Tell him how he feels now or continue to be silent

First of all, determine your feelings and then do the second step, if you are just because you have lost a suitor that you care about but do not love, then you contact him and express that you want to be good friends with him forever, if you are sure that your heart is love or like, then boldly tell him, make sure that your heart is respect for him, whether it is a friend or a lover, tell him what you can give him, and you can't be silent. What to say to know, come on!

I don't think you really like him, girls like to be supported by everyone, and they will have an unexpected complacency. Maybe it's just a person who usually loves you very much, and suddenly he is cold, and you feel that you suddenly have less that feeling, and you are not used to it.

Personal thoughts.

I have another experience similar to you, but it takes a lot of time, it seems like it's been 5 or 6 years, my choice at that time was silence, and what he gave me was silence, and after that, the relationship between us was like the end of the road, in fact, I liked him very much at that time, he never knew it during class, sometimes he felt so pathetic, why did he call himself so pitiful, now so long has passed, we still don't speak, I don't want you to live such a sad life, if you really like it, you have to say it, no big deal.

He likes someone else, he gives up on you, haha!

I chased you 2 years ago, so will I still chase you now? I've already given up, and if not, I should tell him.

Then I finally learned how to love.

It's a pity that you have long since disappeared into the sea of people.

Later, I finally understood in tears.

Some people are not there once they miss it.

The white petals of the orange blossom fell on my blue pleated skirt.

Love you, you whispered.

I looked down and smelled the fragrance.

That eternal night, the night you kissed me in the midsummer of seventeen.

Let me sigh every time in the future.

I always think of the starlight of the day.

Why was love so simple at that time?

And why people are young.

Be sure to hurt your loved ones.

In this similar late night, are you also quietly remorseful and sentimental?

If only we could have been less stubborn then.

Now it's not so regrettable.

How do you remember me smiling or silent?

Is there anyone over the years who can keep you from being lonely.

Never again.

There was a boy who loved the girl.

Some people, if they miss it once, they miss it for .........a lifetime

You do develop feelings for him. The gradual coldness may be that he has another person in his heart, and he has less time for you, so if he likes him, he will ask him out to talk.

You can tell him what you think, if it is your own happiness, you should work hard, and if you miss it, you will regret it!

Say, don't let yourself regret it!!

Since you like him, tell him that after all, some people are not there once they miss it.

Dealing with and interacting with people is a very instinctive need, the same as eating and drinking, everyone needs it, others will not judge us all the time, and we are already adults, and the final judgment of ourselves is actually in our own hands, which is beyond the control of others.

In addition, we also need to change the perception that we like to judge other people's performance in social interactions, classify people as three, six, nine, etc., and learn to pay more attention to the content, needs and feelings expressed by others.

Instead of looking at others with a sense of rejection and criticism, but essentially interacting with others with the psychology of fully accepting others, this foothold has changed, and the way of looking at others will also change.

When we are full of acceptance of others, and no longer judge others because of their good or bad expressions, we will also accept ourselves, and the recognition of evaluation and attention will be much reduced.

b.Face your fears and anxieties.

Fear and anxiety** are the denial and non-acceptance of our early caregivers, and behind these fears and anxieties, there is a helpless, sad, aggrieved and desperate painful child.

We have to see the wounds caused by improper parenting in the early years and the wounds that have never healed, and then hug, accept, and encourage the child: tell her that all this is not her fault, that she is fine, and that she is not as bad as her mother says.

c.Don't struggle with sensitivity and nervousness.

Due to the experience of early years, sensitivity and tension have been formed, which is already the best state of our ability to achieve at present, do not compete with our own sensitivity and tension, do not compare with others.

Allow yourself to be sensitive and nervous, allow yourself to be afraid, accept that you have temporary shortcomings in this area, to understand yourself instead of forcing yourself to be insensitive and nervous, when you allow yourself to have fear, sensitivity and tension, the sensitive tension is dissolved.

It's getting bigger and bigger, and there are few bosom friends around. Lack of communication with family and friends. In the end, it caused me to become more and more silent.

No one really cares about what you think, they are all busy with their own things, and they are born lonely!