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Life is boring, and you have to find a way to enrich yourself.

When you feel that there is no one for you, you can also try to change yourself.

Sometimes the little melancholy in my heart is just a pure desire to talk to someone, in fact, relatives and friends are good listeners.

Or if you think that some things don't have to be told to your friends, you can also talk to the netizens who are chatting.

Personally, I think if your partner confides in you every day and pours bitter water, it will be quite boring.

Life has to be positive, just like if you're sad today, you have to cheer up tomorrow. Adjust your mindset.

In another mood, maybe you will be much happier, it's not that others are incompatible with you, it's that you don't know how to invest in them, and only when you open your heart will you have true friends.

Don't be too forced.

What should come will come.

But we must hurry up when we come.

Happiness will always come quietly、、、 grasp it well, what is yours is yours, don't force it if it's not yours

The other half is arranged for you by God, so you can't rush it.

What kind of friends does the average person have, in fact, what kind of person she is, changing the environment starts with changing herself!

What is the best listener for strangers.

Sky: Your attitude towards feelings is correct, as long as you persevere, sooner or later you will wait for the person who cherishes you, and it is good to do something you are interested in or chat with friends when you are bored, and the most important thing is that I must be someone who loves you.

Clean, consistent, always good, insist on not changing, praise you.

I've been lonely for a long time, and I still want to find a companion. But it's just your own wishful thinking.

I thought the same thing, and I wanted to wait until I came back from the army.

Girls want to be beautiful every day and there will be a good fate, even if there is no one who pleases themselves now, they must be proud of themselves.

Chat with friends, I've been lonely for too long, I used to be like this, I've never been in contact with girls, but then I'm still very hurt, only in love once, but I don't want to start again, I feel tired, and sometimes I want to talk to someone.

Believe in what you feel in your heart.

Well, boring to play with mobile phones, mobile phones are the best companions.

Now that you already have the answers, why are you here? How can I help you?

This thing is perhaps, and people are not as good as heaven.

You can talk to your friends or relatives, but if you can't! You can also find something to talk to online, and people don't know you anyway.

You can talk to your close friends, or read a book, and do something that interests you. When you're bored, you think about those troubles.

Yes, if you have the power to change that, then you have to change it. Doing nothing is a pain. When you are in a time of suffering, doing nothing is more of a pain.

You have to achieve your goals! It's about fighting.

Then find something to do, and you won't think about it.

Oh, talk to you, how much do you deduct?

You can contact me, I have a lot of worries after being dumped by my boyfriend, can we talk to each other.

Make life fuller, read more books, and learn knowledge.

I'm that kind of person, I'm now! Don't envy others, don't hate others, don't fight, don't fight, no pressure, no worries, no things you particularly want, it doesn't matter to me whether you have friends or not, everything goes naturally, what you want, you give what you want, don't want to embarrass yourself, you can sleep as long as you want, no one cares, you are at home alone, free, you don't work, you don't go to work, you don't go to your friends, you don't go to your neighbor's house to ask for it, stay at home every day, or go to the street to buy food, go shopping every day, buy some that you haven't used, I haven't seen it, I want to learn to do it, buy food I haven't eaten, I like to stay alone, do what I like to do, I don't like others to disturb me, I go on a trip alone, and I just go. I stay at home every day, I don't deal with people, I don't interact with people, the only people I come and go with are my parents, I only chat with my parents every day, and the rest is doing what I like to do, no one at home, just me.

Anyway, I don't want to embarrass myself, I feel that society is not suitable for me, the reality is too cruel, I don't want to live too clearly, I just want to do what I like, so that I won't be stressed, I won't be flustered, I won't be upset, I won't be sad for relationships, stay at home alone, have no desires, and I don't lack anything, do what I like, although I don't feel happy, I don't feel unhappy, I do different things every day, I learn what I can't, so I won't be bored, enrich myself, Let myself become better and better, not to make others envy me, I just want to make myself less stupid, let myself increase my knowledge, I do myself every day, what do others want to say to them, what does it have to do with me, no matter how good others are, what does it have to do with me. No matter how bad I am, what do I have to do with others? Whether you are good or not is only related to yourself.

I am now seeing through the red dust in my heart, and I still have a negative heart. I don't need to envy those people who are highly educated, highly educated, rich, and powerful, who are not attractive to me at all, and I don't look down on those who pick up garbage and sweep the streets, I don't think doing what a profession is to do. It's not a shame to wear shoes with others, you all earn money with your own hands.

Being the secretary of the provincial party committee, for me, I don't feel honored, nothing, it's normal!

This kind of person's words are that there are very few that kind of intimate friends, that is, friends who rarely make friends, just let it be, what's wrong?

If you don't have special respect for people, that is, you don't have people you love in particular. There is no faith. There is no hope. Particularly lonely. It's painful. There is no one who loves himself. Fear of betrayal, fear of being hurt. Well, poor man.

It belongs to a sense of loss, inferiority complex, and no confidence in anything.

That shows that he is very boring and has no bottom line of his own.

It felt like he lacked faith. If he had received a patriotic education since childhood, he would have admired the heroes of the revolution very much. As a result, since he was a child, he has been full of respect and special respect for his uncle in the People's Liberation Army.

If he had been taught to love science since childhood, he would have admired scientists. He especially respects the teachers who taught him all kinds of knowledge.

If he receives the education of loving his family since he was a child, then he will cherish his family affection and will experience the difficulties of his elders since he was a child. I will also respect the elders in the family from the bottom of my heart.

