A relationship that has been bothering me for a long time really needs everyone s help to help me

Face-covering star, as a senior who has come over, I will slowly ask your questions.

One. You don't think so, you entered college, love is also a part of college, college is incomplete without love, whether you are a good college or a bad university, I think love is indispensable, if you are sick, as long as it is not an infectious disease, it will not harm your beloved her, you can fall in love... As for the time, she can go to the hospital to see you...

The question is whether she would like to talk to you?

Second, whether she has you in her heart or not, we outsiders will definitely not be able to see it, you give too few clues, you can only look at it yourself from the trivial things of life.

Three, this thing, others can't see it, but there are many uncertain factors in college love, and more than 90% of couples have broken up in their senior year, and they want this process, isn't it?

Fourth, it's up to you to decide to do this, others can't control your thoughts, if you follow my style, if she wants to, I like her too, I will talk to her.

Over, I wish you a happy love.

First of all, I'm the same age as you, but I've never been in a relationship, haha. It's normal to fall in love in college, don't think about whether it's suitable or not, do you love her by accompanying her every day? Whether she loves you or not will have to be confirmed over time, and we don't know if you ask us.

There are also girls who understand things and are not too picky about their boyfriend's looks. Girls who blindly pursue handsome guys can only say that they haven't grown up yet. Haha, I can only help you with this, in fact, sometimes you don't think about these problems as a party to these problems, it's very simple.

Think of yourself as an outsider and think about relationships.

Eldest brother! First, don't feel inferior, what is worthy of it or not, it doesn't matter what you look like! The second university should talk about friends, don't think so much! You're sick, I think she's going to be with you! If you like her, tell her, don't hold it in your heart!

Depressed, what's not suitable, what is not worthy of the mile.

If you are reluctant only for the sake of his family, then you will not be happy after all. If you didn't forgive at the beginning, how can you be together now, since you are together, don't talk about the past.

To love him is to love everything about him, including his shortcomings, this is the power of love, I wish you happiness.

Alas, there are many good men in the world, and the ratio of men to women is about 100, so let it go, and it's not that you can't get married.

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In this case, I think you would choose to leave.

First of all, you're disgusted with what he used to do, so if you want to ml, you're going to have a lot of shadows too, and you can't put it into it, and you can't find the feeling! As a result, you will be frigid. This will exacerbate his distance from you

Secondly, his family conditions are good, and he will not be better in the future, just like the current rich second generation. If you have money, you can play around, are you mentally prepared for this?

Finally, what I want to say is that girls should not look at money for everything, and for girls they still have to find their own happiness.

Are you going to live in the past for the rest of your life?

You didn't know him before, so everything before him has passed, and you have to think about looking forward, not living in the shadow of the past, as long as he loves you, it's enough, don't you fall in love with someone, don't you tolerate him and get it all. If you can't tolerate it, then you can give up on him who has good conditions, and I don't know what kind of person I will meet later.

The past has passed, the most important thing is to live a good future, to look forward can not look backward, two people are happy together is the most important thing, either you have a good talk with him, or try not to think about it yourself, look at the point, this should be quite normal.

His past has nothing to do with you, grasp the present and the future!!

What he did before made you resentful? What is it that makes you so entangled? If it's a previous love history, I advise you not to be so troubled, everyone has a past.

If it is a question of character, then there is no past or future. Give up, give up. Family conditions?

Hehe, think about what you're marrying.

Personally, I think happiness is the most important thing.

Think about it backwards, will you be single for the rest of your life after you separate? Will you have the courage to love another stranger? You know the answer, you just don't have a reason to convince yourself.

Before marriage, they were all free, and what the other party did was also their own freedom, should you start from his baby age?

And what you said is that you have a problem, then find the reason from yourself, and summarize: you are a selfish, narcissistic, vain, money-greedy person.

Why do people use "happiness" to interpret love, and what is happiness exactly? It is the happiness of two people who love each other together, tolerance, thoughtfulness, understanding, sharing the wind and rain and warm sunshine.

Judging from your description, the two of you are just used to the person around you, and if you are separated, you will be more unwilling, and you feel that at this stage you have a deviation in your understanding of feelings and marriage.

I hope you can find a time to be alone quietly and think about the next path of your relationship; Think about what kind of partner you want and what kind of life you want. In the same way, I hope that your lover will consider these questions. Then the two of you can sit down calmly and talk about what you know about your relationship and your current situation.

For two people to be together for a long time, they need to have a common goal in life. If you think through these questions, then manage your love and your life well.

Don't be afraid of bad results, we should all look at our lives honestly and correctly. No matter what the outcome is, we should be grateful for the person around us who accompanies us through every day. In the meantime, I still bless you! Hope all is well!

I also have such a couple around me, hey, we've been talking for a long time, and that's how life has passed, let's get married.

First of all, we must know that feelings are not pity and sympathy. That is, if we love her, we should accept everything from him, then first of all, he is sincere, and he makes us feel that we will be very happy with him in the future, without pressure.

One. Just starting out, why hide it from you? It is clear that she knows that if she tells you about her situation, you will definitely not accept one with children. If the reality is so cruel, why should we lie to ourselves?

Two. There are many good men in the world, if a boy really likes you, he will go to the trouble for you, how good this boy is to you, he can do the same.

Three. His deception is that he is afraid that you will not accept him, so that the two of you will have a relationship, and then he will tell you that you have to accept it. First of all, real life is brutal.

Not only can we not enter the house, but we will be stepmothers to others. We don't have plans for this yet. Who doesn't want to live a two-person world when they get married?

But as soon as we entered the house, we had to be mothers to other people. In the future, can we really bear the pressure of the bend? In the future we will have a child of our own.

The burden of life will be heavier. A failed marriage. Neither of them can get out of it all.

We can't guarantee this boy either. He is not responsible. It takes two to tango.

So if it's me. I would opt out. No matter how good the relationship between two people is.

After all, we're a big girl. We are the first to get married, why should we find someone with children? Even if he is married for a short time and has no children, we can accept it.

Affection is not pity, and sympathy. Nor can they give alms. Be passionate about others.

It is cruelty to oneself. In the future, it will be even more difficult for us. You're going to regret it too.

Same as I thought, so be it!