Can anyone tell me how not to be confused

Dear friends: Don't worry about the fate of life Everyone will have this or that kind of life troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that you suffer losses, be fooled, even your ordinary fall is the most valuable experience in your life What you have to do is to accept all this Cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, fraternity This is even the most painful thing. Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously.

Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different. Look at everything around you with an optimistic mind, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, they will naturally cherish you very much. You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm!

I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself! In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape from reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely. So, isn't it all a lifetime?

If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened? Is that right? For man does not live for himself alone.

Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc. People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them. Everyone is responsible!

Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live? Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied? So people have a certain amount of pressure.

The double pressure of the outside world, its own body. That's why people feel tired! In fact, people don't have to be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life?

In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it. Have more interest and curiosity to discover the bits and pieces of life! Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful.

People won't be so tired. There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made! So much to the point.

You should work harder to face life. Even a storm is a necessary part of your life! May you shine every day!

Happy and healthy :) I hope to encourage you. ~

1. You don't think too much about it first. Life is confused, but look at how the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas educate sentient beings. If you are willing to envy the core, you can read the "Lengyan Sutra".

Read and copy, purify your thoughts, and be willing to interpret the true meaning of the truth. Watch and listen to the teacher's explanation. I watched it intently.

At first glance, because I don't know the righteousness, I may not believe it, or I can't see it because of obstacles, but I insist on reading and copying, and I know its meaning over time. You can also read other Buddhist scriptures, search for the Tripitaka on the Internet, there are many Buddhist scriptures, choose a few to see.

2. Hatred and hatred are a major cause of life. Don't think about changing for the first time, work with peace of mind, and arrange time to read Buddhist scriptures. The name of the Buddha can be recited daily.

It can make it cold and clean, and Fuhui grows. Live with peace of mind. If you don't solve the mystery in your heart, you will be troubled wherever you go.

It's still a trouble after death.

3. You can make a big wish: all living beings have boundless vows. Endless troubles, vows to break off brothers, dig a few digs. The Dharma is immeasurably vowed to learn. The supreme vow of Buddhism has come true.

4. I know that all the bad karma I have created is born from beginningless greed and hatred, from body, speech, and mind, and I repent of everything now.

Sin starts from the heart and confesses the heart, if the heart is destroyed, the sin also dies, and the heart destroys the sin and dies in the two bodies, then it is called true repentance.

5. Generally speaking, death is not liberation, only by practicing the holy path and attaining nirvana is liberation. Freely. Ignorance is pulled by karma. May I seek supreme liberation. Be good at obeying the Fa-rectification, and be free from suffering and be happy.

Personal insights for your reference. It is best to recite Buddhist scriptures as you wish. It is true for all sentient beings. He was born among men. It's a pity not to look at the Dharma when you encounter it.

If you live for 100 years, you can't understand the law of birth and death.

It's better to be born for a day and get rid of it.

Clause. 1. Have an objective understanding of yourself. Some people will have doubts about their abilities because they can't find a job for a long time, which needs to be treated hospitable.

At least in the increasingly severe environment, although all walks of life have entered the normal working state, they are still tightening their belts to live. So, not being able to find a job is not just your personal problem, but the overall economic environment, so you don't have to give up on yourself. Clause.

2. Maintain a normal routine and rest habits. Some people feel that they have nothing to do once they are unemployed, stay up late at night, sleep during the day, and the whole work and rest time is completely messed up, such a rhythm of life will only make their mood more and more depressed, and the state of the whole person is getting worse and worse. So, you might as well make a daily plan for yourself, for example, you can specify the following meter:

Wake up at 6 a.m. and go for a half-hour jog. From 7 to 8 o'clock, make breakfast for your family. Eat breakfast at 8 o'clock for half an hour at 9-12 o'clock, read and study, write articles and so on 12-13 o'clock, lunch at 13-16 o'clock, go to the scenic spot, or chat with friends at 17 o'clock, cook dinner for the family at 18 o'clock, eat dinner at 19-22 o'clock, read and study, write articles and so on at 22 o'clock, and start sleeping.

The above is my arrangement during the period of unemployment for your reference. Clause.

3. Reading and studying is the best way to solve all anxiety, and sometimes people's troubles come from ignorance. Reading and learning can broaden your horizons and change the way you think about problems. Through learning, you can reflect on your past work, summarize the lessons of success and failure, and at the same time, you can also rethink the future and sort out a clearer career direction.

So, from this point of view, your unemployment is a good thing, so that you can stop from working with your head down and look up at the road ahead. Clause.

Fourth, let yourself take action, and remember: the more confused a person is, don't stand still and be confused. Only by allowing yourself to act, and constantly adjusting your thoughts as you go, will many of the confusions in your mind be solved naturally.

I think the confusion is just because the ability is not worthy of the dream. Every person who is full of desire has a dream in his heart, and this dream, whether great or ordinary, will greatly affect our satisfaction with the state of life. When a person feels lost and overwhelmed, it can actually be said that the ability is not worthy of the dream, because the heart is full of desire, but there is no way to get it, this feeling is very worrying, then it is natural to feel lost.

