Why do most of the students from the countryside get mixed poorly?

The mentality of being eager to fulfill filial piety and its own limited pattern also limit the development of rural college students. After graduating, college students from rural areas generally have a filial piety mentality for their hard-working parents, buying things for their parents and giving money, and saving the rest of the money to spend. As a result, college students with low incomes will inevitably reduce their social capital, and over time, the circle is not large and their development is limited.

Children from rural areas also have a strong self-esteem, which can also seriously affect your ability to take a roundabout role at work.

Support for rural college students is extremely scarce. When studying, the gap is not obvious, it is enough to eat and dress warmly, but when entering the society, the gap suddenly appears. Rural children want to rent a house, go to the talent market to find a job, talk about a girlfriend are a little stretched, a person who has no backup, has to fight on multiple fronts, and is born at the bottom, his energy will inevitably be scattered, and he will not be able to make powerful judgments and changes in his life.

When children in the city do internships, their parents may have solved their work problems, prepared their wedding houses, and bought cars with better conditions. It is said that difficulties can train people, but how many people are willing to be exercised like this?

In terms of outlook on life, many of them may be like me, not very sound. The reason why most people work hard is to get out of the current situation of poverty, change class, and have the ability to honor their loved ones. This kind of willpower is actually very difficult to maintain, usually stemming from the desire to change the painful situation, people who work too hard can't run far, this willpower is usually quickly used up, and then a lot of negative emotions are generated, and then it is difficult to calm the mind.

Many rural children have never seen the beautiful rivers and mountains in a foreign land, never taken a plane, and so on before working. When they enter the society, they find that there are many people in this world who are not as good as him in terms of performance, intelligence or effort, but because of their family background, connections, knowledge or other reasons, they are easily above him in their careers, and they have a huge impact in their hearts, and I believe that everyone will experience this impact.

Generally speaking, because of the narrow field of vision, the pattern of rural college students is relatively low, there is no big pattern, and with limited resources, it is difficult to achieve great things. A little better is what everyone commonly calls the phoenix man, this kind of person has his good side, but some people especially don't like the phoenix man, the pattern is low, sensitive, stingy, and has the ...... of "saving the family".Exceptions, of course, particularly excellent).

When rich people have money, they invest in themselves first, so that they become more and more valuable, and the snowball effect is to make more money. Many children in rural areas are mostly filial and their families are not very good, so they give most of their money to their families as soon as they start to make money. Actually, I think this is where the cart before the horse.

It will definitely be hard to start from a low starting point, just like climbing a skyscraper, others are already on the 100th floor, and you start from the basement; Others have elevators to sit on, and you have to climb on your legs....You may never reach the starting point of others in your lifetime! But why compare yourself with those who are not in the same class at all? You know, you're in the basement, and if you give up and don't climb in the first place, you'll never see the light.

Climb up to the ground is a floor, even if you climb to the ground, the scenery will be different, and your children will not have to live in the basement in the future!

Although they work hard, they don't have a high vision, so the height they can reach is only like that, and the children in the city, they have a high vision from the beginning, and they can reach higher heights as long as they work hard enough.

No matter how good the school is for poor living conditions, the gap between the rich and the poor was not very big before, but now it is too big, four people in a dormitory, three living conditions are good, children don't have to worry about life, a living condition is not good, I think children will have an inferiority complex, should be divided into dormitories for children, the conditions are almost the same!

Their outlook on life is susceptible to shock, and if this impact is not digested well, it may lead to low self-esteem or conceit, attributing the success of others to the birth of others, refusing to see their strengths and learn from them, and refusing to face up to their own disadvantages, let alone change.

Children born in rural areas who have just come to the big city to work hard, these people usually have excellent academic performance, high self-esteem, and are respected and even respected in their hometowns.

Rural children keep working hard with the phrase "knowledge changes destiny" in their heads, thinking that they can achieve their life goals after being admitted to university. But they don't know that being admitted to university is never the end, but only the beginning. The four years of college have been a watershed moment.

Look who you compare! Migrant workers in rural areas who have not gone to college may most likely have a better life. Compared with the peers who are not promising in the city, it is basically not bad, and compared with the excellent children in the city, it is definitely not comparable!

You work hard for 30 years to drink coffee with others, and when they are one year old, they are taken out by their parents to experience various scenes, the economic strength of their parents, their connections, plus their own efforts, a family is alone compared to you, it is strange that you can mix better than others, not to mention that there are a large number of college students from the countryside who are dragging their feet, which is equivalent to you taking off with a load, and others flying on a rocket, can it be the same?

Because the family conditions are not good, rich families can help their children pave the way, but rural children can only rely on themselves, in fact, not only rural children, small towns, small counties and even children from 345-tier cities have the same confusion, family resources can not fight others.

Are all college students from rural areas poorly mixed? also used the word 'all', it's too general! Let me tell you, college students from the countryside are not bad at all!

There are a lot of universities in a village of more than 400 households here, there are more than a dozen post-80s section-level and department-level cadres, there are several post-70s and post-60s department-level cadres, and there are many who teach in middle schools and universities, as well as those who work in banks, electric power and other units.

I think it's mainly nepotism. I know that rural children are very good in Beijing, and when they have money, they must first repair their hometowns, pay tuition fees to their younger brothers and sisters, pay their parents medical expenses, and nephews and nieces come to Beijing to go to school, and work must also be arranged.

