutely don't look for someone who has a loan, you must have an existing house, and you can live in it when you get married."

If you really plan to buy a house, buy it as soon as possible, the speed at which house prices rise is not waiting for anyone, if you really can't afford it, don't lie to others, don't delay other people's youth.

If you don't even have a stable home, how can you live with you?

You ask her if she wants to marry the house or if she wants to marry you.

Excuse me. This is your helplessness, make good money.

Your girlfriend is too realistic, and if you don't marry, you'll be pulled down.

In this day and age, you can't blame the woman, it really has to be.

If your girlfriend is reluctant to marry you, then here are a few things you need to consider:

1. Request Wishes: Make sure you truly understand your girlfriend's wishes and needs. If you don't, then you need to ask her to find out if she would like to get married.

2. Discussion questions: If your girlfriend is not willing to get married, have an honest discussion with her. Find out her views and concerns about getting married.

3. About time: Sometimes, some people may be reluctant to get married because they think it's not the time yet. Discuss your expectations and consider revisiting the issue in the future.

4. Another way: If your girlfriend has doubts about getting married, then you can propose a different approach, such as moving together first, to get a sense of the other person's lifestyle.

Most importantly, you need to be clear that if your girlfriend is not willing to get married, then you should respect her decision. Forcing her to marry may have a detrimental effect on your relationship.

1...In fact, each of us yearns for love and hopes to stay with the person we love for a lifetime until we are old. However, this seemingly simple thing is actually realized, and some people even spend a lifetime looking for the love of their hearts.

2...There are thousands of people in the world, and some people will say that as a woman, you must not compromise in love, because the love that you have won will not last long. Don't wronged yourself in love, you should understand these truths, then leave.

3...In the future, you have to find someone who holds you in the palm of your hand to spend your life, and for the rest of your life, find someone who is your heart is what you should do. Life is long, find someone to walk with, if that person doesn't love you, such an unhappy love, what's the use of it.

4...People have a long, long life, and you need to find someone who can make you laugh, understand all your little emotions, understand your troubles, and have similar interests. Human life seems to be very short, don't waste your limited time on people who don't deserve it.

5...Love should be pleasing to each other, but in reality, there are many people who are constantly humbled for the people they love. Humble love is worthless in the eyes of the other party, so if you can't move him, then leave.

If only she'd like to sleep with you.

First, ask the other person why they don't want to get married.

Are you receptive to the other person's point of view and approach?

Then it is whether the other party can compromise and whether you can solve the problems encountered.

If there is no solution to the problem, and you must get married.

I can only choose to leave, and there will be results if I persist.

My girlfriend said that if I don't have a house, I won't get married, but now I can't afford to buy a house, this thing is really difficult to do, it's a headache, society is so realistic, I can't afford to buy a house.

In the end, there are really a lot of breakups, and the time to test your relationship has come, if you can pay the down payment or buy a house, girls generally don't want to live with their parents, there is.

A lot of trouble, and if you don't have a house, you will feel insecure, work hard, discuss and discuss, and pay the down payment now, you.

The two of them slowly pay off the mortgage!

The current society is so realistic, if there is no building, at least there is a bungalow to live alone, and many girls want a house because they can not live with their future in-laws, so as to avoid unnecessary troubles in the future; In addition, without a house, girls will have no sense of security and feel homeless; So work hard and wish you happiness!

If the girl really loves you, when the two of you get married, the two of you can make money together, if the girl is just material, no one can do anything.

You can discuss with your girlfriend first, with your current family situation really can't buy a house, you can rent a house and get married first, and then the two of you can work together to make money to buy a house. If the girl really loves you, she will agree, otherwise she is a pure material girl, it is better to break up early and live again.

Although your girlfriend is very realistic, but the requirements are not too much, which girl doesn't want a sense of security, doesn't want to have a real home of her own, you don't have the money to buy a house now, just work hard to make money first, even if you earn a down payment on a house first, and then slowly pay it back when you get married, this life is also a rush, what do you say?

What can be done about this, the person is an actual person, there is nothing to blame, one is to actively communicate with her in the hope of reaching mutual understanding. One is to choose to give up and continue to search.

Only if you work hard or make a lot of money in business, you can buy a house, then your good can be a pair.

If you can't afford to buy a house, you won't get married.

There is no room to marry a daughter-in-law to **.

You can't marry on the street.

Girls though material points.

But realistically.

Then there's no way, let your girlfriend go to pound the rich man, haha. Besides, if you have a mortgage, and there is no way for your family

Like this case. Bank mortgage is possible. Or the payment for the goods.