Therefore, to solve the confusion, the first thing to do is to sort out your dreams, calm down and think, what you want to get the most, from small wishes to big ideals, you can list them one by one, because these wishes represent your satisfaction with life, you only slowly realize or disguise your dreams, your heart will feel satisfied, in order to have a calm heart to feel life and love.

When we understand our dreams or goals, what we have to do is to plan, because nothing can be achieved in one step, if we want to achieve a big dream, we need to be down-to-earth, step by step, for example, I want to become a teacher, then I have to prepare for the teacher qualification certificate, if you want to take the certificate, you have to buy textbooks first, after passing the exam, you must actively prepare for the interview, and improve your eloquence through continuous practice, so that you can gradually get closer to my dream, which is why I say" Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared", only by working hard and trying for our dreams, we can achieve them, realize the dreams in our hearts, get what we want, and naturally forget the existence of confusion.

During this period, I think the most important two words are "change", because in this process, we may encounter many unexpected obstacles, and we may also need to give up some of the original habits, so there is no doubt about change, according to your own plan, try to use psychological hints to tell yourself to accept these changes when needed, and after the change is a better tomorrow.

There is also a method worth introducing, that is, when your heart feels confused, or even a little breathless, you can choose to do what you like, if you like to eat, then let go of the bold eating, don't care about what to get fat, just eat happy, so that it will bring some comfort to your heart, and have a slightly better mood to better face life.

In fact, in the final analysis, the most important thing is to live and learn, because society is constantly progressing, if we don't insist on learning, we will be eliminated by our own industry or the whole society, and when the time comes, we will lose the right to choose freely, how can we not be confused? ? So, I wish you all the talent worthy of your dreams and a happy life!!

1.Confused a lot of times is to think too much, to imagine a lot of answers to a thing, and then because of these answers evolved into various possibilities, and finally made himself a habit of all events, for this first Lin did not think too much.

2.Ask rhetorically, reflect on yourself, ask yourself why you are confused, too tired and too busy at work? Can't make money with less money? Or are you usually too idle? Or is it too comfortable to live without a goal to move forward? If it's not right, adjust it and give yourself a goal.

3.Adjust, adjust your own schedule and work progress, set small goals that can be achieved for yourself, and insist on completing a little bit, when you complete the satisfaction will prompt you to move forward, and you will not be confused if you have a goal.

4.Mentality, mentality is very important, a good optimistic and positive attitude will directly determine the completion of a thing, then we should tell ourselves not to be disturbed by the outside world, do not accept the negative energy of others, do it step by step, and get along with optimistic people.

5.Cognitive, self-introspection, recognize one's own ability, three views, recognize one's own shortcomings, start by changing one's own small shortcomings, change and keep forging ahead to enrich oneself.

6.There are many ways to change, but whether you can change it, how to change, what it will become, only you know, and only you can do it.

College is a completely new environment, and for new students who have just entered college, it can feel lost and uncomfortable. There are many reasons for confusion, such as:

I don't know if my major is suitable for me, whether I am interested and have a future;

I don't know how to arrange my studies and life, how to balance my schoolwork and interests;

I don't know how to get along with classmates and teachers, how to build good interpersonal relationships;

I don't know how to plan for my future and how to prepare for my career and development.

These problems are all normal, and everyone goes through such stages. However, if you are in a state of confusion for a long time, it will affect your growth and happiness. So, how can freshmen get rid of their confusion? Here are some suggestions::

Know yourself**. College is a great opportunity to explore yourself and discover your potential. You can learn about your interests, strengths, values and goals by participating in various activities, courses, clubs, internships, etc.

You can also broaden your horizons and knowledge by reading, observing, communicating, etc. You can also improve your abilities and qualities through reflection, evaluation, adjustment, etc. To know oneself is to find one's own position and direction.

Respect the choice**. College is a process of making choices and living with consequences. You may be faced with many choices, such as what classes to take, what clubs to join, what friends to make, and internships.

These choices will all affect your university life and future development. Therefore, you should carefully consider your choices and do not blindly follow the trend or be influenced by others. At the same time, you should also respect your own and others' choices and not regret or complain.

There are pros and cons to each option, and the key is to see how you look at and respond to the companion.

Enjoy the process**. College is a time of joy and growth. You may encounter a lot of challenges and difficulties, such as exams, assignments, competitions, stress, etc.

However, you will also reap a lot of joy and achievement, such as friendship, love, knowledge, experience, etc. You have to learn to enjoy the process and not just look at the result. You need to face challenges and difficulties positively and see them as opportunities for growth.

You need to be grateful for the joy and accomplishments you have, and use them as motivation and rewards.

Be open-minded**. Universities are a diverse and fast-changing world. You may be exposed to a lot of different people and things, such as different cultures, perspectives, styles, etc.

You have to keep an open-minded mentality, and don't be stubborn or prejudiced. You need to respect and appreciate diversity and not exclude or discriminate. You have to be willing and good at learning, not satisfied or stagnant.

You need to adapt and grasp the change, and don't be afraid or fall behind.

In short, freshmen need to know themselves, respect their choices, enjoy the process, and be open-minded. In this way, you will be able to find your place and direction at the university, live your university life well, and lay a solid foundation for your future.