I just talked about a boyfriend, why do you always find fault with him

What is happiness? In fact, there is no absolute answer to happiness, the key lies in your attitude towards life. Only those who are good at grasping happiness know what happiness is.

I always thought that it was very difficult to feel happiness, and that was a state of light. After the passage of time, I realized that happiness is actually very simple, as long as the soul is satisfied and comforted, it is happiness. A healthy life is a great happiness!

What is happiness? It's actually quite simple. A cup of fresh water and a cup of tea can taste the taste of happiness; A flower, a green leaf, can often bring a breath of happiness; A humble room, a book, you can enjoy the scenery of happiness.

Happiness is not only in material abundance, happiness is also in the pursuit of spirit and spiritual enrichment, happiness is a feeling, a consciousness, is the comfort of the soft breeze, is the fragrance of roses blooming, is the serenade from the lake from afar. To experience happiness, we must have a pure heart, we must know how to appreciate nature, we must be willing to be indifferent, we must have the grace of not being frightened, and we must have the bearing of not being shocked, and we will always bring fame and flowers to famous people, but material happiness is often valued by others, more than spiritual happiness. In this world, some people drink Moutai and are excellent, but some people drink boiled water and are happy.

Poor couples are often able to get along with each other, but couples from rich and noble families often complain about their spouses. Happiness is often inseparable from good health and good mood, and happiness is often inseparable from the necessary material life guarantees, but limited to material happiness is never happiness in the real sense. Happiness is the song of the exile, and only a bosom friend can understand the meaning.

Happiness is the enrichment of the spirit, the tranquility of the soul, the openness of the soul, and secondly, the comfort of material life.

Summary. Because when you're with him, he's your boyfriend, and it's your boyfriend, and you're going to want to take your little emotions out on him, because you don't think he's going to leave you.

Because when you're with him, he's your boyfriend, and he's your boyfriend, and you're your boyfriend, and you're going to want to vent your little emotions on him, because you don't think he's going to leave you.

But you still don't have to quarrel with your boyfriend too often, because if you keep arguing, it will definitely affect the relationship between the two of you, and the boy will feel that you are not happy with your big brother.

I don't think it's particularly bad. Yinchang just thinks that he treats me more than I treat him. Then he was going to have an affair with a girl before.

Then he swore to me that he would never do it again, but I, Wang Shen, still wanted to find fault with him recently, and I just kept trying to find fault with him. It's really annoying, so do you feel uncomfortable in your heart because of this matter?

It's going to be uncomfortable, it's like feeling like I've been emotionally unbalanced recently, it's very annoying, and I want to find fault with him, and the girl will definitely mind.

Then he's with you for the rest of the day.

What happened to you.

There is a sense of disparity between the love period and your love period, I feel that I have been like a sick family burner recently, always trying to find fault with him, and I have been looking for his fault, and I have no sense of security, I am just annoyed and sad about Suizhou.

So that's your own problem, and you have to adjust to your state first.

Isn't something happening lately?

When we broke up before, he added a girl, ambiguous for a while, and then he deleted the girl, he told me that it was because of the WeChat that he asked for a good brother, his brother didn't add, he said he didn't add embarrassment, he also claimed that he didn't have a girlfriend, and said that he sent her a mobile phone case, nothing else, he let me log in on WeChat, I asked him to send a circle of friends, and he could only let me and my mother see it, what does this mean, but now I just don't trust him, very insecure, Since then I have been very emotionally unstable.

That's a bit excessive, he just doesn't want his friends to know that he's playing with friends.

Because of this appearance, it is inconvenient for him to go out to play.

I'm very emotionally unstable right now, and I don't know how to stabilize my emotions anymore.

Then you can't calm down what you're doing now.

Actually, my advice is to calm yourself down and do some calming activities.

Hello little girl!

You say that you always find fault with your boyfriend, which means that you have known each other for a long time and are already familiar with each other. When you first met, you will infinitely magnify each other's advantages without seeing each other's shortcomings. After a long time, they know each other very well, and they lose their freshness, and at this time, all they see in their eyes are each other's shortcomings, which is what you said.

In fact, this is normal, women's thinking is like this, women naturally like to be a transformer, that is, they like to transform their other half, hoping to transform their other half into what they think. But what a man needs is affirmation and dignity, not reform, you think that the transformation is for his good, and you think that he will be grateful for your transformation. But the truth is the opposite, men will not appreciate your transformation, they will only get bored and eventually become numb.

So you don't have to ask why, it's a woman's nature. Wishing you happiness!

Beware of overdoing it, and tolerate each other.

Then you definitely don't like your boyfriend.

This is really what every girl wants to know the most, why are you always keen to find fault with me even though she has done so well? Have you seen the movie "Qiandu"? It's a very old one, it is a large-scale work of William Chan and Zhong Xintong, in addition to the highlight of large-scale, their way of love is remarkable.

They live together in a very small room, the room is full of crafts that two people like, there are quilts that Gillian likes, and there are also equipment that Wei Ting likes, they are very harmonious when they are quiet, and they look no different from ordinary lovers. But whenever they quarrel, they are like enemies of the other side, smashing cups, smashing chairs, and even speaking ill of each other, and fighting.

One of the most important points between their quarrels is that they like to expose each other's shortcomings and some extremely bad habits, and when one of them says one, the other will refute the other, and it will become more and more intense, as if it were like a machine gun, endless. Of course, the result is that they break up, who can stand the quarrel and keep talking about their shortcomings without bowing their heads to me and saying sorry for such a relationship? My little problems are also what I have, and I am the only one in this world, if you can bear it, you can bear it, and if you can't bear it, pack up the package for me and get out of the way.

