Your family is urging you to get married, how far have your family urged you to get married?

No matter how your family forces you to get married or go on a blind date, you must not find someone to marry when you are hot, women's happiness is the most important thing!

I have a lot of colleagues around me, and their parents are also anxious about their marriage, so it's best to try to communicate with your parents and let them know what you think and what you are planning. Only in this way will they not rush you every day, otherwise your ears will not be clean.

The parents' intentions are good, you have to be patient and communicate with them well!

I believe you will succeed!

Just go and see, it's up to you to see if it's up to you. Could it be that your parents are still avoiding you? Hehe.

Maybe fate will come like this.

Don't just tell your family the truth. Find it yourself.

Marriage is to be married, but it also depends on the heart.

Old people are like that, and you can understand them.

This question can be done in this way.

You said to your family, "Am I afraid that I won't be able to get married?"

It's just that I don't want to find a random person to marry!

After all, this is related to the happiness of my life.

If you want to find it, you can find a good one, or you don't look for it, and if you find one that is not good for me, it is better to be happy than a person, you say?

That's because you haven't met the person you want yet. If you really want to have it, your family will oppose it, and you will rush to marry him. So don't shy away.

When you meet, you meet, and you can't lose anything. Maybe the man who meets you can't resist the family meeting you, but in fact, he doesn't want to get married.

Then tell your family what your future plans are, for example, you plan to study, work, etc., and get their understanding.

Understandable. This is divided into several scenarios.

One: No boyfriend.

The family does have good intentions, but you have been waiting for the Prince Charming who is truly your own and has feelings.

They are definitely introducing you to good boys, don't say no, go happily and don't forget to dress up well. It's a little entertainment in your life, and you might even be able to meet the boy you like. Many couples who have met and tied the knot because of this situation are also very happy.

Two: Have a boyfriend.

I have a boyfriend, and my family wants to get married as soon as possible. But you and your boyfriend are living quite comfortably now, and we don't have any plans to do so.

Then give them some hope and tell them that there will be this day, it is a matter of time. Give them peace of mind.

Three: I am busy with work or have some more advanced ideas, and I don't think about getting married at all.

Just live your own little life, talk to your family, and they will understand.

When men get married, women get married, and women don't like when they are young, so it's better to get early.

I think it's okay, if you really reach the appropriate age for marriage, you might as well have a plan, and it can be regarded as an explanation to your family, of course, you must find someone you think will go on, hehe, come on.

What is there to urge, marriage is your own business, what age is it now, it is not necessary to get married, I believe that the family also wants to see you happy.

It's really sympathetic, and my parents also urged me to find a boyfriend to marry, but how can it be so easy.

Why run away from it? If you love him, get married... A long delay means many hitches.

I think it's okay to think about it, and there's no rule that you have to get married, so wouldn't it be nice to be at ease alone?

Urging marriage has become a social phenomenon, and parents urging marriage are naturally out of good intentions, hoping that someone can take care of them for the rest of their lives.

In the concept of the older generation, passing the marriageable age is actually the best period for marriage, and from this age onwards, parents will be more anxious if they do not get married for one more day.

So they will do everything they can to urge marriage, after the children receive this request from their parents, many people do not change their patience to let their families worry about it every day, so they choose to find a partner as soon as possible to enter the palace of marriage, but there will always be many flaws in love with purpose. So, what are the consequences of getting married at the urging of your parents?

As he gets older, he is urged to marry by his family. And people who get married in a hurry, some days are very good, and some days are very unpleasant.

Being urged to marry by their parents has become the main topic of communication between single men and women in modern cities and their parents.

One urges marriage, the other is afraid of marriage, every time the two sides meet and talk, it is a vicious battle I remember that my cousin is not married yet, and when she has no partner, every time she goes home, she has to be talked to by a bunch of elders in turn, discussing the topic of marriage. The elders always have a bunch of reasons to tell you to get married early: get married early and have children early, good for your health, good for your children, or get married and have children while you are young, your mother is still young and can bring grandchildren, or you are not looking for a partner now, who still wants you to wait for Santong to destroy the god for more than ten years, some people really don't want to get married, and they are very resistant to blind dates.

However, even if they are constantly going on blind dates, the elders will still say: I've seen so much, why haven't I seen one of them? Don't be too demanding, who is not a partner to live, just look pleasing to the eye!

Well, after all, they are elders, and the thoughts of the older generation are not always on the same channel as us, and some singles who are not determined, especially young women, may be hindered by age, and they will set their marriage partners in blind dates one after another.

Although they are going to get married, they are really not familiar with each other, so there will be a very interesting scene: the two people are very polite and unfamiliar in the process of buying a wedding. There are few marriages that are based on the expectations of the elders, and there are few who can be truly happy.

Either he married a giant baby, did nothing after marriage, and waited for someone to serve him at home. Either he married an ancestor, he only knew that he didn't make money by spending money, and he thought that men were incompetent.

