I m not reconciled, what should I do, how to contact her, how to ask her

You should still have a chance, she said that she gave you a chance, which means that there was a time when she accepted you from the heart. You must know that it is difficult for a girl to fully accept a man from her heart. She should have feelings for you.

She refuses to say that your personalities are incompatible, I don't know if it's true, and if you also feel that the two of you don't have the same personalities, it's a bit troublesome. But the personality is too general, and it is likely to be a pretext. Now, it looks like you're not quite falling out.

You should still have hope. Don't rush now. It is possible to give both parties a little time.

Think about what the real reason for her rejection is again. After a few days, I was testing her reaction. If you have the opportunity, don't deliberately, move her from a small place!

Let your mind calm down first, and if you can't do it, you don't have to think about it.

Once you've calmed down, think about what kind of person she is, and then decide what to do about her personality.

My advice is to be friends with her first, and if she doesn't want to be friends with you, you get acquainted with her friends, and slowly her friends will help you.

Of course, it's best not to talk about her often in front of her friends, but to wait until she has accepted you as her friend.

Do what you think she will be happy for the other party, and tell her with actions that you can't do without her, and I think the most effective way is probably to pretend to be pitiful.

Since you have asked here, do you believe me?

Tell you that the more you chase so closely, you have to grasp this degree, don't take these things too seriously, there is more important than this, remember a sentence, fate will naturally come to this kind of thing.

Since she is so tough, then you give up, although it will be painful, but time will dilute everything, including feelings

Always think. Loving someone can encompass everything about her.

Even if she doesn't love you.

Even when things get to the worst.

There is still hope in still lying to yourself.

She has blood in her veins that doesn't love you.

How do you go about helping her change.

You can give up your life.

But don't give up your self-esteem.

She's not your only one.

You should look further.

Oh, step up the offensive, you'll succeed, believe me, any girl will accept the boy who is chasing after him.

The last thing a girl can't stand is being moved.

Let him see your intentions, see your sincerity to her.

If you really care about it and she still ignores you, it means that she doesn't love you at all.

So let it go !

Persevere: Maybe one more time, if she behaves better, she'll turn back

Give it up, emotional matters should be voluntary on both sides.

Giving up is also a beauty.

It takes courage to give up.

That's your subjective consciousness.

I think she's going to be annoying.

Actually, it's not.

But right away it was a bit harsh.

So. The diva is chatting.

Don't talk about emotional things, though.

After two or three days, send her a text message or QQ contact, and she should be able to accept being friends.

Find a chance, just pretend to meet occasionally, don't come forward to talk, just nod your head, and then you're playing ** There will be a topic, then he won't be annoyed, you're saying something she likes to listen to, don't screw her, just try it, I wish you success!!

Why do you want to tell him to go out of town?

The reason is very simple, because people are like this, when something is paid, because it is unwilling, it will be difficult to give up. If you don't pay, you can easily leave the battle.

You have to understand that the other party doesn't take you seriously anymore. Well, please don't worry about it. It's because you still care.

For people who don't know you, people who will doubt you and isolate you, you have fundamentally different qualities. There is also no need to intersect. The world is so big, and there are so many people.

He was just passing through. Why don't we smile and say that our lives are reborn.

The reason for these situations is because of your irrationality, you need to vent when he is out of love, you need someone to accompany him, and you go in front of him. He was out of his mind at that time, and he didn't refuse. You have exceeded the boundaries of what you were meant to be!

But you don't think rationally about whether his acceptance at this time is true love? Or is it just that the heart is empty and needs someone to accompany you? Maybe you love him, but you don't know each other very well, so there's no need to dwell on it.

Whether you choose a friend or a stranger depends on how you feel at the time.

But it's always good to have multiple friends, learn to think rationally and make your interactions smoother, tell him what you think, maybe you'll still be friends in the future!

I think it's better not to get in touch, if he will tell you the reason, then you can still say goodbye like a friend, there are some things that we can't understand, don't dwell on it, what if you get entangled? Others are alive and well, and you are not affected by you, and you are torturing yourself alive. Be kind to yourself, know how to let go, it's not a big deal, think seriously about what he gave you.

Let's face the result when it's like this, what we should do is not to figure out why this is the result, but to have such a result, how do you forget it.

Time is a very good thing, it can smooth everything, although no matter how long it is, there will still be a touch of sadness, and you will find that it is not important later. The important thing is the person who accompanies you at the end, the rotten person who hurts you, why do you put him in your heart. Maybe one day when you contact again, you forget all this very calmly, and tell everything calmly, because it's all over, people have to look forward, don't stay in the past, smile, it's not a big deal, maybe one day you will feel that you are really stupid when you were contradictory.

