If I like someone, do I give up or keep trying

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Maybe she had some scruples.

    Since she already knew that you liked her, she had already thought about this outcome, and she probably expected that there would be a day when you would confess to her. Perhaps this outcome will not destroy the only friendship that exists.

    If you don't tell me directly, maybe you're afraid that you won't be able to do it as a friend.

    Of course, this is the worst possible idea.

    It's also possible that she didn't think about it

    In short, no matter what the result is not the most important.

    It's important not to let your future self regret it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Alas, I really don't have to say anything, I think that girl is very ignorant of you! seems to be deliberately holding you up, she probably doesn't like you, but she's afraid that you won't be like that to her after rejecting you! It's called ambiguity!

    I advise you to die! Fruitless! If you like it, you'll be there a long time ago!

    What a test!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How long has it been since you confessed, and if it feels like a long time, let it go! Because it is very likely that she is testing you, it depends on time, in fact, the decision has to be made by yourself!

    If you really think it's classy, give up! It's so unfair to you to keep you waiting!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Tell you. People are rejecting you, if they give you a chance.

    I won't deliberately keep my distance from you.

    You'd better give up, or you'll be the one who gets hurt.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Dude, they politely rejected you

    Don't you realize it?

    He is afraid of rejecting you outright and hurting you

    Get to know each other yourself

    Ben really wanted to get her

    Then you have a thick face and continue to persevere

    As soon as you get the chance, that's OK. ~

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hold on If you really love her, maybe she's just testing you, or maybe she's thinking about how to reject you

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Probably because he found that his world was very spacious, and he could accommodate me, but he didn't want to let me in.

    He never talks much in front of me, but he can talk to other girls very well, I used to think he was a cool person, but then I found out that it seems to be just for me...

    His friends all said that he liked another girl, and when other girls asked him if it was true, he was not angry. But when I ask him, he gets angry, even though I always smile and ask...

    Probably understood this, so I gave up liking him, and on the day I deleted his friend, I told him, you talk to me, you still don't talk much. He said, yes. Then I thought about it, so I deleted him and gave up liking him for more than two years.

    In fact, I sometimes wonder if he likes me too.

    At that time, his house was upstairs in my house, and some time before the physical exam, I had to go to the school playground every night after school to practice basketball, and he would go too, but in fact, his basketball was very good and he didn't need to practice. He would go home with me, but he wouldn't wait for me (he rode, I walk), I didn't dare to walk alone at night, I told him to wait for me, but he rode faster and faster, but I could see him waiting for me at the bend every time, looking back at me, and when I got closer, he was far ahead again....

    I haven't seen him for a long time, and I haven't been in touch for a long time, so let's treat this as a tree hole and tell all the joys of youth.

    I haven't told anyone that I like him, so I gave up liking him, saying that I gave up, but I still feel sad when I mention him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    People who have liked it for many years eventually choose to give up. The reason why these people make such a choice is because they have exhausted their enthusiasm after years of pursuit, they have no choice but to give up after years of fruitless pursuit, and they finally choose to give up rationally after long-term thinking.

    1. Years of pursuit exhausted his enthusiasm and finally chose to give up.

    I like someone for many years and pursue him all the time, and this process consumes a lot of my energy and makes me feel exhausted ......When years of pursuit have been fruitless, you will feel exhausted and your enthusiasm will be exhausted, which will make you finally choose to give up on pursuing him.

    2. Pursued the other party for many years without results, and finally had no choice but to give up.

    There are people who like someone for many years and are always pursuing each other. ......However, the other party reacted coldly to this, and his pursuit was always fruitless, which made him feel very helpless. ......When you pursue the other person for many years without results, you will eventually give up because you feel helpless, and then choose to quit.

    3. After thinking for a long time, I finally chose to give up sensibly.

    Some people like and pursue someone for many years, but it never comes to fruition. ......During this time, you will think deeply about the relationship and make a final choice ...... whether it is worth continuing to pursueWhen you determine through rational analysis that your pursuit is destined to be fruitless, you will eventually rationally choose to give up and choose to quit.

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