I don t believe in love, I don t dare to fall in love, but I m not young, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Well, have you ever been injured?

    Actually, I don't believe in love very much!

    Because none of the boys around me have ever used true feelings for me!

    But it is undeniable that true love still exists, in fact, you haven't met it either!

    In fact, there must be people around you who are very infatuated with you, maybe your negligence, maybe you don't care! You're missing out!

    Let's try it once, I'm also challenging myself, right?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Just find a man and go through the formalities.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Find someone who truly loves you to marry.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love is hard to find, and when fate arrives, it will naturally become!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Go for what you want.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Fate hasn't arrived yet.

    Don't be in a hurry, the best will come when you least expect it.

    There are many good people, don't deny the existence of the sun if you don't feel the warmth, as long as you believe, everything is beautiful.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you believe, you will have, and if you don't believe, you will not. It's the same thing. In fact, don't take life too seriously, it's not good to be too demanding! Go with the flow.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There's nothing you can't believe it. Maybe you've experienced unsatisfactory relationships before, or maybe you haven't walked into it yet. It's not that there is no true love, it's just that you haven't met anyone who belongs to you.

    How can you experience the truth without experiencing it? When you meet him, the true love arrives. Love is not forever either.

    Over time, it will also transform into family affection. When two people are together, they learn to be considerate of each other and learn to consider things from each other's point of view. Everything will be fine!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe the next one will be good.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can not believe in the person you love, but don't believe in love, maybe you are very unfortunate until now, you have not met the love that makes you unforgettable, or maybe this unforgettable love hurt you, but you have cried, why do you dare not get up on your stomach?

    I have also cried and hurt, but although there is no love in my life, I don't plan to take the initiative to pursue love, but the mood of waiting for love can be very beautiful, why not try to tell yourself that the love that belongs to you, even if it never appears, will be the softest and most beautiful piece of holy land in your heart?

    I look forward to hearing the voice of your heart!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In believing that once put... Feelings don't mean that you don't believe in it, you can't believe it when you meet true love...

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Be brave Nothing is impossible as long as you take the first step ...

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't believe it easily. Don't be disbelieving.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The older you are, the more you experience, and you can see things thoroughly, so you pay more attention to "talking", and only when the economic conditions meet the requirements, can two people have the possibility to start. It's not that we're too realistic, it's that we've grown up. We'd rather spend more time earning more money than have a relationship with no future in sight, so the older we get, the harder it is to fall in love.

    First, physiologically speaking, we are getting older and older, and the secretion of various hormones is less, and human organs will fail, and psychological and emotional failures will also be exhausted.

    The second is that there are so many things that need to be done in life, and there is not so much time to cultivate feelings. Work, study, socialize, it's really hard to want a little time for yourself to fall in love.

    The third is that the choice of mate requires reluctance to compromise, there are few excellent people left, and there are fewer suitable people who are picky and selective, and there is no object and they are unwilling to trap themselves.

    So it's better to be young, who doesn't want to have a vigorous love in their youth?

    For women: it will be more and more difficult Women between 25 and 30 years old are in love and marriage, after this age, they are not very eager for love, and they are used to living alone, so they naturally don't want to write about love.

    For men with successful careers: it is getting easier and easier for men to stand at 30, 40 men are a flower, and the men's ** period is between 30 and 40 years old.

    For men who have not succeeded in their careers: it will be more and more difficult When men are older and unsuccessful, they must have a lot of problems, laziness, and lack of progress, which seriously affects the search for a partner, so they must change themselves, face life positively, and turn the situation around.

    The older we get, the more rational we become, and the harder it is to fall in love!

    You begin to know that only you are the most worthy of trust, and only you can give yourself the greatest sense of security, so you put a lock on your heart, and you are no longer willing to confide in others, and you no longer easily let others into your inner world. We always wear masks to communicate with others, and it's hard to find out what the other person really looks like!

    We have become more realistic, knowing that love alone is far from enough, and economic conditions have undoubtedly become the criterion for choosing a mate. You will make better demands on your other half, and those who are not satisfied, you will directly turn away!