It can be seen that shaping a person's heart should start from a young age. If you sow the seed of a god horse in his heart, then he will have a god horse feeling.

If you blindly pamper him and don't educate him correctly, then when he grows up, he will only have himself in his heart. Forming a self-centered concept, commonly known as a selfish person, even has a heart of respect for family and elders...

Not bad! Such a person should have good conditions himself. There is no need to live for others, and it is good to believe in yourself.

I think it's a normal state of mind, maybe he's to someone else.

Moral requirements, ideological requirements, and cultural requirements are particularly high, so I didn't find anyone who made him particularly respectful. This is also a normal phenomenon, there are many people in real life who are not worthy of respect, even if they are respected, they only belong to ordinary respect, unless they are really excellent people.

This is the psychology of the public, many people are like this, you can slowly find people you respect in the future!

That's nothing special, it's just the same.

Love yourself, be conceited or confident, and live in your own world, not caring or enthusiastic about other people's affairs.

o( o haha It's not a bad popularity, if you don't pay attention to others, how can others pay attention to you? As for chatting with strangers, casually, you don't know him anyway...

Relax your mind, be confident, don't be nervous when chatting, say whatever you want, and have friends to make friends with.

Engage with people more and talk more.

I want you to be clear, why are you with your current boyfriend? People will feel tired after a long time in front of a thing, and they will feel that everything they should do, and if someone else does something that moves you, you feel that others are good to you, maybe in other people's world, it's just a good idea, is it too much for yourself? And you didn't say how long you've been with your boyfriend?

If it's been several years, then it can only mean that other people's kindness to you is just an illusion, and even if others really like you, then a lot of them should be blessings for you.

Personally, I think you can find a coffee shop, sit down and have a good look at your past with your boyfriend, and I'm sure you'll both have the answer in your heart at that time. Don't turn a blind eye and let it go, because I was like this before, and now I wake up at three or four o'clock in the middle of the night and feel inexplicably sad.

And feelings are inherently uncontrollable. Although you have a boyfriend, it still depends on whether you are really attracted to the other man. If it's really heartwarming, do you really have feelings for your boyfriend?

I think when you figure it out, you can make a brave choice. Even if you can't be with this person in the future, it's because you listen to your heart, and you won't leave any regrets. Either way, be sure to tell the other person that you have a boyfriend.

As someone who used to be in the position of your current boyfriend, I feel that this is responsible for both yourself and your boyfriend.

I think you should have faith in your boyfriendSince you chose to be together, it is not easy to meet so many people in this world, let alone being together, how can you give up easily? Don't be fooled by appearances, and extend the length of time in love to a lifetime, maybe it's just the beginning, right? Blandness is the norm, and it's common sense that too much performance is wrong.

You don't know what to do probably because your confidence in each other has gradually been smoothed out by time, make a plan for your future, what life two people want to live in the future, put this on the agenda, and two people should fight together for the future. Compared to the future, these things are dust, right?Cherish the people in front of you, don't give up easily, there are always more ways than difficulties.

In fact, everyone wants a better lover. But what is a better boy, as the saying goes, there are people outside the world, there are days outside the sky, you can't eat the pot and look at the pot, then you will never find the person you really love, because you and I don't know what kind of boyfriend you want to find, a mountain looks at a mountain high, and will never stop, after all, excellent people are, you are so half-hearted that no one can satisfy you, people must learn to be content, and it is best to find a person who is equal to himself in all aspects. Since your boyfriend is in love, it means that you have understood each other and are suitable for each other.

Then you meet a better guy, and you have the idea of abandoning your boyfriend, and you have different ideas, which is not right. What is better for a guy is to be good-looking. Good family, good job.

Is he the right fit for you? Will he be able to fall in love with you? Can he give you a lifetime?

So it's not about you to say that a better boy has nothing to do with you, it's good to cherish the person in front of you if you have a good man now.

It's okay to make a friend, don't think about anything else, it's best to cherish the boyfriend in front of you, meet an excellent one now, and you will meet an even better one in the future, do you have ideas, then you are a person who likes the new and hates the old, you can never find the person you love, and you can't get a better lover. Some people are not yours don't think about it, such an excellent boy doesn't have a girlfriend, you think about it, he may show you goodwill, he may just play with you, he won't go on with you, and he won't want you anymore, and his boyfriend will leave you, you say that you are not stupid, grasp your current boyfriend, better than anything, maybe he will be better in the future, let you feel that your choice is the wisest, cherish your current boyfriend, his excellence has you to dig out.

If you're in good relationship shape, I don't think you'll ask that question anyway. There is no better boy, only an increasingly unsatisfactory emotional state, don't be too attached to what you think is, it's not a sin to suddenly have a good impression of other people, the real sin in your subconscious is that you didn't deal with your existing feelings well, and almost pulled another person into this relationship.

I suggest that you responsibly face the problems that arise in this relationship with your boyfriend and then discuss your liking for other people, otherwise even if you have a good impression of 10,000 people, you will only gain 10,000 failed relationships later, after all, only both parties in love know what subtle problems are going on, and whether these problems can be solved.

As for the affection for other people, you have to face up to the fact that this is just a warning that it is telling you that there is something wrong with your relationship.

If these problems can be solved, continue with your boyfriend, and if it is difficult, don't spoil each other's feelings at the end, break up and adjust separately.

When you are physically and mentally single again, and then observe whether other people are a good love partner, your perspective in a relationship is not a normal, suitable perspective for "finding" lovers.