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It won't be that serious.
There are two possibilities for children to be reluctant to go to school: 1. They hate school. 2. I hate studying.
You can first contact the teacher to understand the child's classmate relationship at school, which is the most likely factor to affect the child's state, if the classmate relationship is not good, it is easy for the child to have a fear of school - not to hate learning, but to hate the school atmosphere.
If it's the latter, then you need to turn to an educator for help, not as a classroom teacher, but as a counselor.
11-year-old boys are the critical period of growth, during this period of parents, teachers, classmates' attitudes and subtlety, will have a lifelong impact on the child's personality, so we must communicate with the child more, and pay attention to giving him full freedom.
I hope it can help you and your child, and I wish him a healthy growth!
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It shouldn't be depression. According to what you described, if you are a child who has just reached school age, if you are severely unable to actively communicate with others, or if you only want to be alone and afraid to face an unfamiliar and noisy environment, it is likely to be autistic. If you are autistic, you must go to the relevant hospital for it**.
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Let him speak boldly, communicate, and play happily in a dense place, so that the original concept will be changed.
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Let him exercise more and let him have more contact with children.
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Personality can't be helped, unless there is a big thing to make him change.
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It seems that Linna's mother is very concerned about the child's growth, sensitive, does not like group sexual activities, shy and timid, etc. are all inappropriate symptoms for schooling, these are all disorders of sensory integration, I suggest you go to a professional sensory integration agency to understand, through professional assessment to understand the specific situation of the child, and then give the child practical guidance according to the specific curriculum.
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Encourage him to make more friends and contact more.
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This is a type of neurosis characterized by anxiety, and is a physical symptom of anxiety, anxiety, and fear of an unfixed object, accompanied by autonomic dysfunction, muscle tension, and motor restlessness. There is no organic damage, so the examination only excludes physical disorders. You need to use anti-anxiety drugs under the guidance of a specialist, and at the same time adjust your lifestyle and mentality in time, you can slowly improve.
Look at the tone of your voice and feel that you are that kind of person, easy-going then. Does anyone say that your mother---I think it's inevitable to resist. Otherwise, it will really go too far. >>>More
Give your child a little more encouragement.
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It is necessary to rely on the correct guidance of parents, let the child get out of fear from some small chores and games in life, help him complete various things, gradually reduce his dependence on parents, make him realize his own strength, and then strengthen the training of his tolerance, such as being alone at home, staying alone in the room, going to the street to buy things by himself (parents should be protected, but do not let him find out), etc., the child will slowly come out of the timid world, need to be patient enough, not rough, of course, It is also necessary to let the child spend more time with his father. Some children are timid because they are rarely with their fathers. Is this satisfying?