That's what a lot of girls think now, right? I really know too well, and there are many girls who treat princess disease as a personality.

Secondly, if your friend tells you that you don't have this problem at all, of course, the premise is that your friend tells the truth, then your boyfriend still continues to pick again and again, that is your boyfriend's problem, then you must sit down and communicate seriously, if you don't communicate, I'm afraid you will have to say each other's shortcomings at the flashpoint of the two like Wei Ting and Gillian, and the result is that you will be in situ **, and you will break up and see each other from then on. If you still cherish it, talk to him, he will first say the reason, and then you will explain it slowly, don't be angry, be good, at least respect must be there, if you really don't have this problem, ask him not to say it again in the future, on the contrary, then change it, anyway, it's a bad problem, and it's a lot of benefits to change it, change for your boyfriend, become better, I will feel very honored.

In fact, find someone, don't always find faults, dislike this and that, especially boys and girls, she may not be very sensible, you teach her how to be a person, how to do it in the future, maybe she is not excellent in all aspects, do you eat a mouthful of melon, you think it is too sour, not as good as you think, and then you tell the boss that you don't want this melon? Is it possible?

He just whispered to me and said ** I didn't do it right, no, it just sounded disgusted with me, and now I go out to buy everything and call people the size very politely. I learned a lot from him.

You can't always find fault with your girlfriend, the wife of the chaff is all suffering with you all the way, if you can tolerate it, you can tolerate it, and girls are the same, learn to tolerate.

Break it up, don't say that you have a boyfriend and let the other party be obedient, at least you should be considerate or there, what is the use of a boyfriend who often finds fault with you.

Your boyfriend often finds fault with you, in the final analysis, because of his low self-esteem, so he suppresses you by picking fault with you, then you need to tell your boyfriend that you are angry, ask him not to find fault with you, and if he always doesn't change, then break up.

If the fault he said really needs to be corrected, he will correct it, but if he is just picking a bone in the egg, just break up, which shows that he does not have the most basic respect for you.

I think he shouldn't have you in his heart, a boyfriend who often finds fault with you, should not have you in his heart, because loving someone will love the advantages and disadvantages.

It is advisable for you to break up, because liking someone will tolerate everything about the other person, whether it is good or bad, and your boyfriend does this to show that he does not love you that much.

Two people are supposed to run in with each other together, even if you have a little problem, you can't often pick it, you can say that you will change, but you will be unhappy if he is always like this, if he does not change, then it is recommended not to be together.

Correct the faults he said one by one, and then you also point out his faults and let him change for you, so that your relationship will get better and better in adapting to each other, and the two of you will get better and better.

1. Through contact with society, your boyfriend has grown up faster than you, and has a different understanding of the requirements of external things than you, your cognition is no longer on the same plane, and you are still in the student stage;

2. I don't know if this is your first love, if so, leave the happiness in your memory;

3. You should still be a student, if so, I suggest that you can shift the focus of your life to studying, and don't fall in love for the time being; If you are not, then you should reflect on your way of doing things and your understanding of things.

4. This boyfriend is not suitable for you.

An introverted girl needs a boy who is patient and understands you, has a strong sense of responsibility and humor, and two people can live happily together. If you live with someone who doesn't appreciate your personality and always likes to find fault with you, you'll never be happy, let alone happy! You may have chosen the wrong one!

You should break up with him as soon as possible! Otherwise you will regret it for the rest of your life! Hurry up and leave him to find a new boy who suits you, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, this is a big event in a lifetime!!

After getting along for a long time, you will find each other's shortcomings, but you can get used to each other's shortcomings. These are all things that happen in couples. Find a time to talk to him. I also think that only girls can find fault with boys. Boys shouldn't be so careful.

This should be due to aesthetic fatigue, from the beginning of acquaintance to slowly falling in love, after understanding each other, I found each other's shortcomings, and found that the other party was not what I imagined. True love is not together because of each other's strengths, but because they find each other's shortcomings and are still together. If he loves you, please talk to him seriously, and change yourself appropriately, after all, there are places where what he said still has a certain truth, and this is also the process of your growth.

If he doesn't love you and doesn't deserve your efforts, simply be yourself, give up on him, and let him regret it.

If you look at this optimistically, it is that he treats you like a buddy and says everything.

To be pessimistic, it's that he's tired of you, after all, he's been in prison for two years.

If you want to know the truth of things, you have to ask him face to face to see if he still loves you, if not, then end it as soon as possible, you will not be happy if you continue like this, this is for your sake, don't be infatuated, no one can live without anyone.

Damn, stinky man, that's it before you're married. Actually, you know what the reason is, but you just don't want to admit it. Let's talk about it first, if he's still like this, you can try to be cheerful, feminine, skinny, and... Kick him!

It's been too long, I've understood it too thoroughly, and I've reached the stage of annoyance, and it's good to pass this stage, and it's like this when I talk about love, and I want to find some fault if there is less common language between them. Let each other know that they are looking at each other.

The key is to know what purpose or from what angle he finds fault with you, because he wants you to be a better version of yourself. Or is it because I have made up my mind to live with you for the rest of my life, so I find fault with you and hope that you will correct it, and then both parties will be more adaptable, and then life will be more harmonious in the future? Or is it just because he feels uncomfortable and thinks that your problems affect his own likes and dislikes, then you have to take a good test.