I feel a little messy, I feel a lot of confusion What the hell should I do

In fact, there is nothing to mess with - enriching yourself is for your own future, concentrating on studying is also for the future, and insisting on your own interests first is still for your own future. So, what kind of future do you envision? Figure out this goal, and your problem is solved.

I just finished thinking about this issue.

Joining a club is mainly to exercise interpersonal skills, and other abilities are not much exercised. But in China's relational society, connections are king, so it's good to join the club and meet more friends.

A girl in my department, she participates in a lot of competitions and joins two organizations at the same time, so she can get talent and friends at the same time. Of course, she is just an ordinary girl and has limited time, so she gives up a lot of leisure time and also gives up work in the department. Focus on meeting friends and growing your talents.

Hope it helps.

Of course, it's to enrich yourself, the most important thing is to be happy, to do what you like to do meaningful things, to do emotional things can be done slowly, no one can stop fate, right?

Participating in various communities is really good for being at home, it is a kind of sustenance and fulfillment mentally, in fact, many people can learn a lot together, exchange and generate knowledge, and many things can be used later.

I haven't found my own position yet, so it's good to talk about feelings and participate in clubs.

Don't always care about the relationship between men and women, face it positively, it is important to learn, and the skills and level of competition with friends can be changed.

Hello, I read your text carefully, and I didn't understand what you were trying to express, and at the same time I felt that you had no opinion, and I was very floating and drifting with the flow. It feels like you're in a hurry to get everything done all at once, it's impossible.

You said that you feel a little messy in yourself, and if I'm not wrong, I think the reason why you think you're a little messy is because you don't have an opinion, and your heart is very floating. It's not good to live a very tiring life, you should concentrate on one thing first, and do this one thing well before you do the others.

I hope mine can help you, if it makes sense, hope, hehe.

I wish you happiness!!

Don't mess up, I'm a post-90s generation, looking up and worrying about all kinds of life pressures. Looking back, my parents have gray hair. Bow your head and raise your wife and children. Close your eyes to the mortgage bank loan to be repaid. I didn't dare to mess up, and the whole family collapsed in a mess. A dead wife was separated. Ay.

The reasons why you are in a mess in your mind may be:

1.The vacation was almost over in a short time, as if I hadn't done anything, and it seemed like I hadn't rested enough.

2.You may think about having to deal with complex relationships or work pressures at the end of your vacation.

3.Maybe it's a little uncomfortable emotionally, and I'm a little confused about love.

4.Recently, I have been talking less about my friends less.

5.It may be that the body is a little unwell.

It is recommended that you go out for a walk or find something to do, you will not have time to think about things when you are busy, and it is easy to sleep at night after walking.

The heart is the master of man, and no matter how cranky the heart is, we can't control it. Because the heart is a spiritual weapon. The mind is sensing everything in the universe.

It is also sensitive to all the actions in the world. When a person has a very accurate spirituality. There will be dreams that are accurate.

Plays a prophetic role. Sometimes there is nameless chaos in the heart. Is it the subconscious that has a premonition?

'Psychological pressure is high, and thinking too much leads to lack of sleep.

How old are you? Why the chaos?

My heart is also very messy, because I don't know that you are ** messy.

Eight or nine times out of ten, there are things that do not go well in life, and we should learn to forget.

Afford to take it, put it down, think more about happy things, put unpleasant things aside, and do something you like. Make yourself a little happier every day. Wouldn't that be great?

When we are in a bad mood, we can try to regulate our emotions in the following three ways.

Method 1; When you are in a bad mood, use your consciousness to change the topic, or do something else, such as listening. Watch TV. Play. Play chess, go for a walk, etc., to distract yourself. This can lead to emotional relief.

Method 2; Tell your relatives or close friends about your troubles or even cry, or use pillows, big sandbags, etc. Venting the worries that have accumulated in your heart will also be beneficial to your physical and mental health. However, it is necessary to pay attention to the object, place and occasion of catharsis to avoid harming others.

Method 3; When you want to get something, or want to do something but it doesn't work, in order to reduce the disappointment in your heart, you can find a proper reason to comfort yourself, which can help you accept the reality in the face of setbacks and maintain a more optimistic attitude.

Man lives. No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

1. If the opposite sex has similar interests with each other, it is possible to become good friends.

2. A good friend of the opposite sex may become a lover if he has a feeling of the opposite sex3. If the lover gets along well and the objective conditions are suitable, it is possible to get married and become a husband and wife, and it feels that the situation between you and her can only be an ordinary friend relationship, and she has no feeling for you of the opposite sex, that is, it is impossible to develop into a lover. Your current situation is a general situation, and finding a topic of conversation is a sign that two people are not like-minded, so you should not develop further, even if you want to do it unilaterally. But if you don't give up, you can also try harder, prove that you won't regret it later, and at the same time verify the futility of your efforts.

Talk casually, if you don't talk about it, just say take an early break or something.

For example, what sports do you like, what hobbies do you have, talk about studying, or ask about warmth and coldness.

Once emotional, you must know to cherish, even if you can't do anything, you can still have a good memory.

Peaceful, pleasant, think, act.

When you are in frequent contact, maybe she is the one who feels you the most, but now there is less contact, more or less because she is annoyed and tired, or she likes others more than you.

Topics such as: What do you like? What color do you like, what kind of people do you like. What song do you like. What do you like. Like what kind of man to be your boyfriend. And so on and so forth.

I feel like you like her a lot. If you like it, just pursue it, don't waste time!

You should talk about a topic she likes, do you know her?