    Try to open your heart and what if you meet the right person?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Hello, glad to answer for you! The reason why you don't dare to fall in love easily when you're older:

    Uncertainty is the essence of human beings, which makes people fear the pursuit of a sense of control and stability. The bondage of marriage makes people afraid that in addition to the above-mentioned uncertainties, many people are hesitant to determine the relationship, and the bondage in marriage is also another reason why they are hesitant to determine the relationship. Face the uncertainty and try it in realityIn fact, people who are too entangled in the uncertainty of the relationship may make a big mistake, that is, to see themselves, the other party, and the relationship in love as one""Definite result", but the reality is that because people will change, love has the possibility of changing at all times.

    It can be said that uncertainty xing is the essence of love.

    Hello, glad to answer for you! The reason why I don't dare to fall in love easily when I'm older: uncertain xing, which makes people afraid to pursue a sense of control and stability, is the essence of human beings.

    The bondage of marriage makes people afraid that in addition to the above-mentioned uncertainties, many people are hesitant to determine the relationship, the bondage in marriage is also another reason why they are slow to refer to the uncertain relationship. Face the uncertainty and try it in realityIn fact, people who are too entangled in the uncertainty of the relationship may make a big mistake, that is, to see themselves, the other party, and the relationship in love as one""Definite result", but the reality is that because people will change, love has the possibility of changing at all times. It can be said that uncertain xing is the essence of love.

    Don't dare to fall in love easily when you're older: Falling in love is a kind of social activity, hail spring is the process of cultivating love or mutual interaction on the basis of love, mainly the exchange and communication between the two parties. Generally speaking, if you are in sincere contact, support each other, make progress together, and achieve each other.

    The moral requirements of falling in love are mainly reflected in the following aspects: First, respect for the equality of human origin. Second, consciously take responsibility.

    Third, civilizations love each other. Whether it is in life or in the psychological difficulties and obstacles, empathy, empathy and psychological comfort from peers, especially those of different peers, are effective.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    So what do you think about people who have never been married in their lives, and do they make them consider more extreme approaches?

    Self-confidence, I think, is the most important thing. You don't think you can do it yourself, and others won't approve of you.

    In any case, self-confidence and self-esteem should never be abandoned. At least not for others and for themselves.

    Don't blindly rely on the first feeling, feel that people don't look at anything and just give up. Put a little more thought into it. For example, ask people in advance what they like to eat, what issues they are usually interested in, etc., at least 2 people also have topics to further communicate.

    If there is a possibility of continuing to communicate, then you have to spend more energy to cultivate budding feelings, usually fight with each other, go out shopping, watch a movie, eat a meal or something. It's best to have a little surprise, people in love like this. If you can keep this relationship after knowing each other for a few months, then the basic relationship is successful.

    In the future, the development will depend on your own intentions. The first thing you have to know is that if you don't even want to spend a little thought, it's just a simple meeting, a blind date. So why do you make the other person have a crush on you?

    At the age of 35, he also has a certain amount of life experience, and people who are humorous but not frivolous are easily favored by the opposite sex. People's humor and creativity largely come from a person's self-confidence.

    In addition, pay more attention to dress, speech and behavior. Developing good habits is more likely to make people feel good.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Youth, love and age have nothing to do with it. Don't be in a hurry in this situation, fate can't be in a hurry. You should be well aware of your strengths and weaknesses and also know what kind of women you like.

    Then stick to this goal and wait, meet the right one, don't worry too much, and the most important thing is that you are willing to be happy. Would you chase a woman? No, I can teach you too.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Has the landlord ever thought about his own reasons?

    It's not terrible to fail, it's terrible to not know how to face yourself correctly after failure.

    Hope landlord.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There is no hurry. I'm 23 years old and haven't talked about it yet! Not once. You don't have to be too extreme. But I wonder if there's something wrong with your working environment! Why didn't I touch a match for my eyes?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First of all, you have to be clear about your personality and the right person for your personality, and you don't just have to go on a blind date to succeed, since you're 35, then you have to be 35 years old, mature and stable, not like a child.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I'll go, 35, and I can be my mother.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Find your own problems! Are you fat? Now men and women don't look for fat people when they look for a partner!

    If you weren't too poor? The reality is cruel! Or did you offend the other person by not paying attention to what you said?

    Anyway, your situation must be your own fault! Let's try to change!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Choose the right one, don't choose the expensive one!!

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