If there is no building, at least there is a bungalow to live alone, and many girls want a house because they can not live with their future in-laws and avoid unnecessary troubles in their future lives; In addition, without a house, girls will have no sense of security and feel homeless;

Life is like this. Before marriage is not the same as after marriage. That's how it was before a woman got married. Accommodation point. It's good to get married!

Then don't get married for the time being, and get married when you have the conditions, but in fact, I think you can still get a certificate.

First of all, I want to talk about my views on marriage, in fact, getting a marriage certificate is not considered marriage, only two people enter the palace of marriage with the approval and blessing of both parents, and go deep into each other's lives to be considered marriage, this is marriage, after marriage, you are no longer in a state of love, you need to experience the cruelty of firewood, rice, oil and salt, experience the mental torture of both people who are exhausted, experience the birth of a child, and experience the hardships of raising a child to grow up, many people will think about divorce when they experience this. So getting married is more of a responsibility, you can't get married for the time being because of practical reasons, it may not be a blessing, if you want to give your girlfriend a peace of mind, then you can discuss with her and then the two of you go to get a marriage certificate.

Of course, don't forget that the proposal ceremony and the engagement ring are just a ceremony, but they are also sacred ceremonies. If your girlfriend doesn't want to get married like this for the time being, then you can leave her alone, and the two of you will continue to struggle for a few more years, and then get married when you have the conditions and the ability. If the reason why you can't get married is that your parents don't agree, then you can also use your own achievements in the next few years to show them, as long as your life is good, they won't disagree, and they can't survive, they won't let their children get married at such an old age.

In short, you really don't have to worry too much if you can't get married for the time being, all you need to do is to stay together and wait until the day when the clouds open and the moon shines.

If you can't get married for the time being, I suggest you don't worry too much, but after all, there is still a chance to get married, and the relationship between the two will not come to an end.

Life is always full of twists and turns, and the same is true of emotional experience, if you can overcome this difficulty, I believe that your relationship will be stronger in the future.

Since you can't get married for the time being, then you can definitely solve this difficulty, and I suggest you think calmly about how to solve this matter. Don't worry, when this matter is over, it's not too late for you to get married. If either party is not ready, they will get married in a hurry, which may lead to conflicts or various problems after marriage, so the material and psychological preparation before marriage is very important.

In the TV series "The Age of Naked Marriage", a couple got married in a hurry under poor conditions, and as a result, all kinds of problems arose after marriage, and it was not until both of them became mature and had a certain material foundation that they reconsidered marriage. Therefore, adequate preparation before marriage is not necessarily a bad thing, and adequate preparation can make the life after marriage more harmonious and avoid problems.

If it is because the material aspect is not up to standard for the time being, then you should work together.

If it's because of life or work, or something about your mind, you should also find your own problem and try to improve it.

Marriage is a matter of two people, not a person's struggle can be solved, two people need to work together, overcome difficulties together, overcome obstacles, if you do not wait for marriage during this period, and there are problems in the relationship between two people, then you are more willing to think about whether to get married.

The reality makes you and your girlfriend temporarily unable to get married, so don't get married first, and what we are focusing on now is, what are the reasons for your so-called reality, is it because you two have just worked, have no money and no money to buy a house, or because of some reasons from your parents, this reality problem is different, and the natural solution is also different.

If it's the first case, you just start working and don't have the money to buy a house, then this is really an understandable thing, after all, you have just started working, young people, can't save money, not to mention that the house price is so expensive now, it doesn't mean that you can buy a house easily, so if you choose not to get married because you don't have the money to buy a house, you can actually understand this matter, so I feel that this matter is harmless. If both of you can accept this reality and result, then we can't get married and disappear, but if you want to think clearly, housing prices are so expensive now, maybe only with your own current ordinary salary, buying a house is a very difficult thing, and you can now buy a house because of less delay and not get married, then you may face more problems in the future.

Second, if it is because of some reasons from both of your parents, you cannot get married now. Then you should seriously think about the questions raised by both parents, why he thinks that the two of you are not suitable for marriage at this time, and for what reason, then you can rely on this reason to correct the problem and make some remedial measures, so that they can have a new understanding of you, so as to agree to your request to get married.

Then don't get married, the two of you work together, work together, and live together together is actually the same as getting married, in fact, if the two of you are together now, love is the same as marriage. Getting married is just a process, but when people who really love each other are together, I don't think it matters whether they get married or not. When your actual problems in reality can meet your marriage conditions, and you have reached that goal, you are getting married.

As the saying goes, if there are conditions, you must go up, and if you don't have conditions, you must go up if you don't have conditions. Since you are not qualified to get married, then work together to create the conditions for marriage, and you are getting married!

Then you should work hard and be defeated by reality, right? Without material foundation, the marriage is not strong.