I hope you can finally find your own happiness, happy every day, some things are open, feel more comfortable, those that are not good to us, why should we pay so much attention to them? It's good to pay attention to the one who will be by your side in the future Come on

She doesn't believe you, why do you do that to her, women are just that stupid.

He's done it all, are you going to continue? Doesn't it feel like a bit muddy?

In this way, the irresponsible man should not be contacted, and there is no need to inform him, live your own life, I wish you happiness!

Don't contact anymore There are a lot of good boys He doesn't deserve you to do so much for him He doesn't trust you yet He's just there for you to be a substitute Just fell out of love and in a bad mood Come to you When you recover, be nice to others This kind of boy is not good.

Feelings are such a thing, you can't force it, just follow the fate, don't have to be uncomfortable, sometimes it's better to be realistic, I hope you can meet a better girl.

Forget it, everyone is married, it's useless if you have any ideas, it's better to find a girl who suits you. Why waste any more feelings.

Not necessarily, connection means that two people may not have that kind of love between lovers, but there is still friendship, care or attention to a friend. If there are no outrageous words or actions, you might as well accept your boyfriend as such. After all, the person who once loved will have love without love.

Your tolerance will make your boyfriend cherish you more, as long as you communicate more when you have problems now, and don't hold them to heart. If there is a problem, solve the problem, so that your love will be longer. Good luck.

Not necessarily, the contact shows that they didn't love each other very much before, and if they really love, they won't be in contact, because the hurt is very deep, but you have to remind him of the seriousness of the problem and don't give him a chance to be presumptuous.

Not necessarily, this can only show that he is a person who values love and righteousness.

Not really

Explain that they are just friends now

If he dodges, it means that he has a ghost in his heart

If it is introduced openly, it means that he just wants others to know that he is very happy with you now

It's man-made, believe in yourself.

Maybe she is not ready, if the conditions allow, give her a little time to think about it, and then you need to communicate with her, have time to have a meal together, talk more. Give a little more care, such as rainy days, remind the code name rain gear, cold air is coming, say a **, it's cold outside, pay attention to keep warm and something like that.

You yourself said she wanted something better. If you want to be with her. You have to let yourself into the group of people who are in good condition first.

Or you just give up. There are always some regrets in life. It's good to keep it in your heart.

Maybe you will find that it is actually different from what you imagined? Find the right person to live a lifetime of happiness

Maybe the girl is a more enterprising person, I think she may think that the relationship is based on the economy, and the economy is not supported, so what kind of heart does she have to fall in love? You can try to help her find a job together, maybe you have cultivated a relationship in this, if you really like her, work hard to make yourself better, create better conditions, is a kind of responsible feelings.

Some people and things have to be experienced with their hearts.

Since you think that the girl before said "I don't want to be in a relationship, I want to find a job" is just an excuse, forget about her. Accept this in front of you. Isn't there a saying that it is better to work hard with one you like than with one who likes you!

When she said this, it means that she really doesn't want to talk about it, girl, and the reason for refusal is always very tactful. I suggest that instead of finding someone who doesn't love you, it's better to find a girl you love who will run a house.

You can try to give up on her and face other girls more, or do more meaningful work, and forget about her with work!

The twisted melon is not sweet, the relationship is a matter of both parties, and it is best not to force it. Let the past come and the future come, man

Chase hard, but if you can't catch up, you'll die.

No matter how beautiful it is, it can't stand forgetting, and no matter how sad it is, it can't withstand time. Forget her.

Oops, try to chase it, you can watch Hong Kong and Taiwan movies, it's very powerful to chase girls in it.

Love is not reluctant, chase it back, be brave.

Cherish the girl who likes you in front of you.

As long as you love her all the time, one day she will be touched.

Love her; Just be bold and chase it!

Life marriage is not love

See what you want.

You probably know you. I was touched by your sincerity.

You didn't lose him, think about it, if a girl hates you, how can she go to your dorm room and talk to your roommates??

I think.. Maybe you're thinking too much. Maybe because I care, I will care too much about communicating with you, and I will be relaxed with others, and the boy who has confessed to the girl, the girl will have more attention and a good feeling, even if it is a friend.

It's impossible for a girl to talk a lot about her heart like her crush, so she really just treats you as a good friend. Don't think about it so much, she doesn't call you. I really don't want to lose her, so I can only be an ordinary friend.

You can go to her and tell her that you like her, but be willing to be her listener3 and you'll always be her good friend.

Let's look down, I can only say that she is not your thing, and for this annoyance, you may miss other girls who like you.

You're scaring her. Because only if you're friends.