College students who come out of the countryside, because most of them are poor?

If we continue on the road of capital, and no matter how we improve, the final outcome can only be that 80 percent of the people work hard for 20 percent of the people, or there is no chance of even working hard to survive, ordinary laborers have to rack their brains and exhaust themselves every day for food, clothing, shelter and transportation, and the so-called dignity, status, equality, fairness, freedom, thought, and all these beautiful pursuits have become unattainable dreams.

There is no connection in society.

Not necessarily....My cousin is a third born from the mountains...After only a few years of work, I bought a house and a car in Guangzhou....The villa is being repaired at home!

Many college students from rural areas are very hard-working, can eat, see problems very realistically, and have more successes.

The difference between the package distribution was not very big before, and after the distribution was not included, it was the parents, connections, family background, and vision pattern, and the gap was obvious!

If you don't learn well, you can't follow the trend and choose your major, you won't be flexible, you can't use it in the city, and you can still hold on, agriculture can be a treasure.

It doesn't matter, it's an Achilles' heel.

Because rural children are pampered from an early age, they are generally brought up by their grandparents, who are very doting on them, they live in large villas since childhood, eat pollution-free vegetables, breathe fresh air, and grandparents do not care about blood, so they live a superior and leisurely life. And urban children live in pigeon cages since childhood, eat hormone vegetables, breathe haze air, and go to the peiyou class on weekends. Therefore, when rural children go to the harsh environment of the city, it is natural that they cannot compete with urban children.

Because of the problem of vision, because many things in rural areas have not been experienced, and most parents in rural areas let their children learn all the time.

I let my child go to school, just to make him older and find a job that he doesn't have to work hard for, and I don't want us, uneducated rural people, to come out and work and do jobs that no one else does.

I was a rural kid, and I felt that when we didn't get mixed well, we didn't have a background, we didn't have our parents to help us work, and we were all on our own, so it was too difficult.

Because the funds can be mobilized in hand, a person who can mobilize more funds also invests in a project, and those with more funds will be rich and confident, and those with less funds will have a lot more worries, and they will be tied up in what they do, but they all have the opportunity to see how they do, and they must be more handy if they have more funds.

I'm a college student in a rural area, and I went to a pretty good university, but now in Hangzhou, I'm in general. As far as my own experience is concerned, I think it is because most of the elderly in urban areas have pensions and medical insurance, while those in rural areas can only rely on their children. The children in the countryside are working, and they are trying to be stable, because I don't dare to lose my job at all, and my monthly salary means too many things.

I think it's because college students from rural areas have a bad family background. I think it's because they can't let go of themselves, or they don't learn well enough.

To say that most of the college students from the countryside are poorly mixed, I don't agree with it. The innate birth conditions and geographical location also determine their future development. Even if a Shanghai native has just graduated with a salary of 2,000, he will live a more dignified and nourishing life than a foreigner with 10,000.

Locals don't need to worry about housing, while outsiders who want to settle down and buy a house have to exhaust three generations and possibly more to gain a foothold. It's not that those who come out of the countryside can't mix well, but the gap between the starting point and the platform is too big, and with all the efforts of your life, you may be able to barely reach what others have at birth.

I think it's because some of them have their own living environment that limits their own understanding, and they don't have knowledge in many aspects and dare not go out.

I am a college student from a rural area, a non-key university, a non-popular major. I worked for several years without any achievements. Before this question, I would like to say:

Good and bad are only relative, and there is no clear standard. The living conditions in the rural areas are poor, and the material conditions we have received since childhood are relatively weak. Like me, I didn't learn to play ** until the third year of junior high school, and I clearly remember that every time I hit **, I stammered nervously when I went home. ‍‍

Why do most college students from rural areas do not mix well?

Those who know the countryside, how to say that, holding a small collective, utilitarianism, obviously they didn't understand it, and they still feel that others owe them, and they should help them free of charge. Ah, it's really underwhelming. Of course, in order to avoid being sprayed, I made it clear that I was from the countryside, but no one asked, so I didn't say it.

