What if you don t have eloquence, you don t have guts? 10

Then practice your eloquence and courage, and know if you need to change the way you are. I don't think you have a reason to make up your mind to change, so you're asking, you know, we're just giving you advice at most. But whether you want to try it or not is up to you, either step out or be like now.

If you don't have the guts or eloquence, you try to find a place where no one is there to practice, set goals for yourself, and slowly change yourself. If you give others more time to practice, then it should change.

Eloquence requires you to think more and summarize more when you encounter problems, you have your own unique and in-depth understanding of things, you have these talents to say, the courage is **, what you want to say is very convincing, at least you think so, so you have the courage.

Then go to practice, from the first time you can't say a word at most, to slowly have something to say, as long as you muster up the courage to try, you can always break through yourself.

Read more books! Especially history, biographies or something, so that there is more talk about it, there is content, and there is eloquence!

Don't worry, no one can eat you. It's good to relax for a long time.

Guts are the most important thing! The mouth of the lotus flower will not necessarily be recognized by others, as long as you are sincere, it is good to work hard to say it.

True: Talking and making friends should be true (it is said to primary and secondary schools, high schools and universities, not social personnel).

In my personal experience, the first thing to do is to dare to speak, that is, to dare to speak in front of many people! This requires breaking through psychological barriers, although "street speeches" can break through people's psychological barriers, but this method will make people feel very painful, and many people can't bear it! According to my friend, there is a Xi'an Oral Communication School in Xi'an, which has "Crazy Eloquence Training", and their main teacher is Chen Jiarong, nicknamed "Stuttering King", which can make people unconsciously open their hearts in the process of happy learning!

It would be great if you could break through the psychological barrier and open the heart lock without pain! Secondly, we must be able to speak, that is, whether we speak for 10 minutes or 1 hour, in fact, many times we have nothing to say, because we dare not speak, afraid of speaking badly, afraid of others laughing, in fact, this is not confident enough! Many times we all love face and feel ashamed!

There is a saying that "shame, shame is growth and progress", and there is a better saying "Before a person succeeds, his face is worthless!" "Most of the time, people don't know us, it's just that we take ourselves too seriously! That's why I'm sorry!

Finally, I will say that this is the result of long-term study and cultivation, and life is full of learning! Just pay attention, and you will reap! In the part of speaking, we must do "talk to make people like".

I hope my sharing will help you a little bit, friends!

Courage is courage, everyone will have fear, but not everyone has the courage to face fear and overcome fear, to improve courage, what you need to constantly do is to break through what you dare not do, and take your time little by little.

Eloquence, eloquence needs to be exercised, and in normal times, you should communicate more with your friends and talk more. But it's not your communication that makes your eloquence better.

First of all, you have to overcome yourself, have the courage to face yourself, and overcome your fears, so that you can talk about eloquence.

The second is the technical problems when communicating, such as how to praise others, how to be at the same frequency with others, enter the heart of the opposite and so on.

It is recommended to have time to go to a professional eloquence training institution, and it is good to train.

Running business, doing sales, slowly the courage will be trained.

You can have it, you may not be able to practice it, it depends on your dedication and hard work.

Of course you can, you can practice it slowly.