At what point did you feel the importance of reading?

After working for a few years, I feel more and more that although I have no shortage of school knowledge (after all, I am highly educated), I am lacking in social culture - I found that my emotional intelligence needs to be improved when I communicate with the outside world; Solve problems at work, find that the knowledge you have mastered is becoming more and more insufficient, and you need to learn; I am obviously in love with my husband, I am constantly bumping and quarreling in getting along, I find myself at a loss in the face of my children's education, and my parents-in-law are getting along with each other to the greatest extent, but they are always troubled by discord in getting alongI need to learn the wisdom of managing a marriage, running a family, educating children, and investing in financial management. So I decisively devoted myself to learning and investing in my own growth.

In the unit, people who don't read much have swear words in their mouths. People who read poetry and books talk very differently, giving people the feeling that they are a reliable person who thinks twice before acting, people who don't read much can't summarize any words in a meeting, and they are poor in words for a while, and they can't summarize ideas, they can only use online language, and they instantly realize the importance of reading.

During the summer vacation, because I didn't want to waste more than a month at home, I started to look for internship units before the holidays, and many internship units required to have a 985 211 academic qualification, and the lowest threshold has turned many people away. At first, I didn't plan to go to graduate school, but this incident made me feel that studying is really important.

When looking for a job, when you get promoted, when you teach your children to do their homework, when you sign a contract, when you go to the bank, when you go to a lawsuit, when you are a boss, when you go abroad, when you go far away. All these things reminded me of the importance of reading, but I didn't improve much.

Every time I write about large materials, I am very envious when I see others citing them. In the search of the intestines and the stomach and the painstaking thoughts, I can't wait to present everything I have learned, take it at will, combine it as I like, and inadvertently complete a graceful article in an instant. At this time, I will make up my mind that I must read more books, read good books, and be able to keep in mind the essence and purpose.

After the things passed, I didn't have that patience and courage, and I didn't have that situation and mental strength, not because the years had gone by, but because I was slack and relaxed, and I sank into my fighting spirit. Blame yourself for not having perseverance, alas.

In other words, when the book is used, there is less hatred, one is when the exam, the exam questions are all you don't know, you don't have a single question, then you will feel that you read less, and there is another kind of that when others ask you questions, you still learn by yourself, but you won't, at this time you feel that you read less, and there is another kind of professional knowledge you want to use to get what you want, you will feel that you read less, after all, a person's temperament is mentioned in the books they read now, the way they walk, If you want to be rich in books, you must read more books.

From the moment of studying for the rise of China, development is inseparable from talents, and talents must study ......

The male god suddenly mentioned a book, and he was very happy to find that he had read it. But when I was about to talk, I found that I didn't read it well at the time, and I confused the contents of several books, and I was instantly embarrassed to say that I had read it. Sure enough, it's better to read more books so that you won't be embarrassed. ‍

See the ancestors of 5,000 years of traditional culture. Understand the intentions of the wisdom of our ancestors. Protect future generations with great wisdom. Only then do we know what greatness is, what is wisdom, what is culture, and what is inheritance. I also know how useless I am.

If you read more books, you will learn a variety of expressions, and even if you explain something to others, it will be smoother and easier to understand than if you have not read it.

When I was competing with others in my life, I could only listen to it dryly, and I couldn't debate a few words with him, which was really sad and regretful.

When you went to a poor university, I realized that studying was too important, and when I thought of the students in the 985 211 school, I regretted that I didn't study well.

One of the things I regret most in my life is going to college.

Read a few pages in the morning, feel the history, and be able to clear your mind.

In the 70s of the last century, when the production team was distributing piles of food to the members in the field, the names of everyone were pressed on them, and the illiterate people did not know which one was their own.

When setbacks are most helpless.

Those who have read books can also swear, and they are very angry, and they have all kinds of swearing.

I forgot when I realized that reading was important. Maybe there was no moment of sudden epiphany, not until now, maybe it was a gradual process of change.

