What makes it difficult for you to tell the truth?

There are all kinds of people in this society now, and it is very likely that what you say today will run into the ears of others tomorrow, so it is very difficult to tell the truth, and we need to keep ourselves in a safe state at all times, so we can't let ourselves say the truest thoughts in our hearts in everything, and it is very likely that others will take advantage of us.

Because you don't know if the other party is the person who can make you fully trust, so your usual state is unwilling to tell the truth, because expressing your truest thoughts in your heart is likely to have some bad effects after others listen to it, so sometimes you still don't tell the truth, it's okay to be suitable on the surface.

In fact, there are many times in daily life that we are lying, for example, if you meet someone who is more than you want to go to, such as a girlfriend, for example, your boss, your boss, your roommate, you don't necessarily have to tell the truth, sometimes saying something nice will make people happy.

Now that the pace of this era is getting faster and faster, we always feel that we don't want to tell the truth when facing some other people, because we may just meet in the water, and we are not really good friends, so why express our truest thoughts to him, and sometimes I will be very afraid, this kind of thinking will scare these strangers.

A lot of things don't necessarily have to be told the truth, or there are some things that really don't need to be said, or you really can't say them, and some things you pick and say, it's a kind of hurt feeling, even if the sentence is actually understood by both parties, and there is no need to say it.

It's probably the time for a career fair! Every time I go to a mock job fair, when I see others introduce themselves and submit resumes, the whole person is nervous, overwhelmed, and very nervous.

There are two kinds of lies, one is a white lie, and the other is a malicious lie, often it is very difficult to say a white lie, or it is unbearable, and some things do not necessarily have to be said, so there are white lies.

It was when my grandfather was hospitalized with lung cancer, I can clearly feel that my father was very choked when he gave me ** again, I was far away, and I couldn't go back to take care of her, knowing that he couldn't do it, you can't ask, if you ask a lot of things to find out, it's not good.

Shakespeare said: A man would rather hear a hundred beautiful lies than a single straight truth. This sentence is not false at all, as if human nature is like this, and it is better to listen to lies than to listen to the truth.

We all know that good medicine is bitter and contrary to the ear, and the truth is indeed not as beautiful as the lie, which will make people embarrassed.

1. Sometimes the truth is really not good, unpleasant, and can hurt people, so most people don't like to listen to the truth. Especially when one's own shortcomings are pointed out in front of everyone, it makes people feel unhappy, embarrassing, unacceptable, and even, because of this, they hate people who tell the truth.

2. Because the lie is good, it makes people feel comfortable when they hear it, and the lie is pleasing to the ear, and it will not offend people when they say it. The truth is always too straightforward, making people feel like a thorn, directly exposing the shortcomings and deficiencies of the human heart, and making people lose face.

3. Human nature is like this, they all yearn for beauty, and Liangzhong Oak is only willing to listen to beautiful and moving words. Telling the truth often exposes the weaknesses and shortcomings of others, and it is easy to offend people, so there are fewer and fewer friends who tell the truth, and there are some beautiful lies in my ears. As everyone knows, only the truth can make oneself grow in the shortcomings.

Beautiful lies, demagoguery, drowsy, and unreverent; Straightforward truth, Daigo empowerment, can give people a wake-up call and make people forge ahead. If you really care about you, you will be honest and persuasive; People who really care about you will be outspoken; People who really care about you will tell you the truth.

Because the truth is sometimes uncomfortable.

Because people don't like to hear the truth from others.

Because the truth is often hurtful. In addition to thinking, people still have emotions, so why should we remove the factor of emotional harm? When you say what you think is the "truth", others may only think about "why can you say it without worrying about my emotions", and what he cares about is not the right or wrong of what you say, but why you don't take his emotions into account.

And a lot of what you think is the "truth", the other party may not actually understand it, or it can be said to be dismissive, but when you actually bring it to the table and tell it, there will be an invisible embarrassment, and most people will choose to change the topic or not to the formal question itself.

Most of us in our lives are hermit crabs who live a difficult life by self-irony, shrinking themselves into the shells of others. Only by constantly complaining about yourself every day to find some self-confidence, and at this time you have to pry open this shell, and then tell others that this is the real you, others are unwilling or even disgusted with your so-called "truth" You are asking, why they are not willing to listen to your truth.

The bigger you are, the more truth and falsehood are just words for you......The truth is hard to hear, but it can do me good. Those who speak out to prevent us from making mistakes, point out our shortcomings, and analyze the pros and cons for us are our true nobles.

Let dare to tell the truth and love to listen to the truth become a social fashion, this is a "epidemic" today, to be cured, an excellent life, to listen to the truth! In life, daring to tell the truth is the most cherished. No matter how sharp those words are, those who look up to you and are good to you will risk being scolded by you to tell you the truth, and those who are blunt to prevent us from making mistakes point out our shortcomings and analyze the pros and cons for us, which is our real nobleman.

Cherish, the one who tells you the truth. Friends, hear blunt words, life to jujube Xun Sun Xing, good medicine bitter, loyal words against the ear. A little more Changyu can be more sober, and a little more can be a friend.

Only those who have the courage to accept criticism and blame, and face up to their own weaknesses, can understand themselves correctly, reap the freedom of the mind, and achieve a wise life.

Not liking to listen to the truth is just an appearance, but in fact, there are many people who are weak and unreasonable, which fully proves that there are too many unwillingness and displeasure in their lives! Lies are better than truths, but people forget that good words are good for deeds, and true visionaries like to hear the truth.

Telling the truth and speaking ugly are not in conflict, anything can be said well, telling the truth is a sensitive scum with emotions, or that person is not a kind person himself.

Because the psychological quality of the listener is not good.