Am I falling into a new trap after leaving a painful relationship?

In fact, I have a similar experience with you, when the first person I really loved left me, a very mature man appeared by my side, taking care of me, being happy with me, and comforting me! After a long time, I realized that his kindness to me had become a kind of dependence! At that time, my delusion told myself that I was in love with him.

But after a period of time after the two were together, they found out that they didn't belong to his world, and they couldn't enter his life at all! Maybe it's because you left your boyfriend and put all your dependence on him, maybe it's an illusion about how you feel about him! One day, you will realize that the original idea was very childish!

Take advantage of the relationship with this elder, if you stumble, you may even have this good feeling now! Of course, for him who he was. There is no need to redeem it anymore.

Because you'll never ever go back to the good feeling you used to have! Just like someone once said to me, in fact, memories are beautiful! True love is like a crystal, it is easy to break, but once it is really broken, no matter how hard you fight, it will never be as beautiful as it once was!

So don't choose to forget your former boyfriend! Remember all the happiness he brought you!

Now I feel that happiness has passed like this, if there is a dilemma and go home, a little you are not too sensitive to the past, go back and start anew, forget everything.

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You can completely avoid it

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Change your hairstyle, change your outfit, change your environment, change your mood.

There is no need to stress what you have to forget, slowly, you will forget ...

I hope you go all the way... Don't go wrong! ~！

5555555 I also chose to leave her, feeling that I couldn't give her happiness, but I didn't know until I left, she didn't want the kind of happiness I thought I thought I didn't want at all Explain whether I don't love her enough and don't know her well But the feeling of pain for her is not fake Hey, in the world of love, it seems that whoever loves deeply will die miserably Sometimes I know that the result is painful, but I am willing to bear the pain

Hey, life is unpredictable!Memories are painful! It's better to change the environment and calm yourself down. It's true!

You haven't grown up yet.

You need to design your emotions well.

Don't be ambiguous.

Find a way. Do it all over again.

Do you think you really know this so-called elder? You have to keep a clear head, there are many paths, don't just make decisions so easily.

Identify a goal Don't always rely on others.

Is he single Have you really forgotten the one you used to be If so, don't care so much Let yourself love well.

Don't choose. Ordinary people are looking for someone who is similar to your age, you feel that you have feelings now, and in the future, maybe you will regret it, start over!

Why are you so stupid, can't a woman live a good life by herself?

I just have one word: cherish yourself.

Let's change the environment, it's not an easy way to go.

A relationship is a habit in the end, habits can be before, now and later, one habit can only be replaced by another habit, so it is better to accept another habit, but there is the traction of fate in the middle, who will have it tomorrow? It's best to follow the fate;

It's hard to forget someone, but it's not that hard, at least you can't forget it if you ask like this. Listen to the song Write Write Song and see**. Life is full, and when you are busy, you don't have time to think about it.

Painful feelings are all the same in love. If you are reluctant to give up, why give up.

It shows that you are still very young and don't know the so-called mountain alliance and sea oath, the sea is dry and rotten, in fact, it is all deceitful nonsense. People are very powerful at this time, don't believe it, we'll see. After a few years, you will suddenly realize how stupid you used to be.

It's a lot of fun to play. I'm sure you had a good time at that time. Someone must have been in pain to leave.

Both were in pain. Three people in pain. There are too many, and there are a lot of these different levels of stories of classmates and friends around you, the first stage of life is the most likely to be hurt, that is, you must go through this stage, you know why.

It doesn't matter which of you decides to stay. You have to have time, time to adapt. It's been a sad process.

It is also necessary to go through. If you figure it out, hurry up. It's sad to be smaller.

Got it, friend.

Love is like that...Love is like a trap.

Once you fall in, it is difficult to extricate yourself.

If you love someone, you can love well.

They are all wrong, I tell you, and experience tells you:

Time will erase everything, including the pain you once had.

So if you have a little conscience, please let go of that pain and move on to new feelings.

Don't pass on the pain that others have given you to the next person invisibly.

I've seen it too much. So slowly take the time to let yourself in that period of time, and then bravely smile to face the life and people after that.

Let's not think of it as a substitute, but it seems that this method works best!

No, don't let go of the previous relationship, don't move on to the next relationship...In this way you will always compare the present with the past.

No matter what you do, the most important thing is that you have to forget that relationship, if you can't forget, it is useless to have a new relationship.

Not necessarily. It just doesn't hurt you that much.

Not necessarily, but it works well, and it's an attention transfer method.

Have you ever heard a sentence that you can forget your last formal relationship, you can use time to forget, and then find your new love, if you can't forget it, it can only mean that the time is not long enough, and the new love is not good enough. Of course, it's good to start a new relationship, but you can't mess around, at least it's trustworthy and a little bit exciting.

If this is the case, why don't we say goodbye to the past, forget about sorrow, pat the dust off our bodies, and move forward with optimism with a good attitude...Bless you.

If it's pain, why linger in it? It's understandable to be nostalgic for the past, but if you can't save the past, then save yourself now! These dead will remain in my heart, and when I am old, I don't have a lot of memories to let me taste life!

It depends on whether you are strong enough or not, whoever leaves cannot die, and the mentality determines everything.

Start a new relationship :)

It's just a matter of time.

