What if he always says something hurtful?

You have to know that men are not as sensitive as women, and if his words really hurt you, you should tell him clearly: your words make me very sad.

In this way, the man will pay more attention and care to you. There will never be a similar situation again. Don't think that if he loves you, he will know what is in your heart. Men usually don't understand, and it can be said that men are relatively dull.

Don't think that you are tolerating him like this, this will only make you love less and less, and eventually you will feel that you don't love him at all. You should tell him.

Find a time and place that is right for you, deliberately discuss this matter with him, let him make another mistake before he knows it, and then you don't say anything, cry a lot, and ignore him no matter what comforting words he says When he is anxious, you sobbed and said, "I don't think you forgot her at all." The tone must be mournful and pitiful

It's too much to separate.

Give him a chance to change first. Tell him to be careful when he speaks.

If you don't change, you will separate. lest you be angry.

In fact, you can say it yourself and communicate with her well, take out the problem and let the two of you solve it together, don't you say that she cares about you, then why bother yourself so much.

Can you tolerate her, if you can, you can continue, if you can, you can't just 88

People always like to hurt their loved ones, which seems to have become nature, and a lyric by Eason Chan seems to explain that "those who can't get are always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear". That's right, because the other party loves us, we have no scruples when we hurt them, we don't have to worry about their revenge, and we don't have to worry about the other party leaving. In the real world, it is our parents who love us the most, but how many people give them the same love in return?

Not to mention that some people lose their temper with their parents at every turn, even if children are immature in their thinking, and some people who have entered middle age are also the same, which can't help but make people suspect that the so-called moral conscience has been thrown to the **. Of course, we must admit that sometimes it is true that it is unintentionally hurt a loved one, which is an impulse to cause trouble, so how to change it?

Most of the time we hurt the person we love because we say excessive things, and "bad words hurt others" is such a truth. So now that you understand the problem, you must be cautious in your words and deeds in the process of getting along with the other party in the future. However, it is basically difficult for everyone to do this, because they are used to relaxing at home, or they are too familiar with their girlfriends to change it.

Of course, this is not to keep a distance from your loved ones, but to think calmly when there is a conflict or emotional out-of-control, and then control your words and deeds.

Sometimes, some hurtful behaviors are often accompanied by specific conflicts, such as a husband and wife arguing over drinking, and the husband hits each other in anger. When we try to empathize with others and understand their suffering, you will find that the original contradiction disappears all at once. Therefore, learning to "give in" at the right time can effectively resolve conflicts and will also prevent you from hurting your lover in your life.

The more intimate the relationship, the more unavoidable some hurtful behaviors, so everyone can only learn to accept the reality, and then actively use the art of apology, which is the most basic respect for the other party.

Love is a science, and both boys and girls who are involved in love are actually "practicing". When we don't fully understand what love is and how to love, we will often make mistakes in love! obviously cares about each other very much, but when they are together, they want to say hurtful things, and they often regret it after saying it, this is because they don't know how to love and can't love!

If you find that you sometimes can't speak sincerely, your mouth is not right, then, you have to "brake" in time, when you meet, when you communicate through short messages, try not to speak, try not to be suspicious, so that when you are confident enough, enough to believe in each other, you will find that you think about everything, do not blurt out, there will be so much less trouble!

The deeper the love, the more worries, the more insecure it is, this is a period that everyone will have! I often fantasize that my boyfriend accompanies other girls to eat and go shopping, or fantasizes that my boyfriend gives other girls gifts, but in fact, these are mediocre people who disturb themselves, and they are also a manifestation of their lack of self-confidence!

Hoist. As a girl, you must remember that a guy will not love you for the rest of his life because you have a strong temper or because you have no principles and bottom line! A boy who loves you and loves you all his life must love the shining point of you!

In this way, instead of always doubting yourself and always worrying about the other party leaving, it is better to improve yourself! When you find out that you are good enough and a high-quality girl, your boyfriend will be close to you infinitely, and there will even be guys who will make your boyfriend jealous! High-quality girls, who doesn't love it!

Change. Don't act recklessly just because the other party is your boyfriend, girls with high EQ and high IQ are actually cute when they lose their temper occasionally, but it's really unnecessary to always be violent and don't believe in your boyfriend! On the contrary, it will make the person you love want to end the relationship!

Obviously love each other very much but always say hurtful things, this is a sign of lack of self-confidence, and it is very important to improve self-confidence!

Because the other party is the person closest to you, you often lose your temper when you are with the person closest to you, and you will hurt the person you love; When you want to lose your temper, you must control yourself, tell yourself that the other person is the person you care about the most, don't lose your temper with the other person, and be more tolerant and understanding.

Mainly because people who love themselves are more tolerant of themselves, so we are more likely to hurt them, and the best way is to change our mentality and make ourselves more cherishing the people in front of us.

It's because we care too much about each other and are too afraid of losing each other, so sometimes we say things that are particularly ruthless, but we have special regrets in our hearts and shouldn't say such things.

Facing it, facing it, accepting it, sometimes it will make us sober and make us more courageous. Try to make yourself stronger, better fight back and defuse the damage of others.

We should calm down and analyze, why should I be sad? Is it someone else's fault, or is it your own fault?

Hurtful words are spoken by strangers, people who have little to do with them. When she saw whether she knew it or not, Sheng Minglan was neither humble nor arrogant, she was calm, she said: You can't control other people's mouths. The rumors stopped at the wise, and she proved her character with her actions.

There are some people in life who are not worthy of our mere care, strangers and people who are not worthy of our care, whether they say something harmful to you intentionally or unintentionally, you might as well laugh it off. Time is expensive and doesn't have to be wasted on them.

I think you should read more books, and you will find that even if others really hurt you verbally, it is nothing. Either the next time you feel this way, try back, be confident, what are you afraid of, the big deal is that you don't talk anymore, but you don't know people at the beginning, and the worst result is to go back to the way you started.

Or you just endure it, don't think so, many things can actually be dealt with in eight words: it's about you, it's about me. I've been using these eight words to make my way around.

If you are someone who treats us sincerely, you might as well tell us frankly: what you just said makes me sad. You are calm, they understand, and they will pay attention to their words in the future.

After talking about others, we should reflect on ourselves. Why is it that I am sad, is what others say true, or slander? Or is it that you are too weak, too sensitive, and too glassy?

The reason behind this is that there is a big problem with the way we communicate and express ourselves! When we hear criticism, we generally reflexively defend and refute it! However, when we shut up, pause, and think about our own feelings and needs, we can discover our deepest innermost needs and understand the difficulties of others!

Often, we encounter times when communication is not going well. First, pay attention to what's going on, like it or not, and just say it.

If it hurts you by speaking unintentionally, you can be generous and don't care. If you deliberately hurt you by speaking, try to make the reason clear and "fight back" naturally.

Keep smiling, stay calm, and ignore it when it's not right for you to shoot, and let him fart!

I think it's okay for a week.