Life is one's own, books are someone else's. How to live in life is to decide by yourself, and at this time, success or failure, up and down, are all your own choices. How to improve the correctness of one's choice and make one's life comfortable, you need the advice and experience of others to improve the deletion system of your brain.

At this time, you need to read, and if you understand this truth, it means that you should have realized that reading is very important. A person's point of view will always be incomplete, just like a chopstick you have a hard time standing up without collapsing, when you can hold them up with ten cang's bird's root chopsticks. Borrow other people's points of view to support and improve your own thinking system.

But I don't think that's a reminder of the importance of reading. Many parents often tell their children to read more, reading is very important, and reading can change fate. They may have read a few of their favorite books themselves.

But that doesn't mean they understand the importance of reading. I don't think it's enough.

Knowledge and action are one. I was able to keep reading and keep reading, gathering ten chopsticks to 100 and increasing them, accumulating to tens of thousands. During the Three Kingdoms period, Lu Meng went out to fight, and he still couldn't let go of his hands in the military camp, I think he should know.

When Lu Su saw him, he said, "Shibei for three days, impressive" I think that only by achieving the realm of Lu Meng can I really know the importance of reading. But there are a few people who can really do this.

That is to say, when you are free, your first reaction is not to take out your phone, but to take out a book. Or even if you take out your phone, it's not to play games or scroll through Moments. Instead, read the article and brush!

Read a few more books, a few good books, and benefit from them. Then you may be able to slowly appreciate the benefits of reading, a virtuous circle, and you will slowly understand the importance of reading.

Reading books may be the least expensive form of 'self-cultivation'. "I was originally just a weak individual, but because of my reading, I was fortunate enough to have a glimpse of thousands of lives and have the strength of a whole human being. ”

May you love to read, and may you have the strength of a whole human race.

Reading is not about showing off anything, just for liking; There is no fixed paradigm for language, the important thing is to achieve meaning. But reading will let us know that expression is not singular and homogeneous, it has many possibilities, and it is a beautiful possibility.

What moment did you find reading really useful?

When I express myself accurately and beautifully.

Before the start of school, the high school classmates got together again, and the parting was imminent, and everyone felt a little sad and fierce, and they didn't talk much. In the end, someone suggested having a drink together, and when clinking glasses, I said: Yu Dao each works hard, and thousands of miles are the same wind.

Everyone laughed at once, and Qi Duan could see that there was a kind of relief and certainty in that smile. Perhaps, good writing has this power.

Reading can refine a person's language, and a refined language will have a unique attraction. "Whatever you learn, you become character", there are some words that you will know as soon as you hear them, which are forged by the books you once read.

What moment did you find reading really useful?

When expression becomes art and I am hit by the blow.

Some people say that book lists and song lists are actually very private things, which hide a person's most private tastes and the most unique soul. What does it feel like to meet someone with a similar soul? Rabindranath Tagore said, "You smile slightly, and you don't say anything to me, and I feel that I have been waiting for this for a long time."

Which moment made you Gao Yanyu feel that reading is really useful?

When I found my kind of people and met understanding through reading.

"There are clouds in the book: "There are thousands of Zhongsu in the book, and there is a ** house in the book." There are many cars and horses in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book.

In the eyes of the ancients, reading books was really useful. Someone once said on the Internet, "There are many values in reading, among which the most straightforward thing is when we go out to play, when we see the desert, we will say, 'The desert is lonely, and the sun sets on the long river', instead of 'My God, what a big piece of sand'." ”

In fact, in life, there will always be a moment when we feel that reading is really useful. For example, we know the answer to a question that our parents don't understand, that kind of approving look makes us satisfied, when writing a plan, we are opened by a sentence from a book we have read, we visit places of interest, and talk to our peers ......These moments made us feel the value and meaning of reading.

Many people feel that the value of reading is utilitarian, for example, the ancients studied hard in order to become an official, and today's people study to get more social resources. But the truth is that reading is not for utilitarian purposes, but for non-utilitarian values. Reading is not just for knowledge, but for wisdom.