Although we often say that the male is the wheel of grinding, the female is married, when they reach the age of establishment, the elders in the family will worry about their singleness, and they will keep urging themselves to find a blind date as soon as possible to get married as soon as possible, but some of the things that the elders in these families are doing in order to change their single state are also a headache for us juniors, and some things themselves are more excessive. Take myself as an example, going back to my hometown during the Spring Festival every year is the most headache for me, because every year when I go back to my hometown during the Spring Festival, because I am single to visit the relatives and elders in the family, I will inevitably be counted by these relatives and elders, although their starting point is good, but they are very dissatisfied with the status quo of my singleness, and in the process of preaching to me, there are often some excessive language that makes me feel very uncomfortable, but because they are my elders, I often choose to forbear, so whenever the Spring Festival holiday, I try my best to find various reasons not to go to these relatives' homes to pay New Year's greetings, not to say that I don't care about family affection, but because I don't want to let myself have a particularly bad mood during the Spring Festival holiday. In addition to these elders in the family, because they are single and often count themselves, many elders do not respect their personal wishes at all, do not communicate with themselves in advance, and introduce themselves to the blind date object, if they do not go to see, then they are often more serious about their number of falls, and even directly scold themselves, in this case, although I can't fight back head-on, but the method I take is to angrily take my luggage back to the city where I am blind, For these things, although I can understand that the starting point of these elders is good, but a generation has a generation's opinion, and their own reality may not be understood, in this case, I still hope that these elders in the family can respect themselves more and take into account their own feelings, rather than messing around with mandarin ducks because they are single.

Hello friends, each of us will choose to get married when we reach a certain age, if we are already in our 20s, we have not yet found the other half or single, the elders are worried about the children, I hope that we can have a happy family as soon as possible, so parents will also help single children to do a lot of things, the purpose is to hope that the children can get married as soon as possible. As the saying goes, men should get married, and women should get married. When a person grows up, he has to start his own family and start a new life.

However, some young people can't get married for various reasons, and the elders in the family see it in their eyes and are anxious in their hearts, so they can do some more excessive things to their children. Specifically, the elders in the family will often urge the child to marry because the child is single, pick the nose and raise the eyes on the child's daily behavior, and introduce the child to various relationships.

1. Because the child is single, the elders in the family will often urge the child to get married. For the elders in the family, the single status of the child will make them very anxious, so they will do a lot of things that seem excessive to outsiders. Among these things, the simplest and most direct is to often urge marriage.

Specifically, the elders of the family will urge the children to marry on various occasions, and in this way influence the children, hoping that they will get married as soon as possible. For those children who don't want to fall in love and get married, this method is not very effective.

2. The elders in the family will pick their noses and eyes at the daily life of single children. Some elders in the family will pick their noses and eyes at the daily life of single children in the family to urge them to get married as soon as possible. The reason why these elders will make such a move is that on the one hand, it is to give their children enough influence to urge them to get married, and on the other hand, it is also because they are not satisfied with their single appearance, so they will find fault with them and make the children feel overwhelmed.

3. In order to allow single children to get married as soon as possible, the elders in the family will introduce various relationships to their children. In order to make the single children in their family fall in love and get married as soon as possible, the elders in the family will try all kinds of ways. For example, they will introduce their children to various relationships, hoping that the children can end their single state as soon as possible.

However, because the objects they introduce do not necessarily meet the requirements of the children, the efforts of the elders in the family often do not achieve the desired results. But in order for the children to get married as soon as possible and start a new life, the elders are still working hard in their own way. I hope that the child can have a happy family and get married as soon as possible, so the elders will help the child solve the problem of getting rid of the single in their own way.

Summary. Many people get married because of their family urging, isn't it? No, some true love gets married when the time comes, and sometimes it doesn't work when parents urge it.

Half and half, there must be a lot of people like this. When you reach the marriageable age, you haven't met a particularly pleasant candidate, and your family is urging you very tightly, which may go along with the family's wishes. A total of 7 Chang Jiancheng2022-03-20 23:

54:11 It is a custom that has been passed down for thousands of years in China for men to marry and women to marry, and the greatest wish of parents is to see their children start a family and have children in their lifetime. There's really nothing wrong with that.

As the saying goes, women are not left behind, and this is what men say when they are 30 years old. Young people will not take into account the feelings of the elderly, they must be talking about going with the flow, and only when they meet the right person will they be willing to marry, willing to marry. Feeling that the things of the wind are not coming, they are chasing one:

It must be the agreement of both parties that they can talk about starting a family. It is different from the parents' point of view, and both sides have a point. My point of view respects the natural laws of human beings, what age to do what age, as long as you put your mind to it, fate will naturally come, and everything will fall into place.

In this way, parents can feel at ease, and young people will work harder when they become a family.

I'm sorry I don't understand, but can you elaborate on that?

Many people get married because of their family urging, isn't it? No, some true love gets married when the time comes, and sometimes it doesn't work when parents urge it. One sentence and half of it, there should be a lot of people who are in this situation.

When you reach the marriageable age, you haven't met a particularly cranky candidate, and your family is urging you very tightly, which may go along with the family's wishes. A total of 7 Chang Jiancheng2022-03-20 23:54:

11 Men should get married, women should get married, this is a custom that has been handed down in China for thousands of years, as a parent's greatest wish is to see their children start a family and have children in their lifetime. There's really nothing wrong with that. As the saying goes, women are not left behind, and this is what men say when they are 30 years old.

Young people will not take into account the feelings of the elderly, they must be talking about going with the flow, and only when they meet the right person will they be willing to marry, willing to marry. The thing that feels bad is not coming, and the one they are chasing after is that the two sides must agree to start a family and start a business.

Different from the parents' point of view, it makes sense to double rent Chong Town. My point of view respects the natural laws of human beings, what age to do what age, as long as you put your mind to it, fate will naturally come, and everything will fall into place. In this way, parents can feel at ease, and young people will work harder when they become a family.