How to learn to give gifts And be technical

Gift-giving can often be used as a channel of communication, but it's not a panacea, so don't make a fool of yourself!

However, gift-giving can also become a science, so the exchange of gifts is a normal interaction between friends, and giving gifts to the boss is more particular.

First of all, the amount of gifts should be grasped, according to their own ability to choose gifts, otherwise it will make the boss feel that you deliberately go to him and sacrifice too much money, which undoubtedly makes the boss more contemptuous of you, thinking that you are a person who has money to do things, secondly, to give gifts to the boss to consider the interests of the other party, the so-called to their liking, such as to give cigarettes to non-smokers is not a wise move, in addition, if you do not know the situation of the boss very well, generally people with a family will prefer popular gifts, that is, the whole family can use, and something more affordable.

Thirdly, there are occasions for the time and interval of gift-giving. Gifts will not be associated with anything good in the eyes of outsiders, so it is best not to let others know about gifts, but don't steal chickens and dogs, pay proper attention to it, generally choose after dinner. Gifts should be given at a certain time interval according to the situation, once every six months or even once a year, depending on the interests of you and your boss.

I don't think much about the occasion is different, just send it to your home.

There is also to consider the current and future interests between you and your boss, you can't blindly give gifts, generally only when you need others to help you do things, you will think of giving gifts to others, then look at people, don't send them to really help but are ignored. In addition, it depends on what you need someone to help you do, if you need to help you match, then the gift should also consider whether you should have an extra copy, so that the intermediary can further send the gift to the person who can help you, if it is a direct relationship, do not need to consider this.

Gift-giving is only a very small part of officialdom life, and sleek is not something that can be solved by gift-giving, these things I provide are just your problem, I hope the landlord is cautious!

Ha? It is strongly recommended that you do not do this.

I can tell you some tips for gifting:

1.Choose the right gift: When giving a gift, you should choose the right gift, not too extravagant or too simplistic.

2.Understand the needs of the other party: choose the right gift based on the other party's hobbies, occupation, age, family situation, etc.

3.Respect the other person's wishes: Don't force the other person to accept the gift, respect the other person's choice.

4.Be sincere in gift-giving: Don't be overly enthusiastic and avoid giving gifts that bring negative emotions to people.

In short, gift-giving should be based on the principles of respect, understanding, courtesy and sincerity, and do not overly pursue extravagant or cumbersome gifts to show your unique charm and sincerity.

Is it difficult to give gifts, it is difficult to send them if you don't go to the Zen cave, and if you send more, it will naturally be simple.

What should I do if I can't speak at first?

With my wife, go through the process, face the mirror, look at my face, and practice my expressions and lines.

10 times not at a time, 10 times 100 times, OK, debut.

If you don't know how to give gifts, don't add trouble to the leader, you don't feel embarrassed, leader, but you are scared.

You're here to harm him, and you're here to send benefits.

If you really want to give a gift to the leader, or ask for help, you have to follow the process that Ding Ye said, 12345, how to send it first, how to send it later, and then how to send it.

If you are too stupid and don't know how to send it, then send a red envelope 39 and I will send it to you.

If you don't even want 39 yuan, don't give a gift.

Send something you don't even need to the leader to congratulate? , being a leader is stupid-b.

Borrow flowers to offer Buddha. For example, you can buy some good and valuable local products for the other party, it can be said that your fellow countryman brought it to you, and you didn't spend any money, ask him to put it down and accept it. Generally speaking, no matter whether the other party can see that you are lying, but with this excuse, he can accept the gift with more peace of mind and will not refuse directly, and he will definitely understand this feeling, and then, it will be easier for you to ask him to do something, or if you want to get closer to him.

Set off by contrast. Sometimes, you want to give someone a gift, but you are not familiar with the other person, it is not good to be too direct, and you even have a small holiday with the other person, for fear that the other party will refuse. At this time, you can choose a very important day for the other party, so as to send out your own gifts, such as the other party's birthday or housewarming, wedding joy, etc., in such a day, there is no big holiday, the other party will not slap themselves in the face, will not destroy the festive atmosphere, will accept your gift with a smile, and your relationship will be deepened or improved.

Secretly crossing Chen Cang. This technique is to secretly give gifts in the name of other things, for example, invite the other party to eat and drink, and give your gift when the other party is drunk, and the other party will generally laugh and accept. The use of this trick is a bit of a black-box operation, which we often see in film and television dramas, so this trick cannot be used to do bad things, nor can it be used to bribe others.

Grafting. For example: Lao Zhang has something to entrust Xiao Liu to do, and wants to give gifts to the other party to stabilize it, but he is worried that Xiao Liu will refuse.

