Can anyone tell me how I can forget about your favorite 50

I once had a girlfriend who had been in love for 1 year and broke up with me, it was my first love, I was still in school at that time, and I ended up numbing myself with alcohol every day, and I became addicted to alcohol at a young age! It took me almost 3 years to forget, and in the end it took me more than 2 years to heal myself! Even if you are reluctant to become a boyfriend and girlfriend, it is not necessarily a good thing, let go of her story and live naturally for a while, if you find that you can live a very peaceful life without thinking about her, and you can live a very happy life, then you don't need to talk to her about the topic at all!

There's a kind of love called letting go! Since everyone is saying such a heartless thing (break up)! Don't push too hard!

After you devote yourself to your own society, your social circle and life circle expand, you will know that there are more girls worth pursuing! When you find your social value, those who have rejected you will regret it!

Why forget, life is short, since we have chosen each other, then we are to pursue happiness together, then the scars just make us cherish the happy time more. There are no unfinished stories in the world, only undead hearts. People are the best animals at forgetting, you don't have to be afraid that you won't be able to forget a person, you will forget him sooner or later, of course, you won't completely forget him, and later, in your memory, only the outline details of the past have been blurred.

You can't forget him now because you haven't fallen in love with someone else, and when you fall in love with someone else, you forget him. Everything is a thing of the past, and that's how we come to life. Hope it helps.

Don't try to forget her, but thank her for bringing you good memories for the year; Distract yourself and focus on your studies or work. Do that, and you've matured.

Why forget?

If you are sad in your heart, you have to lose a part of your life.

Then you will become weaker and weaker.

Your life will be in pieces.

Summoning the courage to overcome longing.

Why forget?

When you are no longer able to have.

The only thing you can do.

It's about not forgetting"

Here are Wong Kar-wai's words :p

But anyway.

Forgetting is a pointless thing.

The past is always there.

Even if you choose to run away.

Take your time, time will take everything.

Why do you have to forget?

After all, we loved each other deeply, didn't we? Leave a space, it doesn't have to be too big, it doesn't have to be public, just give yourself the occasional aftertaste.

Why forget? Love will become colorful precisely because of attachment and rebellion, and we can grow up! People say it's time, so be it! Time is the antidote to forgetting scars!

If you can't forget, don't forget.

You also said that you broke up because of a little thing, and then go to her, girls need to be coaxed by boys!

If you're happy with him, keep that memory and remember that you once loved someone deeply, wasn't it, but he wasn't yours, and you should find that love for you.

Chase, apologize to your girlfriend, you also said that you broke up because of a trivial matter.

Please, I can't forget my favorite person.

But don't live in his shadow.

The more you want to forget, the more the memory is strengthened, so you still don't forget her, so it will fade away gradually.

Try to fall in love with someone else.

The beginning of a new relationship is the end of an old relationship.

If only things were small!

See if there's room for manoeuvre!

I'm in a similar situation! Everyone, my question pulls! 110 points.

First, accept the reality and realize that no matter how much you like it, you can't have it, you can only like it.

The reason why people can't let go of a person, or a favorite thing, is because they have expectations. Expecting to get, expecting to have it forever. Because of this psychology, I will find a way to get it.

Therefore, the heart will always be obsessed. If you still have this expectation of a person, it is hard for you to forget.

Therefore, if you like someone, but the reality has doomed you to not be together, then recognize the reality, accept the reality, and no longer fantasize or expect. In this way, the heart has no expectations, no more fantasies, and the mind gradually stops thinking in that direction. Naturally, it will slowly fade away, and I won't remember it.

Second, find out more about the shortcomings of the person you like, and think more about the problems you may find when you are really together.

Sometimes, the more you stare at the merits of the person you like, the more you feel the pity of loss, the more regretful you are, and the more you can't forget. If you say that in the early stage, when you are thinking about it, you can think more about the shortcomings of the person you like, and try to find the shortcomings, it will gradually dilute the impression of that person in your heart. Gradually, I forgot about it.

You must know that no one is perfect, and it is impossible to be without shortcomings. If you can't find out, it's because you don't know enough about the person you like. So at this time, you can't find the shortcomings, you can imagine, what if together, those shortcomings that you didn't find are exposed?

What if the other person spoils the impression in your mind, or is not suitable? If you envision these bad things into a possible future, you won't feel so sorry. I'm glad I'm not together.

Third, tell yourself that you don't need to deliberately forget, and let the other party naturally fade in your heart.

Everyone knows that if you hold the sand with your hands, the tighter you hold it, the more you can't hold the sand. If you're not pushing harder, you'll grab some. The same goes for the memory of a person.

If you really want to forget someone, then it may mean that you haven't let go of your heart, and it is even more difficult to forget. Therefore, you have to tell yourself in your heart that there is no need to deliberately forget the person you like, you just need to remember, not deliberately remember. If you go with the flow like this, you will remember it when you think about it, and if you can't remember it, forget it.

With this mentality, it will slowly fade away naturally, and it will be slowly forgotten.

Fourth, start a new relationship, or cover the traces of that person with a more fulfilling life.

This step is to use this coercive intervention, or rather a deliberate act, to forget a person when the first three steps have not worked much. Only when new feelings are opened, will the heart pay more attention to new feelings. Only by making your heart more fulfilling, improving the quality of your life, and learning to use the content of life to divert your attention, gradually that person's position or trace in your heart will be covered by these new contents of your life.