There are many meanings of reading, but the biggest meaning is that we can become a better version of ourselves.

Since we know that there is so much value in reading books, why is the reading volume of Chinese people at the bottom of the world rankings? This brings us to the habit of reading. Gorky once said, "Books are the ladder of human progress", and if we look at it from this point of view, then the habit of reading is the way to build the ladder.

A good reading habit can make people use it for a lifetime, and it can make people feel the joy of reading and talking about losses to the greatest extent in their limited life.

Standing up is based on learning, and learning is based on reading. In life, reading is full of stories that have fundamentally changed people's thoughts and even their future and destiny. Without exception, these people all have good reading habits.

Today, we can read books, there are many ways to choose from reading, in this case, why don't we feel the beauty of the moment brought by reading, why don't we calmly find the value of life in books?

When my former tablemate finished studying at Shanghai Jiaotong University and could settle in Shanghai as a graduate student (he wanted to take me to graduate school, I said it was useless to take the exam); When I felt that my colleague was not as capable as me and was promoted, and I couldn't even increase my salary because I didn't get the certificate (the manager clearly told me that the certificate was mandatory for that position), ......

There are too many moments that make me feel that reading is important, and in the past, there may have been people who believed that reading was useless, but now, you watch TV, watch movies, watch variety shows, look at Zhihu, as long as you can access the Internet, you will know that people who read well are too good to mix and quarrel.

When I was working outside for the summer vacation, I worked in a rice noodle shop, and there was a girl about the same age as me in the store, and she only had the vicissitudes of life and the vulgar vision in her eyes.

I saw the Youyuan sanitation workers on the road early, they got up early to go to work, because they didn't have the education and knowledge to do this kind of work, so I made up my mind to study hard.

During an interview, the interviewer asks you to introduce yourself and introduce yourself to someone you have newly met.

When I was working in the field.

At the time of soldering in the e-cigarette factory.

From my personal experience, the moments that reading a book can find meaningful for people include:

2.Feel the emotional resonance: Reading a book allows people to feel emotional resonance, resonate and emotionally connect with the characters and stories in the book, so that they can better understand their own emotions and the psychology of others and others.

3.Expand thinking: Reading books can expand people's thinking and cognition, and make people more open and inclusive, so as to better understand and deal with complex social and life issues.

4.Cultivating interests: Reading books can cultivate people's interests and hobbies, making people love life and learning more, so as to better explore their potential and talents.

Therefore, the moments when reading books may be meaningful may include discovering new knowledge, feeling the emotional resonance of the key, expanding the mind and cultivating interests. In the process of reading, it is necessary to maintain patience and enthusiasm, keep learning and exploring, and write for personal growth and development.

I have always found reading useful, but many people may not know how to use it. We always want to know the laws of the operation of the world, and to understand all kinds of knowledge that make us live and be aware, and this kind of content is not acquired through indirect experience such as reading, but through direct experience such as life. There's a saying that goes like this:

If you don't suffer from studying today, you will have to suffer from life tomorrow. "In fact, it is very reasonable, you have to learn and obtain things sooner or later, life in the world, what you want to obtain, not by luck, but by ability, reading as a relatively simple and easy way to obtain indirect experience, should be well grasped. Many people may have heard the people around them more or less preach the "uselessness of reading", but don't understand reading as a narrow and difficult understanding of reading as going to school and reading, the kind of case that has not read to become a big boss, on the whole, there must be a high probability of success for people who have not read and learned in terms of probability, as far as the individual is concerned, there must be continuous efforts and learning behind it, through reading, practice or other ways, there must be an output, relying on a solid family background, courage to fight and luck and other factors, in order to finally achieve success.

Therefore, reading must be useful, but we should also understand that reading is not a dead reading or a formal reading, it is necessary to summarize carefully, be good at absorption, and learn and apply it lively.