At the same time, Lao Zhang's wife and Xiao Liu's wife have a good relationship. Lao Zhang then took the "Mrs. route", he asked his wife to make a special trip to visit Xiao Liu's wife with gifts, and asked Xiao Liu's wife to blow the pillow wind, and in the end, the matter was successfully completed. Therefore, the thick black technique of grafting flowers and trees is not a direct gift to the person who asks for it, but the effect is often better.

It doesn't hurt self-esteem. If the person you want to give a gift to is a person with strong self-esteem, who obviously needs your gift, but if you give it directly, he just refuses to accept it, then what should you do? At this time, it can be said that this thing is useless to leave it in my hands, you take it first, and maybe I have something to ask you in the future, that is, let the other party feel that he is not taking it for nothing, and his self-esteem will not be hurt, and the other party will often accept it happily.

Icing on the cake. For example, a student has been vigorously cultivated by the teacher and has always wanted to give a big gift, but he is worried that the teacher will not accept it.

On this day, he unexpectedly found that although the teacher's home was elegantly decorated, there were a lot of calligraphy and paintings, but there were no famous works, so he went to ask his elders to buy a famous calligraphy, and then when he visited the teacher, he gave this gift, and the teacher accepted it happily.

Same. Sometimes, gifts don't have to be bought at your own expense, and they don't have to be in kind. In many cases, favors are also a kind of gifts, you can do one thing for the other party, or solve the other party's urgent needs, this is given as a favor, this move is similar to gift-giving, and the meaning is often greater, because the favor gift is the heaviest, but also the most difficult to calculate.

When giving gifts, you should say something pleading and begging, which depends on your specific mentality and purpose of gift-giving, and then think about how to say it.

Also, we all know that asking people to do things and giving gifts is a good way, but this method is also skillful, and the gifts you give must show your heart.

Because the most important thing in gift-giving is your respect and attention to others, it is recommended that you can customize an exclusive gift suitable for the other party according to your needs. Hospitality nine products belong to the exclusive gift of shouting to enlighten your Zheng Chan such as the system, although the number of places is small, it is not easy to book, but each piece is made with heart!

In addition, ask for gifts to pay attention to: don't ask others too much, don't chase after others, and you must do something to others, otherwise you won't feel interesting.

In other words, be content with what others can do, and don't force others to do things that are difficult to do.

Gift-giving is a very common thing in today's society, but in fact, gift-giving is also an art, and it is called giving a good gift, if the gift is chosen wrong or in the wrong way, it will only make both parties feel embarrassed. Therefore, it is also necessary to understand some gift-giving skills, only by knowing those skills and some taboos of gift-giving, you can give it skillfully and wonderfully. Here are a few tips for gifting that we hope will help you.

1. Try to take into account the age and gender of the recipient.

Since it is a gift, it must be liked and accepted by the other party, so it must be considered from the perspective of the other party, rather than speculating according to your own preferences.

2. It's best to get rid of things like price and listing.

Because gifts are used to express one's heart, and one's heart is also one of the skills of gift-giving. And this kind of subtlety can highlight their sincerity even more.

3. The gifts should not be too much.

Before giving gifts, you should understand the other party's situation, too expensive gifts will also make the other party have a psychological burden.

4. Don't ask the other person directly what they want as a gift.

Wouldn't it be embarrassing if the other person would give you more than you could advance?

5. Useful gifts are not as good as useless gifts.

Because everyone's taste is different, unless you have a full grasp of your own aesthetics, it is best not to give clothes and shoes or anything like that.

1.You don't accept gifts from others, the reason is nothing more than two points, and the relationship with you is not in place, and he doesn't want to do your business for you.

2.If you have something to ask someone to give a gift, it is basically useless, and the focus is on the usual foreshadowing.

3.The biggest purpose of gift-giving is not to ask people to do things, but to build relationships. The relationship is in place, and the matter is just a word.

4.Most people give gifts to things that they think are valuable, but they neglect whether the other person feels or not. Since it's all about spending money, why not give full play to the effect of money in the other party's heart and make the other party really feel good?

5.You give gifts to the leader, in fact, there is no shortage of those things, and even he has better than yours. Don't think that if you send something to the leader, the leader will treat you badly. The key is the attitude that the gift shows.

6.Give the gift out and don't mention it afterwards.

7.If you give gifts to leaders, or give gifts to others, the less people know, the better, and control your mouth.

8.Gifts don't need to be expensive, but the process of giving them should be natural and smooth, and the recipient has no psychological burden, and I feel that this is a very ordinary interpersonal relationship. If you want to be too grand and formal, the other party will be under a lot of pressure.

9.If you are not familiar with the other party, it is best not to give gifts, which will only make the other party feel that you have ulterior motives and be vigilant.