In this way, the goal of forgetting a person can also be achieved.

It's really hard to forget someone you like, but it's hard to like it. Because you like it, it's hard to give up. However, if you really want to forget someone, it is actually easy, follow the above four steps, take your time, and don't deliberately remember, just do it.

——— that day, I saw a strange-looking banyan tree at the entrance of the alley, and when my first reaction was to take a picture of her, I knew something was wrong.

Obviously determined to forget her, but because of her simple words, it evokes countless memories.

Yes, everyone used to like someone so seriously.

No matter what happens to the person you once liked, you have to believe it:

The people you meet at a particular time are making us grow and make us know how to love.

The past will always pass, and we have to face the future

It's the ones who can accompany you all the way through.

In this world, some people and some things, although they may come late, they will come eventually.

So, no matter how much we liked someone in the past, we always have to look forward, don't we dear guys, none of us know what will happen in the future, so, work hard for your dreams and hold on to your dreams!

When you study hard and work hard for your dreams, when you are constantly working hard.

When you become good enough, the person you like will be waiting for you at a certain time and place in the future, and meet you unexpectedly.

A: When you ask this question, your favorite person may no longer be with you, or she may have left you for someone else.

From the perspective of human nature, the easier it is to get, the less it is cherished, so there is what Zhang Ailing said that the white moonlight has become the rice grains on the cheongsam, and the red roses have become the mosquito blood on the mosquito net. You can like her very much, but you have to show a degree: you can afford it, you can put it down.

If you show that I love you, and without you, I will die, then you are more dangerous, because once people are closed, they have no worries, and their behavior will be very presumptuous.

Try to learn to forget:

Here are a few expert methods::

1.It is not easy to forget a person who has a weight in his heart. But it's not impossible, play more with friends, find more fun to do, read more humorous books... Relax yourself·· Watch and write comedies·· Definitely forget... Hehe.

2.I remember the first time I fell in love, when we were apart, she said to me: If you want to forget a relationship, you have to start another relationship, almost ten years have passed, it feels right, and you still have to face it!

Not everyone in this world understands your love for her, does it? If you love her very much, all you can do is tell her that this is a haven for you at all times, maybe she won't come back to you at all, maybe you will comfort her when she comes back to you!

Just use this emotion to find someone you didn't dare to contact before, and maybe you will succeed! No one can do the best with relationship problems!

3.Time will make you forget her, it is better to keep yourself very busy every day, it is better not to live in the same city with her, it is better for you to make some new friends, maybe which one is your favorite in the future. In fact, you don't have to forget her, because the more you want to forget, the more you want to forget, you will subconsciously think of her again.

You can go and remember her little by little, when you recall, you will feel that you are very happy, but if you recall a little bit every day, every day a little bit, you will find that your memory is slowly not remembered, just like we eat three meals a day, sometimes even what you eat in the morning, you will forget. Don't go out of your way to forget someone, because then you will love her more than before, it's easy to love someone, it's hard to forget someone, it's harder to really hate someone. You just have to leave the forgetting you want to her to time to solve, it's okay, after a long time, you won't forget it.

4.You love her! Sometimes, giving up is for a better choice! If you love her, why forget! Go for it and don't let yourself regret it!

Even if you love her very much, if you want to forget, !That's just a matter of time! Keep yourself busy.

Listen**, and remember not to be sad. Go out and mingle!

In fact... Don't push yourself to do something.

You already have the answer.

It's just that the sadness in my heart doesn't have a chance to be expressed.

If it's someone you like, why do you have to forget it?

Slowly, you'll be there.

As for the sadness now.

There is only one word, "resist".

A man: Can't resist this? Right!

Like someone is something you can never forget, friend! I'm just like you, I've been in love since I was a student, and now it's been more than ten years, and I still can't forget it.

I'm rooting for you! Be sure to succeed! Sometimes it's not money that decides the winner!

If you like it, why do you have to let yourself forget? If you can't forget it, keep it in your heart.

Shift the target, find another girl you like, and take your attention off her.

If you forget someone, don't think about her, thinking will only deepen the impression, the more you want to forget, the more you can't forget, why bother?

Forget? You? It's impossible, don't find any way and don't deceive yourself, asking this question itself shows that you value love and righteousness, you can't be as soulless as some people, so you can't forget it at all, not only can't forget, his life state may also affect your mood for a long time, all of this comes from your past dedication, from your emotional investment, if you want to forget unless your soul can be cut, so don't forget it, there will be someone who understands you to help you heal the trauma, dilute everything unpleasant, Let's wait together, shall we?

If you have a good impression of other people of the opposite sex as soon as possible, you will gradually forget about it.

Sometimes forgetting isn't always the best thing to do, if you once had it but now you lost it. Let's turn it into a memory and collect it well! After all, it's also an experience in your life.

Although it is said that time can forget everything, if you still love him, you can't forget it.

If you don't love him anymore, you'll forget. Find a way to stop loving him.

Or try not to contact and recall the scenes of 2 people, don't do what you used to do, often go to play with friends, go crazy together, you can also go out on a trip and maybe meet the true love of your life, love is everywhere, as long as you don't miss, breaking up will be a new beginning for you, but if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to give up something, let your heart open, instead of thinking often, you will definitely think about it occasionally, this is also inevitable, right. Time will make you forget it. If you really love him so much, you have to spend your whole life forgetting, if you don't want to forget, please hide your love deep in your heart.