Coming out of the countryside, the sense of grouping is too strong, small collectivism, but this society has slowly changed to a stranger society, and the strength of the individual is the king, and no one will spend money on you because there are many of you.

There are several reasons for this.

1.Rural teaching resources are poor, the current gap between rural and urban teaching resources is too big, many teachers in big cities are masters of Tsinghua University and Peking University, and rural primary and secondary schools are still some high school graduates, junior college graduates of teachers, this is just the tip of the resource iceberg, cities are used to understand the world, rural students rely on teachers to depict the world with fans, so to the high school entrance examination, college entrance examination and other key teachers, rural areas can rarely be admitted to a good university, can be admitted to most of the IQ outstanding, Some average IQ students struggle to bridge the resource gap.

2.Rural students have low vision, many urban college students have been exposed to computers and smart phones very early, many rural college students may go to the construction site to move bricks for two months to have the economic conditions to buy a smart phone, when other urban students start to do ** stores, shoot Douyin to increase fans, and make money as Douyin betta anchors, rural college students are still groping how to shop online, and their vision can't keep up with the college students who come out of the city, and the children in the city are doing self-**, and they don't even know what the definition of self-** is. This is the reason why I have been living in the countryside and have not been able to keep up with the development of the times, and my vision is low.

3.Rural college students have no connections, because there are no acquaintances worth winning over in the countryside, and urban children are different, they are sent to aristocratic primary schools by their parents since they were young, and then they also rely on their parents' connections to go to the highest local high school, enter the university, and also give children a lot of money, so that children can handle the relationship with teachers and classmates. Rural college students even have a problem with food and clothing, how can they have money to invite their classmates to dinner, how can they have gifts to give to teachers on Teacher's Day, and some are just a few simple T-shirts and girlfriends who dare not talk.

With the development of China's economy, this phenomenon is becoming more and more obvious, and the vast majority of families admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University are urban hukou, and the poor families who can be admitted are all regarded as rare animals and are reported by **, which shows how difficult it is for rural college students to change their fate.

1. The probability of entering a high-income industry is low, and the future of the industry is not very good. Even if the impact of relationships on work is excluded, job hunting faces budget constraints and insufficient information. The children in the local city have not yet graduated, and the parents have already found suitable jobs for their children through various relationships; Rural children, on the other hand, must find a job within a certain period of time after graduation, otherwise they will face problems with food and rent.

For students in a dormitory, the work in the first semester of the senior year is often arranged at home in the city, while the children in the countryside are participating in various job fairs, this phenomenon is very common. At the same time, the jobs at the job fair are generally two-way selected, while good jobs are generally one-way selected by employers, that is, rural children have fewer positions and hours to choose than urban children. Therefore, according to Lu Ming's research, a student's local city household registration will greatly increase the probability of entering a high-income industry.

In fact, there is also the impact of family household registration on college entrance examination results and the proportion of entrepreneurship, and these will also affect income, so I will not introduce much.

2. Lack of social skills, while relative social skills, knowledge and hardship return rate are reduced. According to a study of the U.S. industry's income gap, the income of high-social talents has increased by more than 20 percent over 30 years compared to low-socially capable talents, and China estimates the same. School curriculum learning is typically deliberate practice, and each student is targeted to improve their skills according to their weaknesses.

However, social skills are difficult to practice deliberately, because most people do not know or rarely think about whether they are acting correctly when dealing with others, let alone deliberately training through training social weaknesses. However, the social skills of urban parents are generally higher than those of rural parents, so through subtle family education, urban children have higher social skills. In fact, if you pay attention to observation, you will find that rural children are better mixed, and their parents are often village cadres or commissaries, and there are often fewer farmers (there are relevant studies).

To put it simply, rural students can improve themselves by working hard in terms of knowledge learning, but they are at a loss for social skills.

The reasons why most college students from rural areas are not as good as urban college students are summarized as follows:

1.The pattern is too small. A person's homeschooling and personal experiences can have a very significant impact on their own landscape.