Suffice it to say that although I have loved once, when I am about to leave, this feeling is difficult to express in words. Of course, I don't know why I left, or if I was separated. I just want to say that life still has to be lived, what we need to face is our real life, if we let go, we can make him (her) very happy, why don't we let go of him?

As long as he is doing well, why should we not be happy? We need to be optimistic about our lives and live a little more energetic. I don't know much about your question, so I can only answer you with optimism.

Life should be faced with optimism, and I believe you can do it.

If you want to give up, you should be decisive and don't think about it repeatedly.

What should be put down must be put down after all.

Landlord: You didn't say what you wanted to know.

Let's go to a second- and third-tier tourist city. The environment is clean, the competition for work is not very fierce, and consumption can be self-regulated.

You may be hurt and trapped by love, but you must understand: "To be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others!" "Whether it's a relationship or a career, as long as you have no conscience.

Shame, we've worked hard enough of that! Emotionally, there is no one who is sorry for whom, only who does not cherish whom! ~~

Sometimes it's not the heavens that are playing tricks on us, it's us playing tricks on ourselves! Remember not to waste your time with those who are unwilling to spend it on you. Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you is doomed to hurt

Yes, I know that we can't let go, we can't let go of the people we love the most, the people who hurt us the most, and if we can let go easily, it's not love. But we have to try to "let go". What can wash everything away except tears is time, and time is used to change feelings, and the longer the time, the lighter the conflict, like a constantly diluted tea.

Let time take us out of pain! Happiness must be accompanied by sadness, and there should be sunny weather after the rain. If it rains after rain, if sorrow comes after sorrow, let us face this parting calmly.

Smile and look for an impossible you! Linghu Chong said"There are some things that we can't control, so we have to control ourselves.

My dear friend: Life is short for decades, don't leave yourself with any regrets, laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, love when you should love, and don't suppress yourself needlessly. hits, constantly someone leaves or enters.

So, what is seen, what is not seen; What is remembered, forgotten. In life, there are constantly gains and losses. And he that which was not seen, saw it; Forgotten, remembered.

However, what is not seen is the same as not existing? Remember, is it never going to go away? Please take these words into consideration

Since you can't forget it, let those past events remain silently in the bottom of your heart, maybe sad, maybe sour, but everything is over! ~~

Love doesn't deceive people, and it can't deceive itself. A relationship, instead of burying it deeply, is better to take it out and clean it up, throw it away or keep it, give it an explanation, and give yourself an explanation. Think about whether it's worth it, you can go to the guard if it's worthy, and don't be demanding if it's not worth it!

I forgot it, put it and then, and hit the road clearly. Look forward to your own. Happiness

.I wish you eternal happiness and happiness every day.

It's normal to be hurt on the emotional road, but sadness can't be the vast majority of the emotional journey. Being sad is not all bad, being sad can make you more aware of your past self, and a painful relationship can make you grow. The best way to let the sadness flow away is not to forget, but to talk to each other.

You can pretend to talk to him unintentionally and say what is in your mind. In the same school, there are many opportunities to meet, and if you want to solve the embarrassment of meeting, you must make it clear to each other that you can't be lovers, which doesn't mean you can't be friends. Although the relationship is not the same as before, when we meet, it is better to smile warmly with each other than to turn a blind eye to each other, right?

Learn to let go and open your heart.

I think you will be cheated again and again, the underlying reason is because you like him a little more, and you are reluctant to give up the relationship. The reason why he cheats on you so often is because you are so good at cheating. You have nothing to love about this kind of man, you don't need to forgive, it doesn't mean silence, live your own life, don't have contact anymore, just live better than her.

Whether you choose to remain silent or forgive him, you will be hurt, and according to your description, it is estimated that your relationship should be coming to an end. I think it's better for you not to go to him, you should wait for him to come to you, if you want to continue with him, you can continue, if you don't want to continue with him, you can just reject him. And the best way to forget about a relationship is to start a new one.

Divert attention. The more you want to forget, the more you will remember, a relationship will always leave memories, and at this time we should avoid the environment related to this memory, live in a quiet and comfortable environment for a period of time, gradually, use time to forget!

Divert your energy to study and work, time will dilute everything, don't have hatred, bless him, and you will have good luck.

A man like this is not worth remembering, you have to know that no matter what time or age, you will meet a man who loves you and loves you. Go out for a walk by yourself and have time to get together with friends. It's just a matter of time.

You don't have him, and your life still has to go on. Talk to your friends.

In fact, sometimes think about it, why do people fall in love, and what is the purpose? Isn't it just for your own pleasure? If you say that you love someone and make you so miserable, why do you need to talk about it, life is not long, you should find ways to make yourself happy, instead of struggling with this kind of problem, although it may be difficult to forget, it is better to take him as a memory, find happiness again, remember, happiness is the most important thing!

People have to look forward, don't dwell on what happened before, it will make you very miserable. Because what has happened is irreversible, why not welcome a better tomorrow. Many times fate is predestined.

Leave him. Feelings are actually a very subjective thing, not affected by objective factors, and it has nothing to do with whether he loves you or not, it just depends on whether you decide to love him.

Pro, if it is irretrievable, cut it short decisively. Long pain is better than short pain! It's more cost-effective to have a moment of pain than a lifetime of pain! Be strong! Let time heal you!