The starting point is different, with the same salary, a family in the city has a house, and most parents have a pension, and they can spend all their monthly salary. And those who work in the countryside in the city have to pay rent, water and electricity bills, and pay their parents some money every month, and they don't dare to spend it indiscriminately, can it be the same?

Poverty really limits the imagination. When your classmates are preparing to go abroad, you just know that going abroad is not an impossible option. When your classmates go to fry **, you have just broken the prejudice against **.

When the laziest of your classmates start to go to internships, you still think that if you do well in your major courses, you will naturally get a job. Later, when your classmates have an annual salary of one million and are still thinking about changing jobs and raising salaries, you still think that entering a graduate school is the peak of your life.

Or because of knowledge. They are very experienced than reading, but their knowledge is too narrow and their stamina is insufficient.

I myself come from the countryside, and sometimes the innate gap is really not a little bit, and I think that knowledge and experience are really important, so let's work hard.

We don't need to mix well with each of them, we only need one Liu Qiangdong to blind your dog eyes!If you're also a college student from the countryside, I'll count you as self-deprecating; If you're not, you're showing superiority. I get angry when I see such a question and answer, we are not having a good time, I don't need you to remind me!!

Now relying on knowledge alone to change fate is unreliable, rural children have a thin foundation, dare not be extravagant and wasteful, mixed in the interpersonal circle, naturally there are a lot fewer opportunities, relying on hard work and diligence is not the main force, social circles, opportunities, wisdom, IQ and emotional intelligence can be mixed.

I don't know why I asked such a question, I am a junior college student from the countryside, and I bought a house and a car in Hangzhou by my own efforts three years after graduation. People have to look forward, I think the gap is not the background, but the degree of effort, as long as you can endure hardships, life will always get better and better.

I don't want to go to work in a first-tier city every day. Tired, really tired. What did you get in the end...

Happiness ... Neither. I made up my mind to go home for the New Year.

With the development of my hometown getting better and better, the policy treatment is good, and the support is strong, I will work and develop in my hometown. Be there for your family. Low wages.

Also happy. It depends on the individual's rounding.

Rural college students are compared with young people in rural areas who have not gone to university, not urban college students.

This society is polarizing, the students from the countryside are really losing at the starting line, and the Rome you have worked so hard to reach is only their birthplace, and it is really not a little worse.

They have no background, no resources, no money from their parents, and they are all self-made. It is difficult to establish yourself in the city on your own.

Because there are no connections, no start-up capital, no courage and capital to give it a go,

Who wouldn't want to be born in a wealthy family, the topic itself is discriminatory, is it fair to discuss a group in this way?

Rural children have no connections, and there is no backing for some things.

It can only be slaughtered by others and treated as a typical example, so it is difficult to mix well!

What does going to college bring to rural children? What else is there besides the identity of a college student, or the identity of not very valuable? In fact, rural children who have gone to university are caught in a dilemma.

Nominally, they have jumped out of the farm gate and don't have to be a farmer anymore, but in fact it is difficult for them to completely jump out of the farm gate, the countryside is still their bond, and at the same time, it is difficult for them to integrate into the city, because the housing prices in the city will make them feel at a loss, like an outsider.

Rural children who have studied in college, it is difficult to go back to the countryside in this life, and they will be ridiculed and ridiculed when they go back, and they will be ridiculed for reading in vain, but it is also difficult for the city to integrate into it, and it is not so easy to gain a foothold in the city and take root.

For many children from rural families, studying in college and having the status of a college student not only broadens their horizons, but also restricts them even more and brings them a lot of pressure. The more you know, the more you broaden your horizons, the more anxiety you feel, and as the saying goes, if I hadn't seen the sun, I could have endured the darkness.

Rural college students are like this, they have seen a wider world, but they can only watch, can not integrate, in order to be able to make more money, they will accept 996 involution, work hard in the workplace, work overtime, and they have also seen the importance of the starting point, some people's starting point is the end of many people's life's struggle, so they will be very anxious, will try their best to "chicken baby", worried that their children will lose to others.

Why do most college students from rural areas do not mix well?

Before answering this question, I would like to state that this question is not 100% absolute, so we can only try to answer this question from a more objective perspective and from the perspective of mass trends. First of all, the most obvious point is that the student's own interpersonal and interpersonal skills will definitely be the biggest constraint on his future development path, which is a conclusion that can be reached without much statement.

Rural children, from a young age, are limited to that village or township. This is in stark contrast to urban children, who have been exposed to a wide variety of people and things in society since childhood, and the more people they are exposed to, the more solid their interpersonal and network foundations will be, and the more beneficial they will be for their future development, at least in this regard, rural children are a natural disadvantage.

Of course, their inferiority complex and introversion do not have any derogatory meaning, just to show that they will not be particularly willing to participate in various activities in the city, such as parties, parties or whatever, but focus on studying. Of course, there is nothing wrong with this, but at least at the university level, if you devote all your time to studying, your grades will be fine, but your social skills and vision will be greatly limited.

Of course, this society is still in the process of continuous development, and more and more emphasis is placed on talents and people's own capabilities. Background can only determine your foundation, but can not determine your future, after all, the road ahead is still to go by yourself, everyone's future is full of infinite possibilities, if you are inferior and self-abandoning because of your past, I am afraid that you will not even have the opportunity to compete with others. Therefore, whether it is a college student, self-improvement, hard work, and struggle are the best explanations for themselves.