In the post 90s generation in the big city, do you not consider too much material foundation for mar

If marriage and love can't coexist, if I have children, I will choose to compromise the marriage. The premise of marriage is that you get married only when you are in love, and if you don't love in order to live together, it's not good for both parties, but marriage is not child's play, you can't divide it if you don't have love after marriage, what should you do with the child? But wronging yourself for the sake of your children, it's not a matter of one or two years, then this life is not in vain, isn't a loveless marriage a grave.

When marriage and love cannot coexist, if there are no children, I will choose love, and if I have children, I will temporarily choose to maintain the marriage and give the children a complete home. When my children grow up, I still have to choose love, and when I was young, I didn't know what true love was. Only in middle age do you really understand the meaning of true love, there is no perfect life, who has not been stupid?

Who hasn't been young? If I could go back to the past, I would definitely choose someone who has the same three views and can talk to each other to get married. If you don't meet it, you'd rather be single than settle.

Everyone is pursuing their own beauty, but the word "pursuit" contains the meaning of giving and cherishing. It is more practical to put the heart on and maintain the love or marriage that you have obtained, rather than to have a long hope, otherwise the temporary inner unbalanced choice will make people lose five or six years or longer to adjust their mentality and goals, because the word "compromise" has already explained the existence of the problem, more practically: whether marriage and love can coexist is not a problem, it is difficult for us to get one of them and cherish it.

If you unconsciously give yourself a passive choice, it is difficult to understand that what you can get is the best kind of mentality! Without this kind of active mentality, no matter what you get, you will be trapped by "burnt over"!

There are no absolute things, this world is not heaven nor hell, there are good and bad, there must still be marriage and love that do not consider too much material foundation, if you love someone, he is good to you, he is also self-motivated, and is willing to endure hardships for you. Now the conditions are almost fine, don't just see the material, marry the person who loves you, the person who loves you will want to work hard to give you everything.

Everyone wants to marry someone with a good material foundation and good character. Who wouldn't want to? Now there are men and women of appropriate age who are not married, and they are choosing conditions, and there are more men in China and fewer women, and the high bride price and high conditions are a disaster for ordinary families.

Some don't consider too much material foundation, they are handsome, some get married, give birth to a boy and half a girl, the man doesn't earn much money, the woman chooses to leave, marries a rich family, and some of the second and third children also come, and the family is noisy. People don't work hard, they don't learn, they don't guide, they don't guide, they don't help. It's very difficult to live like a human being, and networking is very important.

It's very important to follow the right people. People who are rich are very hard-working, people who are poor are poor in mind, and people who have no confidence are truly finished.

No, happiness comes from the following aspects:

1. Family relationships, health status, and income level are the three major factors that affect happiness. And the importance of "family relationship" is the most important in their hearts, followed by work, followed by boyfriend and girlfriend.

2. "China Economic Life Survey (2017-2018)" conducted a special survey on 18-25-year-old school students, most of them are post-90s, among them, in the factors of mate selection, family and economic conditions are not their priority, the first place in their eyes is the other party is gentle, airlifted, and has a family concept, which is even more important than appearance and talent.

3. After all, a lifetime is so long, if you are with a boring person, even if he has a house and a car, the two of them are just people who live together under the eaves of the same house and respect each other like ice. It can be seen that the post-90s generation still has a very clear understanding of what they want.

4. In addition to these emotional problems, the survey also shows that today's post-90s generation also has very high requirements for the quality of life. Food safety, air quality, and housing security are all qualities of the city that they value very much. Not only that, the post-90s generation also understands that they can't just ask for things and don't do things, they are willing to spend time on "reading" and self-improvement, and their collection of articles is also full of information.