My boyfriend s dad is against us being together, and my boyfriend s parents are strongly against us

I am a strong supporter of you.

Your boyfriend's father is too arbitrary.

You can't rely on the idea of your own head to dismiss a person.

Academics must continue, and love must continue.

I'm sure you can handle it.

Also believe that your boyfriend will not leave you just because of his father.

He loves you so he will have his own opinions.

After all, marriage is your own.

And love is hard-won.

Cherish what you have.

Go boldly!

Realistically, it would be unwise for you to go to school again.

Sometimes, a diploma is worthless compared to a job, and even if you get a diploma, you may lose your job, and my child has been out for two years and has not yet found a suitable job.

If you build your happiness into your dream four years from now, it is nothing to be sure of, and the environment, opportunities, age, etc. will not allow it. If you go to school with a salary from your employer or you can consider it, you can go back to school. But love will not be guaranteed.

When I was the man's father, I would have objected to the same. Too far away to wait. You either listen to your family, or you give up everything to get that diploma that doesn't have much effect.

Well, it's a bit of a hassle to come across something like this.

But it is true ...

Hey, you can only behave well in front of his father.

Hopefully, in the long run, his father will see the good in you.

If it really doesn't work, then see how your boyfriend reacts.

See if he insists, and if so, I hope that with your sincerity, you can make his father compromise.

If he doesn't insist, then forget it A man who can't protect himself is not worth paying for himself.

1. People like his father don't deserve your respect.

2. Go your own way, if your spouse is an obstacle, then what's the point of you and him.

Keep at it, I'm sure your true feelings will touch his parents. Don't give up because of the small obstacles in front of you. I believe that anyone will be impressed, and the key is to ask him to mention your goodness in front of his parents.

Give them a deeper impression of the good side of you. In this way, you gradually try to deepen the impression of his parents. Then Heaven will be moved, and you will get your wish.

Hello!!! If parents interfere with the freedom of marriage, as children, they should communicate with their parents more. If parents ignore their children's words, the children may report the situation to the neighborhood committees, village committees, and other departments, and the neighborhood committees, village committees, and other departments will do the ideological work of the parents and stop their interference in marriage.

China has a system of freedom of marriage, and parents are resolutely prohibited from interfering in marriage.

According to Article 1046 of the Civil Code, marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other party, nor shall any organization or individual interfere with it.

Legal basis: Article 1046 of the Civil Code.

Marriage shall be completely voluntary between the man and the woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, and it shall be forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere with it. I hope it helps, I wish you a happy life! Work smoothly, good health, all the best.

What are the specific reasons? Did your parents tell you? You have to find the right reason to communicate with your father.

There must be reasons for the strong opposition of the man's parents, and I wonder what is the reason why they are so opposed to you. If it's because of family reasons, such as not being a household registration, such as being dissatisfied with your appearance or height, such as fortune telling that you are not suitable, etc., etc., if it is such a similar reason, I think you don't need to stick to it, because, marriage is not as simple as you think, thinking that as long as two people love each other, marriage is a combination of two families, not a combination of two people, so, even if you really insist on going to the end despite all difficulties now, the truth cannot be like in a fairy tale, The prince and princess lived a happy life in this way, but, in the face of life, you will have more troubles and contradictions, and when the time comes, the dissatisfaction of the man's parents with you will become more and more serious, such a marriage is meaningless. Because no matter how much love you have, constant conflicts and quarrels will wear out love.

Secondly, if the opposition of the man's parents is not due to the objective conditions mentioned above, then if you really like your boyfriend, then you should try to change the place that displeased them. For example, if they are not satisfied with your current job or income, then, for this, you are fully capable of allowing yourself to find a better job or a higher income, and constantly strive to improve yourself, so that even if his parents are picky, they will be satisfied with you. Moreover, if you change yourself through your efforts, even if you and your boyfriend fail to be together in the end, you can also take this opportunity to improve yourself, and if you have the opportunity to meet again next time, I believe that they will definitely be impressed with you and regret that they didn't choose you in the first place!