How did you feel when you fell out of love, and how did you spend your time?

Watching your beloved with someone else is even more painful!

Look at the point, you can't give him or her happiness, just quit! Isn't being with him or her just to give him or her happiness? Since you can't give it, let it go and give it to others!

Life is a train to the grave, there will be many stops on the way, no one can accompany you from beginning to end, you will see people coming and going, up and down. If you're lucky, someone will walk with you for a while, and when that person is about to get off, even if you are reluctant, you should be grateful, and then wave goodbye, because maybe there will be another person who will accompany you further at the next stop.

The whole person is in a trance, I don't want to do anything, the more I think about forgetting things, the more tears fall, the numb feeling, very tangled, a lot of why, very painful and painful.

At first, I stayed at home every day to watch Korean dramas, crying while watching

Later, I felt that my handwriting was very bad, so I began to buy a handbook to practice calligraphy!

I went to the supermarket again and bought a lot of vegetables and went home, went to the Internet to find a way to make gimbap, made a lot of it, and it made me to death!

Sometimes, I buy a lot of rhinestones and nail polish online and stay at home to get my nails done.

I'm still sticking a case to my cute phone!!

In a word, find something to do for yourself and be less sad when you have something to do!

Later, I started to go shopping (I don't know if you're a man or a woman, I'm writing about a girl!). Of course, you can do the same, and there may be a windfall)

I once tried to find another girl. Want to start another relationship.

But I found that I still only have her in my heart, and I will always think of my ex-girlfriend.

There's no way to accommodate another person, I don't know why?

Maybe some people. It takes a lifetime to forget her. Forgetting a person is really something that needs to be done all your life, and you will forget it all your life, whether it's the opposition of your familyWhether the two have discordant personalities, everything is a thing of the past. Leave only memories.

When we were after dinner. When we're at ease.

When we reminisce about this wonderful relationship.

I'm sure I'll be smiling.

Although the breakup at that time left unspeakable pain on the other party.

Circumstances change with the passage of time. Changed.

When everything is ruthlessly abandoned by time. We just found out.

Originally. The reason why we were so miserable at that time. It's because we're pursuing.

Bright future. None of them put each other in the perspective of life.

Falling out of love is like having a bloody wound on your body. And I can't see it, so I will touch it from time to time. And then it hurts to death. I calmed down and looked, but there was nothing.

Say it to her in your heart. I'm sorry, I love you. I wish you happiness. If you can. I will also look for my own happiness. That's all.

When we broke up, she said that time would dilute everything. A year later, I agreed with her.

To give you two suggestions, find a girl who is better than her to be friends, and pursue it if you can. Second, keep yourself busy with work and don't have time to think about the past. In about half a year, the pain will be much better.

Falling out of love is equivalent to having a bosom friend gone, in fact, there is nothing, there is always a reason for falling out of love, and finding out why you will fall out of love will not feel painful. Go for a break with friends every day, and spend more time with positive and optimistic friends.

I don't want to do anything, I live normally, I have friends and what, and I drink every other day....After a month, I'm better....Maybe it's because I'm breaking up in a different place, and I don't have much intersection in life....

Vent your !! Covered his head in the quilt and cried for a while!!

Then wipe away your tears and everything will pass.

Keep yourself busy Find some friends to hang out with The best way to forget one person is to fall in love with another person Recommended!! I tried.

-, what is a broken love, don't make it look like the sky is falling, there are still many roads waiting for us in the future, look at the open point, there is nothing that can't be passed, take a shower, and then find a few friends to relax,

Watch some hilarious and scary movies and ghost stories.

It's dark, the sun and the moon are dark, but accept the pain calmly, and when you don't hurt anymore, when you come back to reminisce, you will feel that the broken love is also beautiful.

If you are sad and sad, you just need to make yourself a little more ruthless.

These are all the love you gave me" by Anthony Xia Da's "Zi Bu Silent" of the super ** department is also very good-looking.

In addition, you can run, swim, and sweat.

Or watch the Korean drama "Love in the Sky" and "That Kid is So Handsome" (to see the movie version) is super good-looking and tearful to watch.

The best thing to do is to find someone to replace you and recover yourself.

Time and new people are the best way to forget about a relationship.

Wipe away your tears and start all over again.

There are always a few times in life that you have to go through a few breakups.

In the first few times, I would feel like the end of the world, as if I was going to die in the next second, and I would feel painful when I thought about that person, or when I thought about all the things we had been together before. Physiologically, I feel that my heart is tightening one after another, and every time I contract, the blood will flow against the flow, and even the tips of my fingers will be numb and painful. You used to fight with your friends until late at night, you used to overeat and want to forget the unhappy things, you used to cry in the middle of the night, and even cried alone on the crowded streets, feeling that the tears would never end your life, and you felt that you would never get better again.

