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Anonymous users2024-02-11Hello, take a long-term view, after all, it is still a family, don't care, learn to be generous, learn to be patient, otherwise it is not good for your body! Trust you to do it! Hope!
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Around each of us, there will always be people we like and admire, and at the same time, there will definitely be people we hate and hate. What if it happens that the person you hate is under the same roof as you? Mindset matters!
You can't change others, so try to change yourself, let yourself be undisturbed, and live your own life!
1. Reduce contact.
Just because the two of you live together doesn't mean you have to have a lot of intersections. Each has its own way of life and its own living space, so it's important to maintain your independence. There is a saying that those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black, don't be disturbed by each other just because the two of you live together, so that you become the person you once hated.
2. Treat it calmly.
Since it is the person you hate, you must not be used to some of his ideas and practices. But be cautious and change your thinking, everyone has their own way of looking at things and dealing with things, and we can't force others to interfere just because we don't like them. Because Jane admires this, we need to adjust our mentality, we can disagree with his approach, but we don't need to force theory or even interference, so that we can face it with a normal heart and calmness.
3. Optimistic and positive.
A person's state of mind determines how we see things. Positive people can see the optimistic side, and pessimistic people can only see the dark side. Therefore, we must maintain an optimistic and positive attitude.
4. Self-habitation.
When habits become natural, we no longer let ourselves feel bad because of external factors. Habits are also a terrible thing that can make us ignore something, but it depends on how you develop habits, whether it's good or bad? Once you get used to it, you can face it very calmly.
5. Self-sublimation.
In the case of having to be in the same room, we can choose to expand ourselves, whether it is reading books or listening, it is a kind of self-sublimation.
You have to remember that when you hate others, they may hate you! We can look at the problem from a different perspective first, and maybe we can find a different problem from it!
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Don't interfere with each other, since you can't decide the environment you are in, you have to change your mentality, you can't be depressed because of the lack of acres for him to live with you, as long as you don't interfere, you can avoid more contradictions between you.
The best way is to stop following your father's example, and really do something for the family that can change the status quo and change the poverty that your father has brought to the family, so that you can also be qualified to talk to your father about some deep-seated problems.
Let's learn about doting and pampering.
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The relationship in high school can't stand the test, don't be so troubled, no one can stop you if you can really be together.