In terms of the overall situation, the pattern of rural college students is relatively small. Why? Because most rural families will not be very wealthy, due to the limitations of the economic level, their eyes are more focused on short-term visible benefits, which is called stability.

I have met many college students from rural areas. After graduating, they found a pretty good job with a monthly salary of 6,000 yuan. Most of their ideas are to try to save money, but they don't know that it is impossible to turn 6,000 yuan into 8,000 yuan or even 10,000 yuan just by saving money.

Saving money is a good thing, but why put "open source" in front of "throttling" when "open source and reducing expenditure"? Because increasing your income is more important than saving!

2.Eager to honor their parents as soon as possible. After graduating from college, most college students from rural areas have the mentality of wanting to work faster, reduce the pressure on their parents, and honor their parents.

This mentality is especially pronounced in boys. This mindset will affect their development to a great extent. Even some college students from rural areas have given up on applying for graduate school in order to work as soon as possible and reduce the financial pressure on their families.

However, they don't realize that the cost of three years of study can be exchanged for a lifetime of improvement. In the three years after graduating from college, most college students don't earn too much, but they have enough money left to live on their own in order to buy something for their parents or send some money back. Invisibly, they cut the social cost in half.

3.Insufficient resources. The most obvious difference between rural and urban households is resources.

The resources here are not just money, but also personal relationships, social class, and so on. When you encounter great opportunities in your life, your resources influence your choices, and your resources are often influenced by your family of origin before you start a family. Encounters often come with risks, and the greater the opportunity, the greater the risk.

College students born in rural areas often choose to seek stability because they can't afford to fail. However, college-born college students often have more and better resources and more opportunities to try. When the opportunity comes, they can try to seize it.

The pattern is insufficient.

A person's family education and personal experience will have a very significant impact on their own pattern. As far as the overall situation is concerned, the pattern of college students coming out of rural areas is on the small side.

Why? Because most of the families in the countryside are not very wealthy, due to the limitations of the economic levelTheir focus is more on short-term visible benefits, which are called stability.

I have seen many college students from rural areas, who have found a fairly good job after graduation, receiving a salary of 6,000 yuan per monthMost of their thoughts are to try their best to save money, but they don't know that they can't turn 6,000 into 8,000 or even 10,000 just by saving money.

Saving is a good thing, but why should the word "open source" be put in front of "open source and reduce expenditure"? BecauseIncreasing income is more important than saving!

The mentality of saving money often represents the lack of adventurous spirit and investment spirit, and represents the lack of pattern.

Eager to honor his parents.

After graduating from college, most college students from rural areas will have a mentality of wanting to work quickly, reduce the pressure on their parents, and honor their parents. This mentality is especially pronounced in boys.

This mentality will greatly affect their development, and even some college students from rural areas have given up many opportunities for further study in order to work as soon as possible to reduce the financial pressure on their familiesAs everyone knows, the cost of a further study can be exchanged for a lifetime of improvement.

And in the first three years of undergraduate graduation, most college students' salaries are not too high, but in order to buy something for their parents to go back, or send some money back, they have enough money left over to live on their own.

Invisibly, they cut their social costs by half, and naturally their connections are not as good as others, and they also planted the seeds for being inferior to others.

Insufficient resources. The most obvious difference between rural families and high-achieving families is resources, which are not only money, but also connections, social class, and so on.

When you encounter a major opportunity in your life, your resources influence your choices, and your resources are often influenced by your family of origin before you start a family.

Encounters often come with risks, and the greater the opportunities, the greater the risks.

A college student born in a rural area often chooses to seek stability, because he cannot fail, and if he fails, he has nothing;

It is difficult for a family to make a qualitative leap through you alone, and most of the families in those cities have achieved today's conditions through the efforts of several generations.

Although life is very difficult, I always believe that hard work will eventually pay off, and as a rural person, we can still change our destiny.

No matter what kind of life you choose, you must know that only you can be responsible for the life you choose. When people ask me why I work in the IT industry, I sometimes say that I love the industry, because I have dreams, etc., and that's right. But the original reason was that there was a lot of money, there was an opportunity, and my experience proved it.