However, as you get older, the number of broken lovers increases, or in other words, as there are more and more things in your life that you need to think, care about, and grasp, and as you become more and more mature, when you fall out of love again, you will no longer be so desperately sad.

You know you're going to come out, you know you're going to recover after a while, you know that one day you're going to recover from falling out of love and move on to the next sweet relationship. At this time, falling out of love is no longer as painful as the end of the world.

However, this is another difficult stage - you know that you will come out of the breakup at some point, but you don't know how long it will take. You know you're going to have to go through a hard time to forget, to recover. It's like watching an abusive movie where you're tempted to fast-forward or skip some of the clips and go straight to the happy finale.

Helpless life this product, there is no fast-forward button.

At this time, yours may not be really interested in anything. I don't want to talk to my friends, because you know that no matter how much you say, you will only complain and complain; I don't want to get drunk in the middle of the night or cry in the wind like in a movie, because you know you have to go to work tomorrow and there are still a lot of things to get done. Don't want to overeat or go on a shopping spree, because you know that the consequences of such an immature behavior can be twice as much as a workout at the gym or a sadder feeling when you pay off your credit card next month.

You know you're going to come out, you know you're going to have to stay sane, you know you're going to try to get life off track, you know you're going to have to endure this for a while.

But you don't know how long it will be.

This is the most difficult time to grow up and mature, and after falling out of love.

Maybe at this time, doing anything will not help much, you can only wait for time to go slowly, the plot of life will be staged step by step, and one day you finally feel interested in something in a real sense, this difficult day will be over.

My personal advice is, don't let yourself be idle, go to work if you can, go to work if you can, go to work out if you can keep fitting, read when you can read a book, learn something if you can learn it, and at least tidy up your room when you can't do anything.

That way, the day you find yourself feeling refreshed, you won't regret that you wasted this time.

I think the month or so after falling out of love is the most difficult, of course, this time varies from person to person, mainly depends on the person's personality, if you are more introverted and closed yourself, it is possible to immerse yourself in this failed relationship for half a year. If it's an extrovert who will relieve himself, maybe a week or two will be fine.

One, the broken love I experienced.

I once fell in love once when I was in college, we met online, we were separated from each other, it was the first time I fell in love, and I was full of unconfidence. We had a good chat online, and then he came to my school. At that time, it was only half a year before we graduated.

Later he graduated, came to my city, got a not-so-good job, and just hoped we could be together. But the reality was cruel, and the family wanted him to go back and invited me to come and live with me. I was tormented because I was a very traditional person at heart and I didn't want to be too far from home.

Once I take that step, I may only come back once in six months or a year. The problem of distance corroded me again and again, and I was miserable. Until one day, he told me that he went on a blind date.

Suddenly I felt abandoned and told my friend at the time, who said that no one would always wait for anyone.

Second, get out of lovelorn.

Later, my relatives also introduced me to a few blind dates, but at that time, I still did not withdraw from the previous relationship, and I was in a state of escape from others, and I did not open my heart to accept others. During that time, I usually locked myself in my room and burst into tears just thinking about it. It wasn't until later, when I met my current husband, that things got better.

Therefore, falling out of love is something that many people will experience, whether it is an objective factor or a subjective factor that causes a broken love, we should adjust ourselves as soon as possible, and we should meet the happiness that truly belongs to you with the best self.

on 1 Oct 2021

This is not easy to say, because everyone deals with things in different ways, we can't generalize, some people see more openly, and may be able to get out of this bad state after a few days, but if you meet the kind of people who think things more extremely, they may not be able to get out for a long time, and even for a lifetime.

I act like a normal person when I face people and others every day, and I cry when I'm alone, but I get better soon. I'm someone else, the sooner I can get out.

Me too, just a month after the breakup, he proposed to break up, I wrote a letter to him as a farewell ceremony, an explanation to myself, and now occasionally inadvertently think about it and my heart will still hurt suddenly, after all, he is my first love.

When he didn't reply to my messages, he suddenly put it down.

At first, I felt empty in my heart, and I used to always communicate with ** from night to day, and it took 2 months to change it after leaving. Now I just want to do well in Level 4 and read English.

Prepare for civil servants, but the state is not good, then you have to take the test, comprehensively strengthen yourself, and meet the next girl with such conditions.

It's a pity, I miss you very much, I want to see you, but people have to leave some dignity for themselves, so I told myself countless times, don't be cheap, don't see you.

I just can't sleep, I want to cry, I barely fall asleep, I will suddenly wake up, get up and look at my phone, I dream that he will wake up when he leaves, but then I met a boy who hurt me to the heart