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What is hatred? In my opinion, there is no permanent hatred, and the reason why you say so depends mainly on your own psychology and emotions. Generally in life, work, society, family, love, life and other limited areas, there is an unsatisfactory or small friction, which will inevitably make you angry or even hate something or someone, if you always think about it, you can't get rid of hatred to control your mentality and emotions.
In fact, as long as you forget such a person, what happens is the smoke blown away by the wind, and you are very calm and do not hold grudges. Because every hatred will make you feel very unhappy, it will consume a lot of time to think about this matter or problem, and you will remember when you can take revenge. It's worth spending so much time remembering such a person or thing that makes you unhappy, you can think about it.
If you really remember hatred, you won't forget it until you die, but we can have less time to remember this hatred, so why bother with ourselves. You will definitely not be able to forget some hatred caused by the other party's crimes, but after a period of time, you will rarely remember it, and you will not be able to take revenge, because the other party has been punished by the law, if you still want to take revenge, then it is your turn to go to the wall. Put in the three aspects of family, friendship, and love, I personally think there is really no need to remember hatred and hatred, although sometimes it is very depressed and unhappy or very bullying, but they are relatives and people they like are friends they pick, calm down and think about whether they are at fault, if not, face it calmly, explain it if you can, and if you can't explain it, you will have a big belly, forget it in the past.
If we continue to hurt each other, it will not be good for anyone, because we always think about doing something for our relatives, for the people we like, for our friends, about caring for each other more, and thinking about being recognized by each other, so if there is something other than what we think and want, you still have to think like this, sooner or later your relatives, friends, and people you like will be better for you and get along more harmoniously. There is really nothing that will fade with time, but some no longer enter their hearts, our emotions will not be so strong, want love, be rejected, for a period of time you must hate yourself and hate each other, but when you find your second love, you can't remember the person who rejected you at all. So when things don't go well or something else happens, what we have to do is to force ourselves to learn to let go, learn to forget, learn to be tolerant, and learn to love in the initial period of time.
In this way, you are a person with a lot of connotation and good conduct. You say, friend.
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Time dilutes everything, and it's hard to change everything. The real society is a society that is difficult to say, anyway, it is an abnormal society, a real friendship is really hard to find, but once you find it, it will definitely not change the friendship between you because of time. At any time, the closest person is still your family, so the family affection will not change, but respecting the old and loving the young is our traditional virtue, and it is also what we should do for our children, if you are very unfilial, and still count on family affection, I think it is also unrealistic, such family affection can only appear in extraordinary times.
Failed love will slowly fade away because of time, no matter how much you miss someone, when you ignore her, she will slowly fade from your mind, until you can treat her with a normal heart, but it is basically impossible to forget her.
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Yes, because time is a good medicine, because man is a forgetful animal, so after a long time, hatred, love, friendship, and family affection will be weakened.
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Vary! In other words, I may forget love, but I will not forget hate!
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In the train of life, we will all meet different people. These different people have their own characteristics and bring us a variety of lives. Maybe when you are far away, you feel that family affection is very valuable.
Youth and ignorance when we are youngIn the time of youth and ignorance, most of us are based on friendship. I believe that when you are rebellious in your youth, you are very troubled by the nagging of your parents, and you think that you have no common topic with them. In fact, the parents' love is only different in the type of expression, and occasionally they will cause misunderstandings between each other because of love.
Some parents and children are not good at expressing themselves, and this misunderstanding is getting bigger and bigger. In the end, it leads to the fading of family affection in our hearts when we are young, and friendship becomes more and more important in our hearts. When we grew up, we discovered the importance of family affection, and when we went to high school or college to work, we found more and more that the world is very realistic, and there is nothing more important in the world than family affection.
As a result, when we look back on the mistakes we have made in the past, we become more and more annoyed, so much so that when we try to make up for something, we find that we can't fix it.
In fact, as long as our parents are alive, we still have a chance to get along. All the love in the world can't resist the sinister love of relatives, and all love can't resist the love of family is real. Too many things in this world are complicated, and the love of our relatives for us is the simplest, purest, and most selfless.
Especially when we are far away from home to work or study, we miss this love very much. Therefore, we need to be kind to our parents in a timely manner.
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Love is the most selfish;Friendship is the most precious;Family affection is the most selfless.
Love, friendship, and a family affection will surely make your tree of life green and lush, whether it is in the sun, or in the wind and rain, you can shine with a kind of glory that is read.
Family affection is a kind of depth, friendship is a kind of breadth, and love is a kind of purity.
Family affection is a kind of unconditional, unreciprocated sunshine bathing;Friendship is a vast and grand embankment of understanding that can be inhabited at any time;Love, on the other hand, is a kind of mysterious and boundless soul that can make songs forgetful and tearful.
In life, it is a pity that family, friendship, and love are missing one;The lack of two of the three is really pitiful;If you lack all three, you will live like you will die!"After experiencing the depth of family affection, appreciating the breadth of friendship, and having the purity of love, such a life can be called a veritable life.
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This is different depending on each person's situation
However, no matter what kind of relationship, you need to manage it yourself!To cherish!
Generally speaking, filial piety to parents is the foundation of life, friendship is the foundation of all feelings, and mutual respect is requiredLove is the transition from family affection to friendship!
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Love and friendship, because only family affection can never be changed.
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Because love is selfish, beautiful, and naturally the most fragile of gripping.
Family affection is parents, people say that blood is thicker than water, parents will pay selflessly, these are destined from the beginning.
Friendship is a friend, and when you are together, you can laugh and talk happily, but you don't interfere with each other's world.
Love has no blood relationship, it is from strange to familiar, and there is no spine to give the other party space, because love is originally an invasion and invasion into the other party's life.
More importantly, perhaps because you value love more, and you feel that it is more important in your heart, so it is easy to make people hurt and vulnerable.
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Family affection, naturally, cannot be consumed by time, because you are the meat that fell from them (them). This feeling cannot be replaced by anything. Nature can't be downplayed.
Love and friendship are not your dearest people. Falsehood naturally arises, and since falsehood often makes people unable to see and distinguish. Friendship will stand the test of time, because the people who care about you will not forget you because of time.
I won't alienate you because of time. Therefore, friendship is like a glass of wine, and the longer it lasts, the more delicious it is. Love can't stand the test, no one can get full marks in love, but it's not easy to pass love.
In many cases, it's three minutes of heat (myself included), and after that, it gets cooler. If you don't heat it up, it's going to get cooler and cooler. Wait until it is completely "cool", then it will naturally be "cool".
Friendship and love are things that need to be warmed, they are as beautiful as flowers, but if you don't water the flowers, can "it" bloom "beautiful"? ? Adopt it.
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Family affection must be the most important, as for friendship, we must also cherish it, we must learn to maintain this feeling, friends will also understand love, and you will understand its true meaning after suffering in a long-term relationship.
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Because no one has his temper, what he says when he is unhappy will hurt people, and even if he wants to reconcile later, he will not be able to pull down his face or not know where to start, and family affection will not be like this, even if he is unhappy, even if you are cold to them because you are reasonable, their warmth and patience will make you feel that there is no need to be so upset...
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